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  • #61
    Originally posted by Janna90 View Post

    Thanks for trying to help sis, but people will only see what they choose to see. Clearly sister_2009 is not here to help and I would rather she didn't comment on my thread.
    I'm not as knowledgeable as Sister_2009, so I'm really not able to give you practical advice. But I do know that you're looking in the wrong place for a religious brother. As I said earlier, your friends may have irreligious connections and the online world is known to be deviant. You need find brothers who attend the central Masjid in your city. Brothers who are upon the Sunnah and who desire living that lifestyle.

    Don't forget that you're in the West. This isn't Makkah or Medina. The average Muslim here isn't going to meet the height of religious standards. This goes for both men and women. Especially women actually, but let's not open up that door.

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    • #62
      Originally posted by Janna90 View Post

      Noo thats not what I mean at all.

      I dont care if there just making ends meet or how much they earn. you completely misunderstood what am saying. Its the men that are not content with what they make so they ask me to work so i can contribute. There's nothing wrong with helping out your husband of course. But they want a household where am working and contributing, they dont want to be the breadwinner.
      Man expecting to leech of wifes money?

      Hmm...

      I'm pretty sure most men dont do that, at least not the ones practicing their deen.

      Why are you looking at marrying impotent men?

      A man who does not want to be a breadwinner, isnt a man in the first place.

      Theres a phrase in Urdu which deacribea them,

      Joru Ka Ghulam

      They are a diagrace, you should look for an upright muslim man to marry.

      Instead of making wild generalisations
      Last edited by Saif-Uddin; 18-10-18, 07:18 PM.
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      • #63
        Originally posted by Janna90 View Post
        People are misunderstanding what am saying, I will not comment any further.
        YouYou been influenced by the Feminazi brigade and went nuts generalising.

        Enough said.
        Last edited by Saif-Uddin; 18-10-18, 07:18 PM.
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        • #64
          Originally posted by Janna90 View Post

          Right, so you ask me questions just so you can come back and insult me? Thats just immature. Dont you have anything else better to do then come here and comment on people's marriage search.
          I didnt insult you. You called majority muslim men lazy and i challenged you.

          Dont make claims when you cant back it up.

          If you just said you were unimpressed with men you met for marriage, none of this would be necessary.
          "They are Shuhadaa (witnesses) to the fact that this Deen is greater than life, that values are more important than blood and that principles are more precious than souls" - Sheikh 'Abdullah Azzam

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          • #65
            Originally posted by Janna90 View Post

            Yes close it.
            Don't be bullied by others. You said something that perhaps you could have worded better. It's okay it happens.

            Plenty of lazy men around, let's not pretend otherwise.

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            • #66
              Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post

              Man expecting to leech of wifes money?

              Hmm...

              I'm pretty sure most men dont do that, at least not the ones practicing their deen.

              Why are you looking at marrying impotent men?

              A man who does not want to be a breadwinner, isnt a man in the first place.

              Theres a phrase in Urdu which deacribea them,

              Joru Ka Ghulam

              They are a diagrace, you should look for an upright muslim man to marry.

              Instead of making wild generalisations
              You used the phrase "Joru Ka Ghulam" incorrectly here.

              A man who does not wish to work and lives off of his wife's money is a lazy man. He is not a "Joru Ka Ghulam".

              "Joru Ka Ghulam" means a wife's slave. Whereby the husband is meek, and gives in to all the desires/wishes of his wife.


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              • #67
                Originally posted by AmantuBillahi View Post

                I find it disturbing you didnt correct her and say you are a male
                "They are Shuhadaa (witnesses) to the fact that this Deen is greater than life, that values are more important than blood and that principles are more precious than souls" - Sheikh 'Abdullah Azzam

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                • #68
                  Originally posted by samin62 View Post

                  I find it disturbing you didnt correct her and say you are a male
                  Shhh!! She might find out.

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                  • #69
                    your still here...?

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                    • #70
                      Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post

                      YouYou been influenced by the Feminazi brigade and went nuts generalising.

                      Enough said.
                      I didnt generalize that's my experience don't blame me for their actions. And calm down you sound so mad.

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                      • #71
                        Originally posted by Indefinable View Post

                        You used the phrase "Joru Ka Ghulam" incorrectly here.

                        A man who does not wish to work and lives off of his wife's money is a lazy man. He is not a "Joru Ka Ghulam".

                        "Joru Ka Ghulam" means a wife's slave. Whereby the husband is meek, and gives in to all the desires/wishes of his wife.

                        Yeah thanks for the correction,

                        Your right, my urdu aint good.

                        But the man who expects his wife to work and leech of her salary is a disgrace, even if hes working.

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                        • #72
                          Originally posted by AmantuBillahi View Post

                          Shhh!! She might find out.

                          You like being deceptive?
                          "They are Shuhadaa (witnesses) to the fact that this Deen is greater than life, that values are more important than blood and that principles are more precious than souls" - Sheikh 'Abdullah Azzam

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                          • #73
                            Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post

                            Yeah thanks for the correction,

                            Your right, my urdu aint good.

                            But the man who expects his wife to work and leech of her salary is a disgrace, even if hes working.
                            If they're both ok with two people contributing, what is wrong with that, it's their marriage, not yours. You focus on what concerns you. If your definition of manhood is earning a small wage, not allowing the wife to work and moving her in to your tiny bedroom in your parent's house, then that's you lol.

                            One of the reasons out of the 4 that a woman is married for, is for her money. There's nothing wrong with that as long as deen and character are a priority.

                            Abdullah ibn masood's wife asked if she could give her sadaqah to her husband. And she was told she could. Does that make him less of a man for taking his wife's charity? Of course it doesn't. Get out of this black and white way of thinking.
                            شَكَوْتُ إلَى وَكِيعٍ سُوءَ حِفْظِي
                            فَأرْشَدَنِي إلَى تَرْكِ المعَاصي
                            وَأخْبَرَنِي بأَنَّ العِلْمَ نُورٌ
                            ونورُ الله لا يهدى لعاصي

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                            • #74
                              Originally posted by Janna90 View Post

                              I didn't even mention the income of the man., How much they earn is irrelevant. I was talking about the responsibility of the man to provide, I did not mention wanting a certain lifestyle. You misunderstood the question.
                              See this is where your post goes all nuts

                              You say

                              but when it comes to looking for marriage they want you to actually work and support yourself.
                              Clearly if you think this is the case ,you are either saying the man does not provide the basics or the Man does not want to help you live a certain lifestyle that you want
                              If it is the former , then this is a very very small percentage of the community as most men will always provide the basics whatever community you are on.


                              There's so much that we do to contribute to our home and society. But it seems men overlook those qualities because there too busy thinking about money
                              Shows a clear biasness and emotion , its like you have something against men in general , that is not a mans problem . work on yourself.


                              Or maybe am seeking something that doesn't exist
                              Yes , and marriage aint it with that mentality

                              Even the most basic duty for them to provide, they wont do
                              You keep saying that.Can you define basic please , i like to know what basic means to you and if man is providing thee things.


                              No wonder alot of women are becoming independent and have to work because the men are becoming lazy
                              You blame man for making you independent then you say women want to become independent..


                              We are not going to sit around and wait for the men to provide, and when we do start doing things for ourselves and we develop goals and ambitions
                              Looks like this is what you wana say all along , you just went round in circles.

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                              • #75
                                Originally posted by samin62 View Post

                                You like being deceptive?
                                It's a skill, ya'ni.

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