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  • #16
    Re: Im very shy and worthless(in this world).

    deleted the duplicate, sorry
    Last edited by Meek; 17-02-10, 09:18 AM.

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    • #17
      Re: Im very shy and worthless(in this world).

      deleted duplicate,
      Last edited by Meek; 17-02-10, 09:24 AM.

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      • #18
        Re: Im very shy and worthless(in this world).

        Slmz Brother,

        It sounds that you can speak english well, Alghamdullilah.
        and it apperars from your last post that you have a positive mindset and ready for the challenge.

        But I want to add is that :

        It is said that Nabi Musa AS also had a speech problem:

        26:13. "My breast will be straitened. And my speech may not go (smoothly): ..."

        and this was Nabi Musa AS Du'ah (Prayer):

        20:25. (Moses) said: "O my Lord! expand me my breast;
        20:26. "Ease my task for me;
        20:27. "And remove the impediment from my speech,
        20:28. "So they may understand what I say:


        I know it will help,

        Also brother,
        I appears that you may have a self-esteem problem,
        It's a common reaction that when an "abnormal" event (normally a tragic one) occurs in life then people can get introverted,
        Do some introspection and discover what's really going on in your mind,-every disease has it's medicine - even the psychological diseases :-)

        Only you can change your life:

        17:13. Every man's fate We have fastened on his own neck

        Make Du'ah for us all,

        Also something that can give you Hope is the narration of how Nabi Musa AS met his wife ,( Peace be upon them both) ,
        Read Sura Qasas 28 :-),

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        • #19
          Re: Im very shy and worthless(in this world).

          Originally posted by Meek View Post
          Slmz Brother,

          It sounds that you can speak english well, Alghamdullilah.
          and it apperars from your last post that you have a positive mindset and ready for the challenge.

          But I want to add is that :

          It is said that Nabi Musa AS also had a speech problem:

          26:13. "My breast will be straitened. And my speech may not go (smoothly): ..."

          and this was Nabi Musa AS Du'ah (Prayer):

          20:25. (Moses) said: "O my Lord! expand me my breast;
          20:26. "Ease my task for me;
          20:27. "And remove the impediment from my speech,
          20:28. "So they may understand what I say:


          I know it will help,
          That is deep indeed! ^^^

          I also wanted to add something. Islam is such a beautiful and complete way of life (thanks to the Lord of the Worlds)
          It teaches us, not to be shy in seeking knowledge, and to be arrogant! Neither extremety is good, Islam is the middleway!

          Although this is said about seeking knowledge, lessons can be extrapolated to other issues.

          Lastly, I have learnt something, you should never and you can never please everyone. Whatever you do, some will hate you for it, some may love you for it. So ... just strive in pleasing Allah, the one and only one.
          I say this because, I think it does help in improving one's self esteem; one of the main cause of lack of self-esteem being the fear of the opiniion of others on us.

          As for the language, it understandable, I know someone in the same situation, the person just try to say to herself
          "it is not my first language, neither is it my mother tongue, so it is just normal for me to make misatakes. I am still learning the language, the one who does not understand this, and belittles me because of this ..."

          And may peace and blessings of Allah be upon everyone here,

          Maryamitta

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          • #20
            Re: Im very shy and worthless(in this world).

            Originally posted by maryamitta View Post

            I also wanted to add something. Islam is such a beautiful and complete way of life (thanks to the Lord of the Worlds)
            It teaches us, not to be shy in seeking knowledge, and to be arrogant! Neither extremety is good, Islam is the middleway!
            * and not to be arrogant

            Originally posted by maryamitta View Post
            Lastly, I have learnt something, you should never and you can never please everyone. Whatever you do, some will hate you for it, some may love you for it. So ... just strive in pleasing Allah, the one and only one.
            This is so true !!! ^^^^

            Wa salamu alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatahu (and I do mean it)

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            • #21
              Re: Im very shy and worthless(in this world).

              my communication skills are terrible and i can not socialise. this is the only thing keeping me down in life. and i hate myself for it. (sorry for the negativity, but it is how i feel)
              There is a clock on your forehead counting down to the time of your death. Only Allah knows how many seconds are left on it

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              • #22
                Re: Im very shy and worthless(in this world).

                Originally posted by Rocky Balboa View Post
                Why is he named Abu, then?
                Abu is not just used to denote someone's father it's also used as a Kunya. I know an Abu who didn't have children and that was not his real name but just a Kunya:)

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                • #23
                  Re: Im very shy and worthless(in this world).

                  Originally posted by Rocky Balboa View Post
                  Why is he named Abu, then?
                  Abu Huraira's story is so amazing mashAllah. He was nicknamed Abu Huraira because of his love of kittens/cats...Huraira means kitten I think.

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                  • #24
                    Re: Im very shy and worthless(in this world).

                    Originally posted by ordinary_muslim View Post
                    Abu is not just used to denote someone's father it's also used as a Kunya. I know an Abu who didn't have children and that was not his real name but just a Kunya:)
                    You bumbed a thread over a year old just to say that ??
                    'Nor say of anything,"I shall be sure to do so and so tomorrow" without adding, " if Allah (SWT) Wills" (18:23-24)

                    QuranExplorer.com, where you can Listen to the Holy Recitation and Translation online in Arabic and English : http://www.quranexplorer.com/quran/ :)

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                    • #25
                      Re: Im very shy and worthless(in this world).

                      YOU SPEAK (WELL, WRITE) PERFECT ENGLISH :)
                      my first notice , so i dunno why you think you can`t speak good English!
                      NEver say you are worthless, you Do worth something , because you are a muslim who has a message in this world.you are a messenger and a presenter of ISlam , everyone of us is . MAshAllah being shy is something good my brother, it`s recommended in Islam , and regarding finding a girl , trust me you will find your future wife even if she was on MARS!!!!!! what Allah has written for us will happen despite our strengths , weaknesses or even our hardwork to get it . It is ALWAYS in the hands of Allah subhanahu wata`aalah ........ so be happy akhi and take things easily.
                      Jannah is my aim

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                      • #26
                        Re: Im very shy and worthless(in this world).

                        Being shy is one thing (it is a good thing) being confident is another.

                        Looks like you need a confidence booster. You need to believe in yourself. Have faith in yourself and trust in Allah.

                        Best way is to get out and mix with people. Try the masjid, study circles or something. Forget about what people say.

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                        • #27
                          Re: Im very shy and worthless(in this world).

                          Originally posted by Peacenik View Post
                          You bumbed a thread over a year old just to say that ??
                          I can ask the same question to you? :)

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                          • #28
                            Re: Im very shy and worthless(in this world).

                            This life of this dunya is short and temporary, Allah tests us in so many ways, some people are born with disabilities, some can't talk, can't hear, can't walk, can't see etc. but these are all tests for them and if they are patient and grateful to Allah, they will have a perfect life as their reward in the hereafter InshAllah.

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