I was wondering if it's permissible to adopt kids instead of give birth to your own. Breastfeeding isn't a problem because there are pills that make women lactate (breastfeeding the child makes them mahram). I'm definitely thinking of adopting instead of having my own kids, even though I'm perfectly capable of having my own. I think that there are already so many children born into this world without parents who don't ever learn the deen, and why bring extra ones into this world when I can save souls that were already born :)
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Re: Adopting instead of having kids
Originally posted by inprogress View PostYou will likely eventually get the urge to have one bore right from your body. It is an experience worth having.
If I somehow develop those feeling, I'll have kids (which I highhhhly doubt). I was asking if it was permissible to adopt.
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You can take care of orphans, but it is not considered the same as your own child in terms of lineage, inheritance, and relationships. I am not sure if it is permissible to decide not to have any kids without a valid reason.Blessed is He in Whose Hand is the Dominion, and He is Able to do all things. (67.1)
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She doesn't have to be married to adopt, at least this is what i have been told. Im thinking the same even if my mum is going to kill me ever after.
Adoption is so abandoned, then you have people crying over gays adopting without doing their duty towardds their brethrenMy Blog http://historyeyesopened.tumblr.com/ Watch out sister Nousername :o
Ummah forum mentality depiction by BBC (warning) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LS37SNYjg8w
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Originally posted by Massilia View PostShe doesn't have to be married to adopt, at least this is what i have been told. Im thinking the same even if my mum is going to kill me ever after.
Adoption is so abandoned, then you have people crying over gays adopting without doing their duty towardds their brethren
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Originally posted by MoMo. View PostI presumed she was talking about after marriage because you can't really have a kid when you are single.My Blog http://historyeyesopened.tumblr.com/ Watch out sister Nousername :o
Ummah forum mentality depiction by BBC (warning) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LS37SNYjg8w
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am sorry but you're willing to take pills to make you lactate but wouldn't go thru producing milk the natural way? some of these pills are known to have side effects..
have you thought about fostering orphans? adopting a child won't really make them your own you know
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Re: Adopting instead of having kids
Originally posted by [email protected] View Postam sorry but you're willing to take pills to make you lactate but wouldn't go thru producing milk the natural way? some of these pills are known to have side effects..
have you thought about fostering orphans? adopting a child won't really make them your own you know
Some people just don't want to go through the process of having children. I, myself, don't like the idea of having kids but I would definitively adopt. Some people just don't have the urge to have their own children. :P
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