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  • #76
    Originally posted by Rumaysah~ View Post

    If they're both ok with two people contributing, what is wrong with that, it's their marriage, not yours. You focus on what concerns you. If your definition of manhood is earning a small wage, not allowing the wife to work and moving her in to your tiny bedroom in your parent's house, then that's you lol.

    One of the reasons out of the 4 that a woman is married for, is for her money. There's nothing wrong with that as long as deen and character are a priority.

    Abdullah ibn masood's wife asked if she could give her sadaqah to her husband. And she was told she could. Does that make him less of a man for taking his wife's charity? Of course it doesn't. Get out of this black and white way of thinking.
    you misunderstood,

    If she contributes out of her own choice different matter.

    If the man demands/expects wife to pay up, hes a diagrace.

    Allah عز و جل placed financial responsibilities of food, clothing, shelter etc on the man.

    "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

    – Imam al-Shafi’i (Rahimahullah)