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My parents keep having children, Im 20 years old now and it's embarrassing

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  • #46
    Originally posted by Kya View Post

    Of course it has been "accepted throughout history" just like it is being accepted in our time. What is the alternative, not accept & move out? People have babies at all age, back then and now too. With modern invention of birth control method, accidents happen less but intentional pregnancy happens all the time whether rest of the family agrees or not. It is between the couple to decide & Allah to grant them. The difference between then vs. now is people didn't think about siblings bonding. Bonding wasn't even a thing, compatibility, companionship was not something of importance then. There were also plenty of kids at all different age that one kid always had another sibling with in few years of each other for companionship. Oldest and youngest did not have to be best friends & buddies.
    Is bonding between siblings supposed to be a priority when deciding on kids?

    Isn't it more about bringing a child into this world and giving them the best possible upbringing to worship Allaah? (Sadqah Jariyah).


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    • #47
      Originally posted by Indefinable View Post

      Is bonding between siblings supposed to be a priority when deciding on kids?

      Isn't it more about bringing a child into this world and giving them the best possible upbringing to worship Allaah? (Sadqah Jariyah).

      thats not sadaqah jaariya

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      • #48
        Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post

        thats not sadaqah jaariya

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        • #49
          oh i thought u meant just having kids

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          • #50
            Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post

            oh i thought u meant just having kids
            Why do people have kids?

            -_-

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            • #51
              Originally posted by Indefinable View Post

              Why do people have kids?

              -_-
              for many reasons

              -_-

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              • #52
                tell abu shaja'ah
                i pm'd him

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                • #53
                  Women lost their modesty when men lost their gheerah..” .

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                  • #54
                    everyone try have atleast like 4 or 5 kids in sha Allah
                    then islam and the ummah will rise up once again


                    you never know one of your children could be the next umar ibn abdul aziz, salahudeen or ibn taymiyaa
                    intend to raise a mujadid

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                    • #55
                      Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post
                      tell abu shaja'ah
                      i pm'd him
                      Who is that addressed to?

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                      • #56
                        Originally posted by Indefinable View Post

                        Who is that addressed to?
                        who do u think
                        -_-

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                        • #57
                          sorry if that sounded rude
                          didnt intend to

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