Being a new hijabi, starting afresh

[Ani_19]

Salaam,

I just want to say that i've started to wear the hijab and i love it! I changed my course this year at uni so all my peers are new to me, and i have to say i am struggling to fit in. I haven't made any friends yet and it's been two weeks since i've joined. I've always struggled to make any friends or i wouldn't have any, but that case was different as there was black magic on me and the family for over 10 years. I was afflicted with sihir again through some freshies at uni and i'm planning to get a transfer to another uni for my 2nd year, Insh'Allah. It was tough growing up around the time when i was afflicted with Sihir as i found it hard to settle down or adjust to new environments, dealing with people, letting people put me down and i think this has effected me socially too. Insh'Allah the curse has worn off, but me and my sister are still having some issues regarding our health and have some effects of the black magic traces on us. I'm performing ruqyah on myself because only Allah will cure me from this and i don't trust anyone else besides Allah :) I just keep having irrational fears about what's to come and i don't know if not making any friends is still due to black magic but i will beat this Insh'Allah! Please make dua for me and any advice on how easy settling down to uni life is will be appreciated, Jazak Allah Khairan :up:

[eternal journey]

Re: Being a new hijabi, starting afresh

Walaikum assalaam wa rahmatullah,

MashaAllah sis! :up: May Allah keep you steadfast and protect you from evil :love:.

[semasahin]

Re: Being a new hijabi, starting afresh

Wa alaikum assalam. (: I wish you the best dear and hope all your schooling goes well, insha'Allah. What are you studying?

[Ani_19]

Re: Being a new hijabi, starting afresh

Jazakhallah Ladies!! :) I have so much to look forward to and good things will come to those who are patient and have the right intentions. Insh'Allah life will get easier and normal now that i have the love, support and Guidance from Allah.

Wa alaikum assalam. (: I wish you the best dear and hope all your schooling goes well, insha'Allah. What are you studying?

I'm studying business with marketing sis, trying to organise a transfer to another uni for my second year Insh'Allah. Please remember me in your duas! Xx

[Aisha-2002]

Re: Being a new hijabi, starting afresh

MashAllah... a new hijabi!!!
Be steadfast in your love for Allah and He will protect you from the shaytan sis.
And if you are having a hard time, remember, Allah will never burden you with more than you can bear.

[IbnulQayyim]

Re: Being a new hijabi, starting afresh

Don't pay attention to what others think of you when you're wearing the Hijab. Cuz it will grow into being paranoid.
ur doing for Allah so what matters is what He sees.

[LailaTheMuslim]

Re: Being a new hijabi, starting afresh

Masha'allah, May Allah keep u away from evil, read surah falaq and nas on urself, plus play surah al baqarah in ur house

[bint begum]

Re: Being a new hijabi, starting afresh

Mashallah, well done sis :)

[Sirius]

Re: Being a new hijabi, starting afresh

Masha Allah.
May Allah keep you strong, He got you to this stage and He has the power to get you through the rest of what it is you're facing.

[.mirror.]

Re: Being a new hijabi, starting afresh

Alhamdulillah on wearing hijab. He guides whom He wills.
May Allah protect us from sihr and evil of this world.

[adri]

Re: Being a new hijabi, starting afresh

Masha'Allah :) Insha'Allah you make really good friends soon :) sometimes it takes time :)

[Muslimah81]

Re: Being a new hijabi, starting afresh

congratulations sis!! mashallah!!

it's most definitely an excellent step and from personal experience wearing hijab has definitely cemented certain aspects of my faith and encouraged me to strive harder.

may Allah strengthen you, ease your burdens and protect you from all evil, ameen.

[CloserThanVeins]

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Aww Mashallah!! I'm new to hijab too :inlove:
May Allah guide you and make it easy for you .. But seriously Sister don't be shy to approach people and chat to them. It's suprising how accepting people really are of the hijab, I was between years at uni I expected the worst but alhamdulillah my friends are all happy for me and respect my religion. At uni it just about being confident to talk to people. Join the Isoc and ask the sisters there to introduce to more sisters, be in good company.

Regularly recite dua's to protect you from black magic (ayat Al-Kursi, surat Al-Ikhlas, Al-Falaq and An-Nas) no evil can affect you when you have Allah to protect you.

[Aisha-2002]

Re: Being a new hijabi, starting afresh

Aww Mashallah!! I'm new to hijab too :inlove:
May Allah guide you and make it easy for you .. But seriously Sister don't be shy to approach people and chat to them. It's suprising how accepting people really are of the hijab, I was between years at uni I expected the worst but alhamdulillah my friends are all happy for me and respect my religion. At uni it just about being confident to talk to people. Join the Isoc and ask the sisters there to introduce to more sisters, be in good company.

Regularly recite dua's to protect you from black magic (ayat Al-Kursi, surat Al-Ikhlas, Al-Falaq and An-Nas) no evil can affect you when you have Allah to protect you.

welcome to you too new hijabi sis!!!!!
MashAllah it is so wonderful to hear when a sister wears hijab.

[Ani_19]

Re: Being a new hijabi, starting afresh

Aww thanks for the lovely comments everyone. :) I'll keep reminding myself that whatever i do is for the sake of Allah and that everything is temporary, friends come and go. Arsalan, good point and i completely agree with you on that note. I didn't wear the hijab so that people could perceive me as 'magically pious' lol. Ramadan this year and attending al maghrib lectures definately changed me - i became more practising, my iman increased and i did it for the sake of Allah so i can become closer to Him along with improving my character and my deen :love: