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  • Can I watch porn if I won't marry?

    I know its indecent, but what's the alternative?

  • #2
    Not watching it.

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Owais View Post
      I know its indecent, but what's the alternative?
      What a question to ask. Part of me thinks you're a troll because the answer is so obvious, but another part of me thinks you're genuine because the overwhelming majority of men watch that filth.

      Obviously it's not allowed. In Islam we are commanded to lower our gaze and guard our modesty. Lowering the gaze does not only apply when you're in public. If it's Haraam to lustfully look at the opposite gender with their clothes on, then obviously it's even worse to gaze at someone committing Zinaa.

      The more appropriate question you could've asked was whether or not it was ok to practice onanism.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Owais View Post
        I know its indecent, but what's the alternative?
        Porn may inhibit you from marrying.
        The Prophet s.a.a.w warned when he said: "You will surely follow the ways of those who came before you, in exactly the same fashion, to the point were they to enter the hole of a lizard, you too would enter it." It was asked of him, "O Messenger of Allah s.a.a.w., do you mean the Jews and Christians?" He replied, "Who else?" (Bukhari and Muslim)

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Owais View Post
          I know its indecent, but what's the alternative?
          The Prophet(saws) said: “O young men, whoever among you can afford to get married, let him do so, and whoever cannot afford it, let him fast, for that will be a shield for him.” (Agreed upon, from the hadeeth of Ibn Mas’ood, may Allaah be pleased with him. (Al-Bukhaari, 4778; Muslim, 1400)

          If you're dedicated to Islam and you fear Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala, then fasting is your alternative option. You could try fasting the fast of Dawood(as), which is to fast every other day. Also, you should avoid eating meat daily because that increases one in sexual desires.

          May Allah make it easy for you.
          Last edited by AmantuBillahi; 09-11-18, 01:03 AM.

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          • #6
            It might seem like the alternative but it's not.

            You'll watch it a few times and think it has satisfied you. Convincing yourself that you've found the solution.

            Soon enough the addiction will start, it's quite serious, people underestimate the damage it does to the mind.

            It's inhumane, it's not normal at all. That is why some people have strange desires and fantasies. They're surpassing animals.

            I know it might be really hard but save yourself and remember don't go near Zina. The emphasis on don't even go near is there for a reason. Once you open the corruption, your soul will suffer.

            Of course this might sound dramatic for the sick society we live in, that's always chanting and calling for Zina.

            Everything is surrounded with that three lettered word. No peace.

            I go on YouTube and there will always be some sort of tarty thing selling itself.

            Keep your mind clean, your eyes clean, your heart clean, don't deliberately welcome the devil in your heart.

            Porn is temporary relief but it's your long term enemy, you'll end up killing yourself.

            Use your time wisely, make friends at the mosque, why not just sit at the mosque just so your mind doesn't wonder.

            I wish you all the best
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            'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

            So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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            • #7
              Porn is destructive to society

              So many marriages have been destroyed

              Learn self control, discipline, be your own hero by helping yourself to be 'pure' and please Allah.

              'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

              So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Owais View Post
                I know its indecent, but what's the alternative?
                you know its Haraam, but your still trying to justify this filth?

                نعوذ بالله من ذلك

                Stop behaving like some Sick Pervert,

                Fix yourself up and Get married, and if you can't, then fast, as Rasul صلى الله عليه السلام mentioned, it diminishes sexual desires.

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                "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

                – Imam al-Shafi’i (Rahimahullah)

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Owais View Post
                  I know its indecent, but what's the alternative?
                  No. And you know this.

                  Okay it's become normalised, just about every kafir youth, and huge numbers of Muslims do it, but they do plenty of other sins also get committed by many others and Allah never uses the majority as a proof, quite the opposite in fact.

                  And if you obey most of those upon the earth, they will mislead you from the way of Allah. They follow not except assumption, and they are not but falsifying.
                  Quran translation, Surah al-Anaam, 6:116

                  So don't ask us to justify your haram choices, don't think you'll get away with this even if you can find a hundred people to tell you that you are right to think this way, even a hundred scholars. You would still be wrong, so would they.

                  So make tawbah, turn back to Allah, practice the deen, lower your gaze, not just physically but on a higher level in your mind and life, in everything you do. Also as others have mentioned fast, and not just fast from food and drink but from the evils of the world.
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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Owais View Post
                    I know its indecent, but what's the alternative?
                    Assalamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh,

                    Do you know the power of Dua? Dua is a weapon of a believer!

                    Only through the Mercy of Allah Azza Wajal we can come through our hardships. Seeking forgiveness is one of the ways to earn the mercy of Allah azza wajal. Also, did you know - One of Allah Azza Wajal name is "Ar-Raqeeb" - He is the All-and-Ever-Watchful, observing everyone's actions, thoughts, and feelings. Ar-Raqeeb is also The Controller; preserving and organizing the affairs of creation with the perfect planning!

                    I'd like to kindly share this Dua for Protection from Unlawful Desires

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                    Arabic to English: Allahummagh-fir zam-bee wa ṭah-hir qal-bee, wa ḥaṣṣin far-jee


                    Meaning: O Allah forgive my sin, cleanse my heart and guard my chastity.

                    Learn More: https://www.duasrevival.com/supplications/protection/dua-protection-unlawful-desires


                    Please remember us in your Duas.

                    Jazakallahu Khair,
                    DR
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