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    Do Not Private Message NOR Insult The Sisters

    If you do, and they report it, you will be banned

    Sisters, if anyone is sending you pm's against your wishes, please inform me and they will be banned immediately

    Anyone looking for dates, go to www.muslimwakeup.com, there are all types of people there

    Here? I dont know anyone personally, but I do take it personal when men private message sisters.

    So hereby consider this the first and last warning.
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    نريد زعيما يخاف الواحد الأحد
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    The true meaning of being a big brother in Islam

    Thanks bro, alhamdulilah i dont get annoying PM's, but good to know that my brothers are looking out for me

    Wa'alaikumasalam

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    Quote Originally Posted by Abu Mubarak
    Anyone looking for dates, go to www.muslimwakeup.com, there are all types of people there
    Is this the right link?

    I couldn't find dates there

    Rabbana atinaa fidDunya hasanatan wa fil Akhirati hasanatan wa qinaa adhaban Naar

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    W'salaam,

    I don't tend to PM anyone brothers or sisters unless I need to, not just for the sake of PMin'.

    Isn't there a way to block messages from users sisters or brothers don't want messages from? Isn't that the function of the block list?

    People should block the senders whom they don't want PM's before escalating the issue to an admin. But if the PM's are vulgar / indecent, then it should be reported as a matter of urgency.

    Quote Originally Posted by Guardian Hijab
    Asalamualaikum

    The true meaning of being a big brother in Islam

    Thanks bro, alhamdulilah i dont get annoying PM's, but good to know that my brothers are looking out for me

    Wa'alaikumasalam
    Rabbana atinaa fidDunya hasanatan wa fil Akhirati hasanatan wa qinaa adhaban Naar

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr_Jailer
    Is this the right link?

    I couldn't find dates there

    Abu mubarak forgot to mention that you will find them standing next to you in the local church jummah prayers, maximum 2 dates at one time

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    Quote Originally Posted by Voyager
    Abu mubarak forgot to mention that you will find them standing next to you in the local church jummah prayers, maximum 2 dates at one time

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    Assallamu alaikum wrahmatullahi wabarakatu

    cant agree more,
    i reckon sajid you should disallow cross gender PMing i know its possible on VB

    decisionis yours inshaAllah

    wa alaikum asallam warahmatullahi wabarkatu

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    what if sisters are pming brothers without their permission... cus we got to be equal and fair... plus i think i got a stalker
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    if you have a stalker then try to block them but also insha allah let the administration know.
    Yeah even if it is a sister stalking a brother we shall deal with it insha allah, we're not one sided
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    wot if i think it might be my wife to be stalking me...:eek3:
    And Allâh has set forth an example for those who believe, the wife of Fir'aun when she said: "My Lord! Build for me a home with You in Paradise, and save me from Fir'aun and his work, and save me from the people who are Zâliműn


    There is no nobility in anyone who lacks faith.

    The wise man knows that the only fitting price for his soul is a place in Paradise.


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    lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Al_irhaab
    wot if i think it might be my wife to be stalking me...:eek3:
    Then shes messed up and it maybe your fault
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    Not that I PM anyone that doesn't PM me first. I have been PM'd by sisters on many occasions for a variety of reasons. How does one assure that the person you are PM'ing is not a sister. And what about responding to sisters PM's?

    Is the intent to evoke a policy of non-mixing of any sort?
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    Pfff this is spinning out of hand, ReRead what Abu Mubarak said and stick to that... everyone is asking more question. And perhaps Cross-gender pm'ing should be banned if that is what the admins were intending to stop. Because right now it seems like the message is, no harrassment and your out, but pm's which both parties dont mind is ok...


    Could an admin clear that up for those whom dont read properly
    Abu Hamzah Anas bin Malik, radiyallahu 'anhu, reported that the Prophet, sallallahu 'alayhi wasallam, said:
    "None of you truly believes (in Allah and in His religion) until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself"


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    its impossible to Avoid Cross PM gender infact its something that i dont see the point is

    Firstly how do u determine if we did enforce it and soemoen wanted to pm a sister then it takes a few seconds to reregister and Just PM who they want

    99.9 % of Pms are sensible we have very if not little complaints of PM harassment

    what ABU mubarak is saying that is IF soemoen PMs a sister and if they report it for them to report it obviously that PM must be bad i.e flirting or that sorta stuff...thats what he is refering too and nothing else!

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    what if a sister PM's one of the men, would she get banned??

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    Quote Originally Posted by muslim4evaaa
    what if a sister PM's one of the men, would she get banned??
    If she behaves inappropriately, as in flirt etc, then yes, the ban would apply to her too.
    You are not aware of the consequences that would result (if you were granted what you desire) because what you seek might be to your detriment. (O soul) be conscious that your Master is more aware about your well-being than you are.

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    either way this is not much of my concern, i dont think i am thinking of pm flirting with the sisters, and i doubt any sister would want to flirt with me... like im sure they have something more better to do. For you playboys... take a note...... Get a Life!
    Abu Hamzah Anas bin Malik, radiyallahu 'anhu, reported that the Prophet, sallallahu 'alayhi wasallam, said:
    "None of you truly believes (in Allah and in His religion) until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself"


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    I dont mind PMs from anyone, but with bros, i wouldnt reply to a "hey, how you doing" id be like, and wouldnt reply back.

