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    Marriage Positivity

    Salaams,

    I want to make this section positive about marriage, I don't like the way it looks/sounds, anyone who wants to help is welcome. It makes marriage sound bad and it's a Sunnah, nothing about the Sunnah can EVER be bad. If it doesn't works out for us it's due to our own limited intellect and shortcomings

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    Marriage is beautiful, so beautiful that it makes you want to cry

    It is like a bowl of haribos. Colourful. Oh how delightful indeed.

    When two haribos meet, anything could happen.

    Sour and sweet can end up really sour or they can make a great combo.
    'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

    So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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    Marriage Positivity

    @Ya’sin pm me now it’s an emergency!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Re: AW: Re: Marriage Positivity

    Quote Originally Posted by Ya'sin View Post
    Marriage is beautiful, so beautiful that it makes you want to cry

    It is like a bowl of haribos. Colourful. Oh how delightful indeed.

    When two haribos meet, anything could happen.

    Sour and sweet can end up really sour or they can make a great combo.
    Rainbows and unicorns will come out...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ya'sin View Post
    Marriage is beautiful, so beautiful that it makes you want to cry

    It is like a bowl of haribos. Colourful. Oh how delightful indeed.

    When two haribos meet, anything could happen.

    Sour and sweet can end up really sour or they can make a great combo.
    haribo has pork in it
    'A slave's life is all you understand, you know nothing of freedom. For if you did, you would have encouraged us to fight on, not only with our spears, but with everything we have'

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    Re: Marriage Positivity

    Quote Originally Posted by P1RAT3N View Post
    I wish I could read some of the positive side of marriage but to many makes it a war between the genders. Who should do this, who should do that, he said this she said that, he made this she made that and it goes on. If you marry, you compromisse no one is better than the other, done.
    If people could share some good stories about marriage, that would be of great help. I am not married and tbh I sometimes see it as negative which I shouldnt. But I am changing my view and people should too
    All these people are immature/childish.

    I am happily married for the last 17 years and i don't know what story to share, lol
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    Re: Marriage Positivity

    Quote Originally Posted by Scrooge View Post
    nothing wrong with that, shyness is a much sort after trait, especially in women
    My daily life is basically like this:

    *phone rings* ( I never interact with people outside, I am a family person=

    I go into room to speak. When I go out I see all family members standing there.

    "who did you speak to"?
    "My friend"
    "....."
    "what?"
    "who?"
    "Just a friend"
    "Her name"
    *Tells name*
    "...."
    "what?"
    "It was a man, don't lie to us"
    "no it was not"
    "it's ok, We pay for the wedding"
    "oh pls...."
    ( ͡°( ͡° ͜ʖ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)ʖ ͡°) ͡°)

    If I bring it up they will make fun of me. Even if I want to, they are just gonna tease me til the end of the world. My family is just
    Last edited by P1RAT3N; 09-11-17 at 12:59 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scrooge View Post
    there's lots of positive stuff guys, come on help me out here....

    like when you buy her a gift and surprise her out of the blue, the look in her eyes, the excitement.
    when you feeling down and out and she can just sense it, and gives you a cuddle or a hug.
    when you sacrifice that one thing you've always wanted just so you can buy her what she always wanted but never demanded it.
    when she makes that extra bit of effort to mix and be with your family not because you asked her to, but because she knows they mean a lot to you.
    when she is ill and you just take over the house and kids coz you know she deserves it, cos you love her and nothing hurts you more than seeing her in pain.
    when she does something really stupid and you blow the roof off, then you see she is hurting and maybe even a tear, you just give her a hug and say sorry, it's ok, it was a mistake I understand.
    what this is a revelation to me

    He doesn't do anything like that for me *red alert

    Looks like this thread is creating doubts in my head



    No flowers
    No hugs
    No Ferrari
    No nothing

    Hmm it's not working out, we will need to sit down and talk about WHY are all these things missing
    'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

    So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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    Quote Originally Posted by P1RAT3N View Post
    My daily life is basically like this:

    *phone rings* ( I never interact with people outside, I am a family person=

    I go into room to speak. When I go out I see all family members standing there.

    "who did you speak to"?
    "My friend"
    "....."
    "what?"
    "who?"
    "Just a friend"
    "Her name"
    *Tells name*
    "...."
    "what?"
    "It was a man, don't lie to us"
    "no it was not"
    "it's ok, We pay for the wedding"
    "oh pls...."
    ( ͡°( ͡° ͜ʖ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)ʖ ͡°) ͡°)

    If I bring it up they will make fun of me. Even if I want to, they are just gonna tease me til the end of the world. My family is just
    so much suspicion
    It's not about me, it's all about you, coz you're special

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ya'sin View Post
    what this is a revelation to me

    He doesn't do anything like that for me *red alert

    Looks like this thread is creating doubts in my head



    No flowers
    No hugs
    No Ferrari
    No nothing

    Hmm it's not working out, we will need to sit down and talk about WHY are all these things missing
    sounds like a marriage of convenience, if it's new give him time
    It's not about me, it's all about you, coz you're special

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    I cook chicken and curry

    I smell of onions and in return I get nothing

    not even a packet of haribos

    Lmso

    Halal haribos are available
    'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

