Question about masterbation

[drac16]

Re: Question about masterbation

how many desperate young men are going to write the same thing.

Relax. Pornography and masturbation are things that a lot of people struggle with and it's very embaressing to ask for advice in these areas (even anonymously). You should praise Allah that this brother even wants to stop doing it-- many people are slaves to their desires and go on without a care in the world.

[drac16]

Re: Question about masterbation

:wswrwb:

I don't see any reason why it would be permissible, because it's nearly impossible to masturbate without having images of a certain man/woman in your mind. Masturbation is a kin to running into lust and we're told in the Qu'ran not to lust (lower your gaze). There's a famous hadith where a young man essentially asks the same question to the Prophet; and the Prophet said that you should fast. If masturbation was the right thing to do in that situation, he would have said so. Lust may not be as severe as fornication, but it's a sexual sin nonetheless.

[.mirror.]

Re: Question about masterbation

Salaam,
If you are unable to marry and you are full of testosterone, is it true that you are allowed to masterbate to avoid zina?

:wswrwb:

No, you are not. Try fasting.

[Themadeer]

Re: Question about masterbation

How old are you!?
Have you thought of marriage
Or fasting

I'm 18 with no job and no girl seems to want to marry me

[sweetstar]

how many desperate young men are going to write the same thing.

It's really difficult, it's gone so far that i've been thinking of old men with shorts on just to stop the urges of masterbation (embarrassing I know) but it's been working. This urge has gone so serious that it's distracted me from salah too.

How old are you!?
Have you thought of marriage
Or fasting

[Themadeer]

Re: Question about masterbation

how many desperate young men are going to write the same thing.

It's really difficult, it's gone so far that i've been thinking of old men with shorts on just to stop the urges of masterbation (embarrassing I know) but it's been working. This urge has gone so serious that it's distracted me from salah too.

[sweetstar]

how many desperate young men are going to write the same thing.

[Themadeer]

Salaam,
If you are unable to marry and you are full of testosterone, is it true that you are allowed to masterbate to avoid zina?