How common are family fights in your family?

[muslimah20]

Salams

I can hear my sister and mother arguing right now, they both have such similar personalities, they know how to keep fighting non stop!! Its just so sad to hear it. Its so depressing.

[islam4u2]

Re: How common are family fights in your family?

May Allah (swt) reconcile your family and bring Rehma between your Mother and Sister.

[-MA-]

Re: How common are family fights in your family?

Sister, stop all things like music in your house if it is played. Play Qur'an recordings, recite Surah Al-Baqarah, remove photos from the wall.. This will invite the Angels of mercy to your house in'sha'Allah.

[naila-k]

Re: How common are family fights in your family?

i used to always fight with my mum, even now if we spend more then a few days together, 3max we fight, since i have been muslim its been a lot better, another thing that helps is not being so much together as in married and out...

[noobz]

Re: How common are family fights in your family?

good thing i got my own space in my house. Soon i shall have my own place to crash :hidban::hidban:

[IbnulQayyim]

Re: How common are family fights in your family?

Salams

I can hear my sister and mother arguing right now, they both have such similar personalities, they know how to keep fighting non stop!! Its just so sad to hear it. Its so depressing.

its every single day without a fail. Each 2 hours.

No exaggeration.

[.mirror.]

Re: How common are family fights in your family?

Let's keep the fights in our houses and not discuss them here. :insha: We should rather discuss how to resolve them.

May Allah (swt) reconcile your family and bring Rehma between your Mother and Sister.

Ameen.

[Belinda89]

Re: How common are family fights in your family?

It is really an annoying thing. Sometimes, my family also have quarrels, however, we will calm down after a while. And all the members will sit around to analyse the reason.

[IbnulQayyim]

Re: How common are family fights in your family?

It is really an annoying thing. Sometimes, my family also have quarrels, however, we will calm down after a while. And all the members will sit around to analyse the reason.

lolz u guys actually do that. We don't xD it never ends. if i had a goOd job id move out

[loonietoonie]

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I just let my mom run over me. She knows I can do my laundry yet she'll do it just so she can yell at me for not doing it. LOL. She knows her kids have grown, but I think she wants me to have that "dependency" so I just let her have it. Nothing there to fight about.

"A person who is disrespectful to his parents, the one who keeps reminding (other) of his favors which he has done (him), and the one who is addicted to wine will not enter 'Al-Jannah' (Paradise). [Bukhari & Muslim].

Not worth talking back or raising your voice against them.

[noobz]

Re: How common are family fights in your family?

its every single day without a fail. Each 2 hours.

No exaggeration.

thats worse than mine

[IbnulQayyim]

Re: How common are family fights in your family?

Guess what, they are having one right now. Such idiotic fights. All because of one thing: Not following Islam. I can't even ignore. It freackin has ruined me because of their crap.

If only it was allowed to live in caves.

[.mirror.]

Re: How common are family fights in your family?

Guess what, they are having one right now. Such idiotic fights. All because of one thing: Not following Islam. I can't even ignore. It freackin has ruined me because of their crap.

Talk to them. :insha:
I know it sounds impossible and too far-fetched, butsince you have the ilm and they don't, you should try talking to them.

Or at least, make Dua'a.

[IbnulQayyim]

Re: How common are family fights in your family?

Talk to them. :insha:
I know it sounds impossible and too far-fetched, butsince you have the ilm and they don't, you should try talking to them.

Or at least, make Dua'a.

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[.mirror.]

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Alright then, just make Dua'a.