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  • *hijab*
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    Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
    That sounds so wrong. :rotfl:

    He's a brother. :p
    ooops!

    bad idea....don't stick with the ladies...don't listen to my advice! sun999

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  • sameera
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    Islam does not allow free intermingling with the opposite gender.
    Allah has placed a natural inclination for members of the opposite gender.You should not be alone with any female/s as the Shaitan will mislead you to commit sin.
    You should command towards good, prohibit from evil,protect your gaze, tongue etc. from evil.

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  • .mirror.
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    Originally posted by *hijab* View Post
    :wswrwb:

    just stick with the ladies.
    That sounds so wrong. :rotfl:

    He's a brother. :p

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  • ffd114
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    how about indirect interaction like internet chatting? the rules still apply right? what should I answer if someone denied it by telling me the reason that when in indirect interaction we didn't have to gaze each other.

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  • *hijab*
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    :wswrwb:

    just stick with the ladies.

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  • al-siddiq
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    Originally posted by sun999 View Post
    Asslmoalikum !

    This is a common issue, and I didn't find any thing helpful so I choose Ummah :)

    Now my question is, as in the university life, boys and girls interact with each other, related to studies, they discuss all about study. some times they discuss other things which are not related to studies, like My mother cooks very well, or I have 5 sisters, or you know what happened last night, we went to hotel for a dinner.

    Means they do not talk any kind of slang things, but as We all know who is Mehram and non Mehram. So, is this allowed?

    I need reply with complete reference from Quran or Hadith.
    Wa Aalaikum Assalam

    Read this inshAllah:

    http://islamicsystem.blogspot.com/20...to-mixing.html

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  • .mirror.
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    http://islamqa.com/en/ref/27304

    Originally posted by sun999 View Post
    And A reference for that,
    Thank you for understanding

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  • sun999
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    And yes, I want to enable email notification for this forum, But I didn't found the option

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  • sun999
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    And A reference for that,
    Thank you for understanding

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  • .mirror.
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    Just for works, yeah.

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  • sun999
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    So it means, We can talk just for work?

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  • .mirror.
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    ↑Agree.

    The thing is, Allah has forbidden us from even going near the haram. So, even talking without a proper need is not permissible. Even for those who work in a mixed environment, they are not allowed to have a useless, unrelated, chat with a non-mahram co-worker. Of course, going to their house is out of the question; you aren't even allowed to go to a restaurant with them for lunch.

    The best thing to do is to make it clear as soon as possible, that you are an honorable man, who's here to do his job and not spend time on vain talks. Do your job, talk to them if it's related to the work, then go home.

    Of course, you can talk to other men, though.

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  • Excuse_me
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    Originally posted by sun999 View Post
    Thanks for replies, actually I am a boy! and other than study, we deal our female friends as a male (i.e. no attraction, no slangs, nothing) but yes, as they are female so we avoid handshaking we even don't look at them, we talk on study but our eyes are on books, and if she or he is telling there stories that are not related to studies even though we look down (they also do the same), But I've heard that Muslims can follow trend but in limits.
    So I'm a bit confused with all this, Now days, women also work in offices, they also do talk with there fellows which are not related to their work. They even call their co-workers on dinner in their homes (but they are married)
    What I am asking is, What is the instruction of Islam if boy and girl chit chat like as I mentioned above, So then what? If they have nothing in their minds , no attraction, no such type things, but still they remain in limits,


    And P.s tell me who to enable email notification for the post
    Asalamu Alaikum,

    We have to remember that Islam clearly has no flaws but that doesnt mean many Muslims are flawless. So it's very unfortunate today but this is very common amongst many Muslims. We shouldn't base how we practice our religion by the way others practice it but we should try to see what the Quran and Sunnah tells us about these kinds of situations. Solliquy above gave a great answer. Unless you're speaking for a specific reason there shouldnt be any discussion amongst the two. Even if there is no attraction the ultimate goal is to prevent even the slightest attraction amongst people who are non mehrem. Limit your interaction to your studies and end it at that, insha'Allah. May Allah reward you for trying to practice your deen to the best of your ability.

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  • naila-k
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    slippery slope
    thin end of the wedge
    etc etc

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  • sun999
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    Thanks for replies, actually I am a boy! and other than study, we deal our female friends as a male (i.e. no attraction, no slangs, nothing) but yes, as they are female so we avoid handshaking we even don't look at them, we talk on study but our eyes are on books, and if she or he is telling there stories that are not related to studies even though we look down (they also do the same), But I've heard that Muslims can follow trend but in limits.
    So I'm a bit confused with all this, Now days, women also work in offices, they also do talk with there fellows which are not related to their work. They even call their co-workers on dinner in their homes (but they are married)
    What I am asking is, What is the instruction of Islam if boy and girl chit chat like as I mentioned above, So then what? If they have nothing in their minds , no attraction, no such type things, but still they remain in limits,


    And P.s tell me who to enable email notification for the post

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