how do u sensitively tell sum1 YOU NEED SPACE

[weird]

i have a friend who lately is around me 24/7. she now sleeps in my room too. her room is next door, but she has conveniently moved all her sleeping stuff into my room , and just stays in my room all day, maybe nipping out to her room for a minute here and there to grab something. other then that she's always in my room. i can't breathe, and she's messy which messes up my whole room.

I don't wanna hurt her feelings, so what should I do.

[abooo]

Re: how do u sensitively tell sum1 YOU NEED SPACE

you stay in uni halls???

why does she not use her room. just go in her room and stay there

[Zesty]

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Tell her in a jokey yet "im making a real point and meaning it" way that you think shes too messy for you and you need the space in your room. Why on earth is she in your room anyway, is there somethign wroing with her room? is she scared of something?i mean why wiould any sane normal person leave their entire room to camp in yours-lovely as u are im sure :D

[NGE]

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nvm

[islam4u]

Re: how do u sensitively tell sum1 YOU NEED SPACE

i have a friend who lately is around me 24/7. she now sleeps in my room too. her room is next door, but she has conveniently moved all her sleeping stuff into my room , and just stays in my room all day, maybe nipping out to her room for a minute here and there to grab something. other then that she's always in my room. i can't breathe, and she's messy which messes up my whole room.

I don't wanna hurt her feelings, so what should I do.

Nobody likes a shadow. There was one kid in High school who followed me until my college days. His name was Umar Chaudhary. The biggest BS you'd ever meet on this planet. He used to tell stories how his Dad worked for Microsoft when in reality he worked in a factory, how he had a Levis Jean factory when in reality it was Lifestyle Jeans, how he had Rockport shoes when in reality they were Rockford. His lies would go on until the cows come home. But he was a bloody laugh with his Asian Afro, I've never in my life seen an Asian man with an afro until he met me. lol

[weird]

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no not uni, hospital accomodation and the rooms are so tiny i get sooo frustrated wen she's just dere ALL flippin DAY

im dreadin goin home now, as i know shell just be dere. i have no problem wid her but imagine sum1 being around 24/7, i jus need sum privacy for like couple hours man :(

[noobz]

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strap a bomb and scare her back to her room .

[shikran]

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strap a bomb and scare her back to her room .

wa wa.. if the bomb goes off thn .???

[noobz]

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wa wa.. if the bomb goes off thn .???

we win?

[.mirror.]

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:salams
Tell her that you'd be praying, so you need the room by yourself.

And, do go pray, so it won't count as lying.

[uncle umar]

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tell her you like your own space every now and then.

simple as that.

if she dont like it, then u can tell her to GTFO before you do something to make her get out.

lat her cool down them make up, come to an understanding. life is good.

[IbnulQayyim]

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have good aadaab whilst doing it with hikmah.

telling straight up sometimes can hurt certain peoples feelings.

[.mirror.]

Re: how do u sensitively tell sum1 YOU NEED SPACE

tell her you like your own space every now and then.

simple as that.

if she dont like it, then u can tell her to GTFO before you do something to make her get out.

lat her cool down them make up, come to an understanding. life is good.

Oh boy.

[uncle umar]

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Oh boy.

well what kind of friend is that?

if they are really your friend then they will accept that you like your personal space. so you shouldent even have to be rude or blunt.

but i mean if they dont get the point then you gotta make it 100% clear where you stand.

and i have never been in a situation where i literally have had to say something like that to somone.

[.mirror.]

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No, I meant the GT*O part. :p

I, personally, would be very reluctant to say anything, but that's just me. I know some people can say it very easily by being blunt, or even assertively. It's like a skill.