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  • 1MuslimByChoice
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    There has to be someone whom you can send a text or give a call to help you on track. Find someone to help you. May Allah give you good company ameen. Even on Ummah, a brother you can email an ask to check up on you inshaAllah.

    @Tipusultan- subhanAllah same thing has been said to me. That this only a phase that i'll get over it soon (i ask Allah to not make it just a phase ameen)

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  • IbnulQayyim
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    hahahahha @naila_k

    @1Muslim -

    There is not much good company here. The majority of youth act pious but when it will come to others and I do da'wah its suddenly not haram. Anyways, I can't even stay in the company of the 'Ulamaa, they are too busy here to even have time for the local community. Maybe its an indication that I should ask Deeni questions to the Raafidah instead of the Sunnis, I guess.

    Anywayz, up I'ma not open ma mouth

    Nor am I willing to give up or make some sacrifice for shaitani relatives and communities.
    Thobe only.

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  • TipuSultan
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    Little test for you my brother.

    When i first started practising all my friends disappeared because i was no longer compatible with them, people i had known for years. ALLAH replaced them with pious company.

    When i wore my Turban, my parents and family didnt want me to. A year later they encouraged me to wear it.

    My lower garment was above my ankles. People questioned this and mocked me. Eventually they ended up raising their lower garment above the ankles to the extent where a non muslim lady at work asked me why it was i gave her the reasoning why men raised their lower garment and she raised hers lol and i told her to put it back down its different for women.

    At a party an aunty told me to remove my hat because it "didnt look good" at the party, i didnt remove it. Now her son wears a hat and her husband too.

    When i started practising some male members of my family sat and mentioned that " its only a phase he's going through". ALLAH gave me the ability to practise Islam for 11 years till today and inshALLAH forever. AlhamduLILAH. And now they ask me take their children to mosque.

    there are countless other examples in my life i can give. But whats the purpose of me saying all this? Continue to practise and lead with example. The beauty of Islam will overcome them.

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  • 1MuslimByChoice
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    :wswrwb:

    Brother, this is the beginning. Glad tidings to the strangers. The dunya isn't the home of the believers. Janaah, meeting Allah, the akhira is our final destination and belongs to us.

    It is sad, hurtful and it can kill you inside because you're doing nothing wrong, just following the orders of Allah. Nothing wrong or dangerous or harmful in your actions yet you're being picked on for things everyone should be doing. Things which we were supposedly brought up to do and when we adhere to it by the guidance and will of Allah, it's like we're doing something wrong.

    How did i deal with it? Well i found some sisters and stuck close to them, got advice from them, asked them for practical things i could do etc. Also, and most importantly the Quran. I cannot stress how important reading/understanding/reciting/seeking comfort in the Quran is. Take a portion per day to understand and read. It is the only truthful and practical advice for anyone. You'll come across ayaat which will give you strength, advice and ayaat which will put your situation in perspective.

    I say hang in there, remain firm, don't give anything up regarding your deen for anyone. An don't argue either, just say/make your point and if it'll get heated apologise (even if you're not in the wrong, i've noticed how effective it is) and zip your lips. Ask Allah for strength and in sajda ask Allah to keep you firm upon Islam and to never turn to heart away.

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  • Iqra15
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    Fathuuba lil ghurabaa' [Blessed are the ghuraba' (those strange people)]

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  • naila-k
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    oit wasnt me ?

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  • mundo
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    The more you think through these things in your head the more it will drive you nuts.

    You do things for the sake of Allah. Khlas

    Prophet SAW use to get a lot of critcism form Ahl-e Makkah. Allah comforted him in the Quran saying "do not pay any heed to them" - not the exact verse but meanings the same.

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  • Uthmani
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    I think a good course of action would be to ignore those comments, at least you don't have to put up with your own mother calling you a terrorist like in my case. It's a sad thing really.

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  • IbnulQayyim
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    when did I say anything about du'a !!!

    Anywayz, I think I shud talk to my Mufti here and other Imam about my family issues, wife beating, and all that, but they don't give a dumb crap about it.
    So I'd have to seek some other city's 'Ulamaa.

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  • .mirror.
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    Originally posted by IbnulQayyim View Post
    lolz, do u vanna do some bro swapping and live here for a day
    What's so hard about making Dua'a??

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  • IbnulQayyim
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    Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
    Vibes?

    Don't judge them on vibes. Give them benefit of the doubt. :insha:
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    lolz, do u vanna do some bro swapping and live here for a day

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  • adri
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    brother say aoudhu billahi mina shaytan irajeem

    InshaAllah they change their ways

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  • .mirror.
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    Vibes?

    Don't judge them on vibes. Give them benefit of the doubt. :insha:
    And make Dua'a abundantly for their guidance.

    May Allah make it easy for you and guide your family to the Straight Path.

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  • IbnulQayyim
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    I'm pis.sed because my own blood family, agrees with that lady indirectly.

    No lie nor exaggeration intended here.

    For example, I am listening to the Khutbah of Fadeelatus Shaykh, Shaykh ash-Shuraim's Friday Khutbah of yday, its in 'arabi, I don't get it, but I like to listen i feel kind of nice and i understand some stuff very little.

    For listening to arabic ill get vibes from them that "dude u dumladen watcha doing in that frock, man up, jean up till ur butt homie"

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  • adri
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    These comments of terrorism will always come no matter what we do
    But you need to be patient with them and make dua ... May Allah help them have kind hearts ,Ameen

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