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    If your wife played video games...

    You always read about females putting restrictions or even forbid their husbands to play after marriage. But if it was the other way around, basically her forcing you to play with her, would that be alright with you?

    And don't say stuff like she should take care of the house. That's obvious and no one cleans the house 24/7 lol. So she basically plays on her freetime when EVERYTHING else is done. Would you be alright if you had a wifey that played video games?If Yes/No/Maybe so, explain why you answered like that.
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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Interesting.
    You think you know more than my scholar's qiyās? He was more learned than you and all other scholars combined. Yeah, the devil was the greatest scholar too and look where his qiyās of fire being better than tīn got him. Sorry.

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

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    Interesting.
    I agree. First world problems

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    If your wife played video games...

    I wouldn't marry a gamer girl. And I'm a gamer myself.

    Forcing? Lol even worse.

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    I wouldn't marry a gamer girl. And I'm a gamer myself.

    Forcing? Lol even worse.
    Why? both share the same interest. She wouldn't see it as childish or stop you from doing what you like.

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    Quote Originally Posted by P1RAT3N View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    I wouldn't marry a gamer girl. And I'm a gamer myself.

    Forcing? Lol even worse.
    Why? both share the same interest. She wouldn't see it as childish or stop you from doing what you like.
    In my experience, they tend to be far too tomboyish for my liking. Not a fan.

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Yeah I wouldn't mind at all :P

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    In my experience, they tend to be far too tomboyish for my liking. Not a fan.
    and if she was not tomboyish? Like you knew her from before marrying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by P1RAT3N View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    In my experience, they tend to be far too tomboyish for my liking. Not a fan.
    and if she was not tomboyish? Like you knew her from before marrying.
    Sure, I'd marry her, if she had the more important qualities I was looking for. But I won't be holding my breath for such a girl.

    The whole forcing to play thing, though, is pretty annoying.

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    Sure, I'd marry her, if she had the more important qualities I was looking for. But I won't be holding my breath for such a girl.

    The whole forcing to play thing, though, is pretty annoying.
    Forget that. It was badly put. Idk why I even wrote it lol.
    She just had gaming as a hobby instead of shopping or whatever.

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by Deen95 View Post
    Yeah I wouldn't mind at all :P
    I think it's cool to share the same hobby together. Not only gaming, but on everything else too. It's much more fun

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    Quote Originally Posted by P1RAT3N View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    Sure, I'd marry her, if she had the more important qualities I was looking for. But I won't be holding my breath for such a girl.

    The whole forcing to play thing, though, is pretty annoying.
    Forget that. It was badly put. Idk why I even wrote it lol.
    She just had gaming as a hobby instead of shopping or whatever.
    Seems odd to write such a thing when you don't mean it. Are you backtracking?

    You don't have to seek validation here, you know. If you're the type who likes to make her husband to play with her, so be it. Some guys may like that type of personality in a girl, as weird as it sounds.
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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    Seems odd to write such a thing when you don't mean it. Are you backtracking?

    You don't have to seek validation here, you know. If you're the type who likes to make her husband to play with her, so be it. Some guys may like that type of personality in a girl, as weird as it sounds.
    Backtracking? Whats that?

    And also, it was ment for a joke. Sarcasm. No one is supposed force the other. Never mentioned anything about me being the forcey type or looking for validation cuz I am not.

    Gosh people are so negative here. Always surprised. The negative aura flooding from this side of Ummah forum never dissapoints me lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by P1RAT3N View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    Seems odd to write such a thing when you don't mean it. Are you backtracking?

    You don't have to seek validation here, you know. If you're the type who likes to make her husband to play with her, so be it. Some guys may like that type of personality in a girl, as weird as it sounds.
    Backtracking? Whats that?

    And also, it was ment for a joke. Sarcasm. No one is supposed force the other. Never mentioned anything about me being the forcey type or looking for validation cuz I am not.

    Gosh people are so negative here. Always surprised. The negative aura flooding from this side of Ummah forum never dissapoints me lol.
    Ok.

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by P1RAT3N View Post
    I think it's cool to share the same hobby together. Not only gaming, but on everything else too. It's much more fun
    Yeah, some people are just too boring.

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Depends on the games she's into. No F2P moba/mobile trash please.
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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Idm as long as it doesnt come over anything else
    If its 30 mins or an hr

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    Quote Originally Posted by Al-Mualim View Post
    Depends on the games she's into. No F2P moba/mobile trash please.
    Haha a lot of girls play League of Legends

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by Al-Mualim View Post
    Depends on the games she's into. No F2P moba/mobile trash please.
    If you mean League of Legends then no. Thats a noob game.
    If I had to choose moba then Heroes of Newerth is definitely better.

    So for you it depends on what type of genre she likes? Interesting...

    What do you prefer then?
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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by P1RAT3N View Post
    You always read about females putting restrictions or even forbid their husbands to play after marriage. But if it was the other way around, basically her forcing you to play with her, would that be alright with you?

