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  • Saif-Uddin
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    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

    Originally posted by Nawar View Post
    This is beyond the level of just giving advice to her, unfortunately, so it seems. He needs to consult a person of knowledge in his area, and seek advice on the best way of separating from her. No good can come of having a spouse in your home like this. You say 'affair', so this is an ongoing adulterous relationship? Are there any children in this family?
    Ditto,

    Nauzubillah min zaliq,

    :jkk:

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  • Salams2All
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    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

    Originally posted by Pippin1376 View Post
    I don't mean to defend him because he was wrong. A husband catching his falls under lee'an and not four witnesses. But I think when he said get three witnesses he meant that with them along with the husband would bring the total to four witnesses instead of just the one. Why any man would get three of his friends to watch his wife do something is beyond me but if Fiji wants to do that kind of thing then let him. By the time you find three people the wife would be done anyways.
    That would be embarrassing in every sense of the word.

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  • Pippin1376
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    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

    Originally posted by Nawar View Post
    Lol! FijiJudge you are sacked I'm afraid.
    I don't mean to defend him because he was wrong. A husband catching his falls under lee'an and not four witnesses. But I think when he said get three witnesses he meant that with them along with the husband would bring the total to four witnesses instead of just the one. Why any man would get three of his friends to watch his wife do something is beyond me but if Fiji wants to do that kind of thing then let him. By the time you find three people the wife would be done anyways.

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  • Fairy
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    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

    I do despair at times...

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  • nonameakhi
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    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

    Originally posted by Fairy View Post
    Men in this day and age have changed

    I know back in the day if a man had heard his wife was having an affair, all hell would break loose.
    not ''men'' sister, some of the comments are ludicrous

    under a khilafa the penalty is straight forward

    without it and the permission to defend you honour, wealth, home etc i think there would be some freshly dug earth in the garden

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  • nonameakhi
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    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

    wow

    to the people saying forgive and make up

    its zina

    I can understand those saying clarify, as even the mother of the believers Ayesha ra had a vile accussation aimed at her, so clarify

    with regards to forgiving, trusting again etc

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  • Fairy
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    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

    Originally posted by Musicisme656 View Post
    Lol....but that still happens today too........most of the time..
    Not according to the threads in this forum.

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  • Musicisme656
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    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

    Originally posted by Fairy View Post
    Men in this day and age have changed

    I know back in the day if a man had heard his wife was having an affair, all hell would break loose.
    Lol....but that still happens today too........most of the time..

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  • Fairy
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    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

    Originally posted by rahees abdulla View Post
    someone please tell me, one of my close friend is in a very bad and sad situation that his wife have an affair with someone
    and being an Islamic way of thinking he wants to know what is a most best way to advice his wife and how to
    be strong with eemaan.

    Respectfully
    Abdulla
    either divorce

    or talk to her, shes gta end it with him, and they gta resolve their issues

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  • Fairy
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    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

    Men in this day and age have changed

    I know back in the day if a man had heard his wife was having an affair, all hell would break loose.

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  • bint begum
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    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

    Originally posted by Nawar View Post
    Lol! FijiJudge you are sacked I'm afraid.
    That is why I told him to be quiet because he was saying stuff which was incorrect.

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  • Nawar
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    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

    Originally posted by Salams2All View Post
    :wswrwb:

    If he can work things out with her then he should and if he can't there's always divorce.



    1) it's 4 witnesses
    2) It's not that simple

    In the case of the husband finding the wife cheating they have the choice of doing liyaan, but there are no countries that rule by shariah so that idea's of the table.

    Lol! FijiJudge you are sacked I'm afraid.

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  • Musicisme656
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    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

    Originally posted by bint begum View Post
    Sometimes you should just be quiet.
    Different people would handle this differently. A more forgivable person might forgive her If she repents and is truly sorry (that guy would have to be a saint though). Another person might not be able to live with that and divorce her....just depends on the person, but he should still seek advise with his elders/parents/other senior citizens...
    Last edited by Musicisme656; 26-11-12, 10:53 PM.

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  • bint begum
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    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

    Originally posted by FijiMuslim View Post
    Get three witnesses and stone her!
    Sometimes you should just be quiet.

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  • Salams2All
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    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

    :wswrwb:

    If he can work things out with her then he should and if he can't there's always divorce.

    Originally posted by FijiMuslim View Post
    Get three witnesses and stone her!
    1) it's 4 witnesses
    2) It's not that simple

    In the case of the husband finding the wife cheating they have the choice of doing liyaan, but there are no countries that rule by shariah so that idea's of the table.

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