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    Common sense would be the best to go with it. I had some sisters pm me with either a question or something they were concerned about my post. I dont mind such posts, for they are not considered flirting.
    Abu Hamzah Anas bin Malik, radiyallahu 'anhu, reported that the Prophet, sallallahu 'alayhi wasallam, said:
    "None of you truly believes (in Allah and in His religion) until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself"


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    Quote Originally Posted by abdusamad
    Common sense would be the best to go with it. I had some sisters pm me with either a question or something they were concerned about my post. I dont mind such posts, for they are not considered flirting.
    Yeah, exactly.

    If cross gender PMing wasn't allowed, I would never have been able to PM anna about the Arabic section access, or sis CW to apologise about the anti-Mod "war"

    -Rashid

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rashid786
    Yeah, exactly.

    If cross gender PMing wasn't allowed, I would never have been able to PM anna about the Arabic section access, or sis CW to apologise about the anti-Mod "war"

    -Rashid
    I agree with Rashid and abusamad here And that was a good war...we should do it again sometime
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    Quote Originally Posted by sajid
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    its impossible to Avoid Cross PM gender infact its something that i dont see the point is

    Firstly how do u determine if we did enforce it and soemoen wanted to pm a sister then it takes a few seconds to reregister and Just PM who they want

    99.9 % of Pms are sensible we have very if not little complaints of PM harassment

    what ABU mubarak is saying that is IF soemoen PMs a sister and if they report it for them to report it obviously that PM must be bad i.e flirting or that sorta stuff...thats what he is refering too and nothing else!
    What we did on sunniforum was to only enable members in the brothers group to pm other brothers and members of the sisters group to pm other sisters.. All other communication could occur in public or be routed via the admins. Mind you, we're a bit more hardcore on e-ikhtilat/fitnah reduction.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Irfan GBH...
    I agree with Rashid and abusamad here And that was a good war...we should do it again sometime


    lol, we should. But this time, make it more interesting

    -Rashid

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    what i dont get

    is that how would a brother know if the person he PM's is a male or female. most name u cud tell whos who but some of them like chained water for eg u wudnt reely know if dey are a he or she.

    so sum guy might PM a sister whos name was allah's slave, but it turns out dat person is a female...its all confusin

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    Quote Originally Posted by muslim4evaaa
    what i dont get

    is that how would a brother know if the person he PM's is a male or female. most name u cud tell whos who but some of them like chained water for eg u wudnt reely know if dey are a he or she.

    so sum guy might PM a sister whos name was allah's slave, but it turns out dat person is a female...its all confusin
    Yeah, we need gender icons beneath the member names

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fairy
    Then shes messed up and it maybe your fault
    she maybe a bit messed up

    but i dont know why its my fault
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rashid786
    Yeah, we need gender icons beneath the member names

    -Rashid
    innit good suggestion

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    your comment makes all the sense in the world. I certainly agree
    Quote Originally Posted by Mr_Jailer
    W'salaam,

    I don't tend to PM anyone brothers or sisters unless I need to, not just for the sake of PMin'.

    Isn't there a way to block messages from users sisters or brothers don't want messages from? Isn't that the function of the block list?

    People should block the senders whom they don't want PM's before escalating the issue to an admin. But if the PM's are vulgar / indecent, then it should be reported as a matter of urgency.

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    yeh i thought mango_chutney was a brother and anjum was a sis, so sometimes its hard.

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    lol Anjum is a sis She just likes to joke

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    Quote Originally Posted by Guardian Hijab
    Asalamualaikum

    lol Anjum is a sis She just likes to joke

    Wa'alaikumasalam
    no there is a member with the name A and under it says Ummah's BROTHER.

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    lol yep thats her

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    ohhhh ok

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    Re: Do Not Private Message The Sisters

    a reminder wudnt go astray..
    “The great Imam ash-Shafi’, he went to his teacher Waki`
    Complaining about the weakness of his memory.
    He told him, ‘abandon rebellion, for knowledge is a light
    And the light of Allah is not bestowed upon a rebel.”

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    Re: Do Not Private Message The Sisters

    thanks for the bump!

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    Re: Do Not Private Message The Sisters

    Quote Originally Posted by Niqaabi
    thanks for the bump!
    u welcome sis..its needed now n again..
    “The great Imam ash-Shafi’, he went to his teacher Waki`
    Complaining about the weakness of his memory.
    He told him, ‘abandon rebellion, for knowledge is a light
    And the light of Allah is not bestowed upon a rebel.”

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    Re: Do Not Private Message The Sisters

    I have to say that I have never received an indecent PM here from any of the sisters and that is to their credit because on another muslim chatroom I have had 3 sisters enquire if I was married . I don't go their anymore
    I took the road less traveled...where the heck am I?

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    Re: Do Not Private Message The Sisters

    As Salaamu Alaikum,
    Quote Originally Posted by Te'oma
    because on another muslim chatroom I have had 3 sisters enquire if I was married.
    And whats wrong with that [smile]

    Ma'aSalaama

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    Re: Do Not Private Message The Sisters

    It was flattering but it was only after I said that I lived in Canada
    I took the road less traveled...where the heck am I?

 

 

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