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  • #16
    Re: saying salams in presence of the Mrs

    Originally posted by Ibn Khattab View Post
    salam alaikum

    say you randomly met a bro one day who was married, and he had his wife with him, shopping or having a look round whatever, would you walk up tp him and say salams to him?

    i know theres nothing wrong with it but i know some people may get embarassed or shy or whatever you get me.

    so would you?
    :salams

    veeeeeeeeeeeell if he sees me or greets me then yeh, but if he doesn't see me then no.



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    • #17
      Re: saying salams in presence of the Mrs

      exactly:)^

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      • #18
        Re: saying salams in presence of the Mrs

        I would tell the wife to take a hike and continue talking to my friend as long as i wish :D
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        • #19
          Re: saying salams in presence of the Mrs

          Originally posted by Ibn Khattab View Post
          salam alaikum

          say you randomly met a bro one day who was married, and he had his wife with him, shopping or having a look round whatever, would you walk up tp him and say salams to him?

          i know theres nothing wrong with it but i know some people may get embarassed or shy or whatever you get me.

          so would you?
          Just walk up and Salaam, - THATS ALL!....Don't get into a deep conversation. But isn't saying Salaam wajib anyway or is it just a sunnah?

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          • #20
            Re: saying salams in presence of the Mrs

            yep its ok to say salaam and say "buddy will catch you later" :)

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            • #21
              Re: saying salams in presence of the Mrs

              we just give salaam and move on. nothing more.
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              • #22
                Re: saying salams in presence of the Mrs

                Originally posted by Ibn Khattab View Post
                salam alaikum

                say you randomly met a bro one day who was married, and he had his wife with him, shopping or having a look round whatever, would you walk up tp him and say salams to him?

                i know theres nothing wrong with it but i know some people may get embarassed or shy or whatever you get me.

                so would you?
                Of course I would. And have done so. No one gets embarrassed over it. Some of them have become my family friends. Mrs and all.
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                • #23
                  Re: saying salams in presence of the Mrs

                  Originally posted by $HugoBoss$ View Post
                  I would tell the wife to take a hike and continue talking to my friend as long as i wish :D
                  As if
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                  • #24
                    Re: saying salams in presence of the Mrs

                    lol ibn k , u made a thread coz u saw us in TKmaxx right !!? lool ... yeh why not say salam, but like anna said , just dont make it a looooonnngg conversation :p
                    Abu Huraira (ra) narrated that the messenger of Allah (saw) said 'Beware of suspicion, for suspicion is the worst of false tales; and do not look at the faults of others, and do not indulge in spying on one another..do not be jealous of one another and do not hate one another, O Allah's worshippers! Be brothers' (Sahih Bukhari)

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                    • #25
                      Re: saying salams in presence of the Mrs

                      What would be the problem in saying salaams? It's the kind, brotherly thing to do, reguardless who was around.

                      :)

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                      • #26
                        Re: saying salams in presence of the Mrs

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                        Last edited by muslim_sis; 11-10-07, 10:33 PM.
                        Abu Huraira (ra) narrated that the messenger of Allah (saw) said 'Beware of suspicion, for suspicion is the worst of false tales; and do not look at the faults of others, and do not indulge in spying on one another..do not be jealous of one another and do not hate one another, O Allah's worshippers! Be brothers' (Sahih Bukhari)

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                        • #27
                          Re: saying salams in presence of the Mrs

                          loooooooooooooool man you guys give me jokes.

                          but yeh i wasnt sure whether to say salams init so like i decided not to so i just went home :D
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                          • #28
                            Re: saying salams in presence of the Mrs

                            Originally posted by Ibn Khattab View Post
                            loooooooooooooool man you guys give me jokes.

                            but yeh i wasnt sure whether to say salams init so like i decided not to so i just went home :D
                            lool i was tryna work out when exactly u saw us .. but thats freaky.. someone was watchin us but we didnt know :p
                            Abu Huraira (ra) narrated that the messenger of Allah (saw) said 'Beware of suspicion, for suspicion is the worst of false tales; and do not look at the faults of others, and do not indulge in spying on one another..do not be jealous of one another and do not hate one another, O Allah's worshippers! Be brothers' (Sahih Bukhari)

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                            • #29
                              Re: saying salams in presence of the Mrs

                              Originally posted by Ibn Khattab View Post
                              loooooooooooooool man you guys give me jokes.

                              but yeh i wasnt sure whether to say salams init so like i decided not to so i just went home :D
                              Since when did you become a stalker? :eek3:



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                              • #30
                                Re: saying salams in presence of the Mrs

                                It's sunnah to say salam if you see your brother..doesn't matter who he's with..

                                LOL @ sisters worrying about their husbands taking some long drawn out convo...
                                I don't think they'd mind u saying salam...and especially if you havent seen them in ages *hint hint*...LOL
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