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  • How do you deal with people who complain to much?

    :salams

    Just wondering, how do you deal with people who complain too much and just talk and talk and never do anything?
    وَإِذَا سَأَلَكَ عِبَادِي عَنِّي فَإِنِّي قَرِيبٌ أُجِيبُ دَعْوَةَ الدَّاعِ إِذَا دَعَانِ فَلْيَسْتَجِيبُواْ لِي وَلْيُؤْمِنُواْ بِي لَعَلَّهُمْ يَرْشُدُونَ
    "And when My servants ask you (O Muhammad concerning Me, then answer them), I am indeed near (to them by My knowledge). I respond to the invocations of the supplicant when he calls on Me (without any mediator or intercessor). So let them obey Me and believe in Me, so that they may be led aright."
    Surah al-Baqarah ayah 186
    [2:186]

    .:.
    .:. Perfer et Obdura : Dolor Hic Tibi Proderit Olim .:.
    Be patient and strong : someday this pain will be useful to you

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    Re: How do you deal with people who complain to much?

    :wswrwb:

    After a while I just tune out and ignore them,or pretend to listen and do zikr or something.I don't know much people like that though :p
    احب الصالحين و لست منهم لعل الله يرزقني صلاح

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    • #3
      Re: How do you deal with people who complain to much?

      I agree with Zaitoon...I start to tune out. Some people are just like that, they always complain! It gets a bit tiring!

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        Re: How do you deal with people who complain to much?

        probably just complain that theyre always complaining :embar:

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        • #5
          Re: How do you deal with people who complain to much?

          Originally posted by Pippin1376 View Post
          :salams

          Just wondering, how do you deal with people who complain too much and just talk and talk and never do anything?
          Get Jeremy Kyle to sort them out!

          A better advice would be to get them to stop talking, meaning interrupt them. force them to listen to you. make sure they dont interrupt and then say, how many blessings have you been given, then start listing them better still write it down for them on paper and tell them to keep it. every time they want to complain tell them to look at the list. If all else fails then smack them on their head and tell them to be a man/ woman!
          "Verily Allah does not look to your appearance or wealth, but he looks to your hearts and your deeds." [Sahih Muslim, Vol. 4, #6221]

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