    And don't say stuff like she should take care of the house. That's obvious and no one cleans the house 24/7 lol. So she basically plays on her freetime when EVERYTHING else is done. Would you be alright if you had a wifey that played video games?If Yes/No/Maybe so, explain why you answered like that.
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    A woman's work is never done...well that's what they say anyway. If she's got time for video games then it's time for another baby.

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by zi-zizou View Post
    A woman's work is never done...well that's what they say anyway. If she's got time for video games then it's time for another baby.
    Lol lol trolololl

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by Al-Mualim View Post
    Depends on the games she's into. No F2P moba/mobile trash please.
    DotA is amazing. LoL is definitely trash though.
    You think you know more than my scholar's qiyās? He was more learned than you and all other scholars combined. Yeah, the devil was the greatest scholar too and look where his qiyās of fire being better than tīn got him. Sorry.

    You follow your scholar's qiyās, and I will follow the Qur'ān and Sunnah.

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    Haha a lot of girls play League of Legends
    Truly disgusting.
    You think you know more than my scholar's qiyās? He was more learned than you and all other scholars combined. Yeah, the devil was the greatest scholar too and look where his qiyās of fire being better than tīn got him. Sorry.

    You follow your scholar's qiyās, and I will follow the Qur'ān and Sunnah.

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by P1RAT3N View Post
    Backtracking? Whats that?
    Taking back what you said/damage control.
    You think you know more than my scholar's qiyās? He was more learned than you and all other scholars combined. Yeah, the devil was the greatest scholar too and look where his qiyās of fire being better than tīn got him. Sorry.

    You follow your scholar's qiyās, and I will follow the Qur'ān and Sunnah.

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    playing video games became halal all of a sudden?

    all them salafi sites telling you playing animate drawn objects is haraam whenever i read em and people promoting them by buying them.....




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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Video games are a turn off, for me.

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by P1RAT3N View Post
    You always read about females putting restrictions or even forbid their husbands to play after marriage. But if it was the other way around, basically her forcing you to play with her, would that be alright with you?

    And don't say stuff like she should take care of the house. That's obvious and no one cleans the house 24/7 lol. So she basically plays on her freetime when EVERYTHING else is done. Would you be alright if you had a wifey that played video games?If Yes/No/Maybe so, explain why you answered like that.
    Cheers


    I wouldn't mind, I'm a fun guy, once upon a time I was into games myself, then I got older.

    Life is not all dull and gloom, you gotta have a balance, work hard, play harder, nothing wrong with that, imagine if you personal life was all formal and no fun/bonding time? I sniff depression
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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    the only games I see women playing are those boring cell phone games, candy crusher and idk, I hate those cell phone games
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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    I much rather marry a woman who play video games than one who doesn't and would reasonably compromise a lot for it (yes marriage is about compromise).

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    What would she play?

    Like the sims or like battlefield, or need for speed like

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by Snippets View Post
    Video games are a turn off, for me.
    They are for woman too
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    Would be nice except I'm scared that I'll get distracted a lot.

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by aynina View Post
    What would she play?

    Like the sims or like battlefield, or need for speed like

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    I ment whatever games. But lets say she plays action packed like shooters or racing games. No sims or phone

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    I think I would prefer it to other pastimes such as obsessing over make up, clothes, shoes, bag, whining, and gossiping which appear to be very popular female pursuits
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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by Eorlingas View Post
    I think I would prefer it to other pastimes such as obsessing over make up, clothes, shoes, bag, whining, and gossiping which appear to be very popular female pursuits
    Sorry I don't get it. Which one do you prefer?

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by aynina View Post
    They are for woman too
    Yep, but I guess some men will be really happy to share this habit with their wife.

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Actually I sort of worry about this, not wife playing computer games but her leisure time.

    I don't watch tv or movies cause of music and innapropriate content and don't really want my wife doing it either (not a deal breaker but a preference) but I don't want her bored either.

    Summers ok but winter you can't really spend evenings outside. Usually to pass my time I'm reading and I'm happy with that with occasional Xbox. I'm happy with books but there's only so much one can read so I guess I'd be relieved if she played computer games I don't want her bored to death

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by P1RAT3N View Post
    Sorry I don't get it. Which one do you prefer?
    Video games

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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by deeni akh View Post


    Would be nice except i'm scared that i'll get distracted a lot.
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    Re: If your wife played video games...

    Quote Originally Posted by eesa the kiwi View Post
    Actually I sort of worry about this, not wife playing computer games but her leisure time.

    I don't watch tv or movies cause of music and innapropriate content and don't really want my wife doing it either (not a deal breaker but a preference) but I don't want her bored either.

    Summers ok but winter you can't really spend evenings outside. Usually to pass my time I'm reading and I'm happy with that with occasional Xbox. I'm happy with books but there's only so much one can read so I guess I'd be relieved if she played computer games I don't want her bored to death

    Something (among many things) I worry about
    I think it depends on the content. I would be against games like gta or stuff with bad language. And then he/she should play with moderation

 

 

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