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  • Attiyah Abdul Hamid
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    Re: Why am I studying!?

    Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
    If she becomes a midwife, then she's not "really" working with men. It's true, though, that men will be around the environment, but it's not hands-on working with men.
    do visits to see mum and baby :D
    cute job

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  • .mirror.
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    Originally posted by Strict2TheSunna View Post
    It is NOT okay to work with men
    and you have to wear the Proper hijab, wich means not showing hte shape of your body.
    If she becomes a midwife, then she's not "really" working with men. It's true, though, that men will be around the environment, but it's not hands-on working with men.

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    Re: Why am I studying!?

    It is NOT okay to work with men
    and you have to wear the Proper hijab, wich means not showing hte shape of your body.

    So quit for the sake of Allah and stop listening to this stupid advice which is telling you to do haraam.
    The Prophet peace be upon him said "whoever leaves something for the sake of Allah, Allah will give him something better in return"

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  • Attiyah Abdul Hamid
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    madwife could be a midwife lOl

    sorry but it rhymes

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  • Bint-Al-Islam
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    Originally posted by Madwife View Post
    jazzakallah khayr sorry for the late reply. i had to leave for a night shift last night, so couldn't reply to the rest of the posts.

    am I on the wron track here, am I like stressing/making a fuss of nothing?

    I heared that hijaab has conditions, one of them being not wearing clothes that reveal your body shape. The uniform does exactly that. I don't think I'll be able to compromise on that.

    Forget the men issue for a bit, seen as some people here are saying that it's oke to work with men. most of the doctors i work with are men, but putting this issue aside, what about he clothes? if i can get around this i'd be fine!!!!!!!!!!
    you work in a night shift and work with men but you have a problem stuyding? :S


    so just you know is no OK to work with men.

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  • .mirror.
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    I heared that hijaab has conditions, one of them being not wearing clothes that reveal your body shape. The uniform does exactly that. I don't think I'll be able to compromise on that.
    What are/will they making/make you wear?

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  • Madwife
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    jazzakallah khayr sorry for the late reply. i had to leave for a night shift last night, so couldn't reply to the rest of the posts.

    am I on the wron track here, am I like stressing/making a fuss of nothing?

    I heared that hijaab has conditions, one of them being not wearing clothes that reveal your body shape. The uniform does exactly that. I don't think I'll be able to compromise on that.

    Forget the men issue for a bit, seen as some people here are saying that it's oke to work with men. most of the doctors i work with are men, but putting this issue aside, what about he clothes? if i can get around this i'd be fine!!!!!!!!!!

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  • Bint-Al-Islam
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    Originally posted by Madwife View Post
    working with the opposite gender, is haraam.
    taking your hijaab off is haraam.
    So why am I studying!?

    you dont have to do either to study.

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  • Attiyah Abdul Hamid
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    some jobs you find have men and women in a office together but each desk is indicidual and has its own kind of border by it so you cant really see the person unless you walk to or close past them.. my mum used to work somewhere like that and it was pretty good :)

    she had to answer phones at times, to order things etc... but as far as it goes that was it

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  • Supernova Nebula
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    A wara' person would avoid mixing of gender at all cost. but if you are strong enough, it's not a problem to work when you know what your limits are as far as interaction with the opposite sex is concerned. But some people can be really evil, there are office bullies, a targeted person would be brought down by fake allegations like close proximity -a disgustingly hormonal large boy was used to come to a woman's office with the intention to accuse her of khalwah - close proximity, her office room and computer invaded by a snaky woman. Good thing if the office was bugged and there's CCTV recording their stupidity.

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  • .mirror.
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    No, she's just confused, I think.
    Just needs a little push to the right direction.
    And, it's not totally haram to worth with men, as long as you mind your own bins. Plus, you don't have to work where they tell you to take off your hijab. Simple.

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  • Phoenix CG
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    Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
    Finish your degree. It'll be useful :insha:
    Plus, you have to teach your children up until they're in middle school. Men rarely do that.
    a strong mother is good for the kids...its important...

    but op sounds more annoyed at her religion than anything else...o.o

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  • Attiyah Abdul Hamid
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    ive been thinking the same thing. im currently at college so im going to finish my a levels and then finish my education... uni fees are rising to 9 grand a year and i cant afford that so deffo wont b goin uni as also youll b in a huge debt which will now have interest ontop :(

    ill just be a houswife lOl
    and try to get a job at a masjid Insha'Allah

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  • Kya
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    i had a friend who after her first year in collage became very concern about the same thing you are concern about. There was a semester where everday she talked about dropping out of school. Her logic was "whats the use, if I can't practice it? why waste my time?"

    She was very serious and we all found it hard to argue against her as well she had a point. The money used in univ education, the uncertain future, & doing it for islam (who could argue). The only reason she didn't drop out of school was due to her father who told her "u might hate me right now for not supporting your decision but later on you will appreciate it".

    Soon after she got over that phase & alhamdulillah she went thru medical school and is doing her last clinical right now. she is going to be a certified doctor with in a year.

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  • Ebony
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    Originally posted by Madwife View Post

    oke, i didn't know that, I thought you couldn't work with men regardless.

    when you say hijaab, do you mean they wear a 'abaaya? or do you mean the scarf?
    Headscarf

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