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  • #16
    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

    Originally posted by rahees abdulla View Post
    someone please tell me, one of my close friend is in a very bad and sad situation that his wife have an affair with someone
    and being an Islamic way of thinking he wants to know what is a most best way to advice his wife and how to
    be strong with eemaan.

    Respectfully
    Abdulla
    either divorce

    or talk to her, shes gta end it with him, and they gta resolve their issues
    My ♥ only lets الله‎ in

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    • #17
      Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

      Originally posted by Fairy View Post
      Men in this day and age have changed

      I know back in the day if a man had heard his wife was having an affair, all hell would break loose.
      Lol....but that still happens today too........most of the time..

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      • #18
        Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

        Originally posted by Musicisme656 View Post
        Lol....but that still happens today too........most of the time..
        Not according to the threads in this forum.
        My ♥ only lets الله‎ in

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        • #19
          Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

          wow

          to the people saying forgive and make up

          its zina

          I can understand those saying clarify, as even the mother of the believers Ayesha ra had a vile accussation aimed at her, so clarify

          with regards to forgiving, trusting again etc

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          • #20
            Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

            Originally posted by Fairy View Post
            Men in this day and age have changed

            I know back in the day if a man had heard his wife was having an affair, all hell would break loose.
            not ''men'' sister, some of the comments are ludicrous

            under a khilafa the penalty is straight forward

            without it and the permission to defend you honour, wealth, home etc i think there would be some freshly dug earth in the garden

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            • #21
              Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

              I do despair at times...
              My ♥ only lets الله‎ in

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              • #22
                Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

                Originally posted by Nawar View Post
                Lol! FijiJudge you are sacked I'm afraid.
                I don't mean to defend him because he was wrong. A husband catching his falls under lee'an and not four witnesses. But I think when he said get three witnesses he meant that with them along with the husband would bring the total to four witnesses instead of just the one. Why any man would get three of his friends to watch his wife do something is beyond me but if Fiji wants to do that kind of thing then let him. By the time you find three people the wife would be done anyways.
                وَإِذَا سَأَلَكَ عِبَادِي عَنِّي فَإِنِّي قَرِيبٌ أُجِيبُ دَعْوَةَ الدَّاعِ إِذَا دَعَانِ فَلْيَسْتَجِيبُواْ لِي وَلْيُؤْمِنُواْ بِي لَعَلَّهُمْ يَرْشُدُونَ
                "And when My servants ask you (O Muhammad concerning Me, then answer them), I am indeed near (to them by My knowledge). I respond to the invocations of the supplicant when he calls on Me (without any mediator or intercessor). So let them obey Me and believe in Me, so that they may be led aright."
                Surah al-Baqarah ayah 186
                [2:186]

                .:.
                .:. Perfer et Obdura : Dolor Hic Tibi Proderit Olim .:.
                Be patient and strong : someday this pain will be useful to you

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                • #23
                  Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

                  Originally posted by Pippin1376 View Post
                  I don't mean to defend him because he was wrong. A husband catching his falls under lee'an and not four witnesses. But I think when he said get three witnesses he meant that with them along with the husband would bring the total to four witnesses instead of just the one. Why any man would get three of his friends to watch his wife do something is beyond me but if Fiji wants to do that kind of thing then let him. By the time you find three people the wife would be done anyways.
                  That would be embarrassing in every sense of the word.

                  Ibn Umar was asked, �Did the sahaba laugh?� He said, �Yes, and the faith in their hearts was like mountains.�

                  "You can not be the ummah that will call the world to goodness if you hate everybody else" - Nouman Ali Khan

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                  • #24
                    Re: if someone find a sin done by his wife how to respond

                    Originally posted by Nawar View Post
                    This is beyond the level of just giving advice to her, unfortunately, so it seems. He needs to consult a person of knowledge in his area, and seek advice on the best way of separating from her. No good can come of having a spouse in your home like this. You say 'affair', so this is an ongoing adulterous relationship? Are there any children in this family?
                    Ditto,

                    Nauzubillah min zaliq,

                    :jkk:
                    http://www.ilovepalestine.com/campai...imesinGaza.gif

                    "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

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