Asalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu
Family, not distant relatives or even cousins, but behind those closed doors, inside your home, the ones you've grown up with, the ones whom you've laughed, cried an argued with, the ones who've brought things for you an likewise you've brought things for. These individuals you're so close to know your habits and your character.
Your mother, father, brother/s and sister/s. These are the ones i'm talking about. Your close-knit family. Allah has placed rahma and love between our hearts so it is natural for us to care for them in one way or another.
Most importantly, care not for their dunya but for their akhira. Give them success and the best in the akhira. You want the utmost goodness for them in al-akhira and you don't want any evil or pain or punishment for any of them.
How? What to do? You cannot not care for their akhira. So i ask you what can i do to help my family. I can't not care no matter what i do (i've tried that).
The haram and halal are known. You/I know few causes and stimulants which lead to disobedience and are tools of shaytaan i.e music, tv etc but getting rid of them isn't the way to go as they can easily be replaced.
The root is their heart, installing iman, love for Allah and His Messenger :saw:, to soften the heart, that's the key.
But how? How can i/we help our families?
May Allah guide us and keep us firm upon His guidance and keep our families far from any punishment or evil in the grave or akhira ameen.
Family, not distant relatives or even cousins, but behind those closed doors, inside your home, the ones you've grown up with, the ones whom you've laughed, cried an argued with, the ones who've brought things for you an likewise you've brought things for. These individuals you're so close to know your habits and your character.
Your mother, father, brother/s and sister/s. These are the ones i'm talking about. Your close-knit family. Allah has placed rahma and love between our hearts so it is natural for us to care for them in one way or another.
Most importantly, care not for their dunya but for their akhira. Give them success and the best in the akhira. You want the utmost goodness for them in al-akhira and you don't want any evil or pain or punishment for any of them.
How? What to do? You cannot not care for their akhira. So i ask you what can i do to help my family. I can't not care no matter what i do (i've tried that).
The haram and halal are known. You/I know few causes and stimulants which lead to disobedience and are tools of shaytaan i.e music, tv etc but getting rid of them isn't the way to go as they can easily be replaced.
The root is their heart, installing iman, love for Allah and His Messenger :saw:, to soften the heart, that's the key.
But how? How can i/we help our families?
May Allah guide us and keep us firm upon His guidance and keep our families far from any punishment or evil in the grave or akhira ameen.
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