    So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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    @Ya’sin pm me now it’s an emergency!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Do I have to
    'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

    So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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    Everybody will be ideal and perfect spouse for someone. When time is right, you will find your future spouse.
    Now consecrate improving your relationship with Allah SWT, and everything will fall its correct place, In sha'Allah.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ya'sin View Post
    I cook chicken and curry

    I smell of onions and in return I get nothing

    not even a packet of haribos

    Lmso

    Halal haribos are available
    brothers, brothers, brothers, shaking my head, we have become cave men apologies to you
    Last edited by Scrooge; 09-11-17 at 01:06 PM.
    It's not about me, it's all about you, coz you're special

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scrooge View Post
    sounds like a marriage of convenience, if it's new give him time
    Time

    I have been waiting all my life for a husband to gift me flowers

    I think that is long enough
    'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

    So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ya'sin View Post
    I cook chicken and curry

    I smell of onions and in return I get nothing

    not even a packet of haribos

    Lmso

    Halal haribos are available
    Ya'ribos

    leave him without food for a week,you wont stop getting kisses and pledges
    'A slave's life is all you understand, you know nothing of freedom. For if you did, you would have encouraged us to fight on, not only with our spears, but with everything we have'

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ya'sin View Post
    Time

    I have been waiting all my life for a husband to gift me flowers

    I think that is long enough
    the key is not to lose hope, forget flowers perhaps someday he'll give you something extraordinary
    It's not about me, it's all about you, coz you're special

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scrooge View Post
    so much suspicion
    I am not that romantic person who dreams about these stuff since childhood. They know me as the pig rolling n' playing in mud and doing pranks on them. Marriage is kinda private and a sensitive subject for me so they love to get under my skin, and they always succeds lool

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aetos View Post
    What if he is a doctor?

    I'll make sure to avoid doctors. Thanks for the advice.
    *removing doctors from my expectation list*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scrooge View Post
    the key is not to lose hope, forget flowers perhaps someday he'll give you something extraordinary
    Propably a golden chicken so she can cook him golden curry

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ya'sin View Post
    Marriage is beautiful, so beautiful that it makes you want to cry

    It is like a bowl of haribos. Colourful. Oh how delightful indeed.

    When two haribos meet, anything could happen.

    Sour and sweet can end up really sour or they can make a great combo.
    haribos ain't halal here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ya'sin View Post
    Marriage is beautiful, so beautiful that it makes you want to cry

    It is like a bowl of haribos. Colourful. Oh how delightful indeed.

    When two haribos meet, anything could happen.

    Sour and sweet can end up really sour or they can make a great combo.
    Someone's poetic

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    Quote Originally Posted by P1RAT3N View Post
    My daily life is basically like this:

    *phone rings* ( I never interact with people outside, I am a family person=

    I go into room to speak. When I go out I see all family members standing there.

    "who did you speak to"?
    "My friend"
    "....."
    "what?"
    "who?"
    "Just a friend"
    "Her name"
    *Tells name*
    "...."
    "what?"
    "It was a man, don't lie to us"
    "no it was not"
    "it's ok, We pay for the wedding"
    "oh pls...."
    ( ͡°( ͡° ͜ʖ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)ʖ ͡°) ͡°)

    If I bring it up they will make fun of me. Even if I want to, they are just gonna tease me til the end of the world. My family is just
    Whenever someone does that to me I play along sarcastically.
    "Yeah, his name is Jimbo and he lives in the most wonderful Jeep. He even got me purple socks for Eid!"
    They'll either laugh and/or reply sarcastically, or just keep quiet
    Last edited by _Sapphire; 09-11-17 at 02:38 PM.

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    Re: Marriage Positivity

    Too much chit chatting in here
    شَكَوْتُ إلَى وَكِيعٍ سُوءَ حِفْظِي
    فَأرْشَدَنِي إلَى تَرْكِ المعَاصي
    وَأخْبَرَنِي بأَنَّ العِلْمَ نُورٌ
    ونورُ الله لا يهدى لعاصي

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Sapphire View Post
    Whenever someone does that to me I play along sarcastically.
    "Yeah, his name is Jimbo and he lives in the most wonderful Jeep. He even got me purple socks for Eid!"
    They'll either laugh and/or reply sarcastically, or just keep quiet
    It's a good idea but my family already decided his name, his status, ethnicity and shoesize before I even opened my mouth lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scrooge View Post
    there's lots of positive stuff guys, come on help me out here....

    like when you buy her a gift and surprise her out of the blue, the look in her eyes, the excitement.
    when you feeling down and out and she can just sense it, and gives you a cuddle or a hug.
    when you sacrifice that one thing you've always wanted just so you can buy her what she always wanted but never demanded it.
    when she makes that extra bit of effort to mix and be with your family not because you asked her to, but because she knows they mean a lot to you.
    when she is ill and you just take over the house and kids coz you know she deserves it, cos you love her and nothing hurts you more than seeing her in pain.
    when she does something really stupid and you blow the roof off, then you see she is hurting and maybe even a tear, you just give her a hug and say sorry, it's ok, it was a mistake I understand.
    Cool story.

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    Marriage Positivity

    Call RAS

    (No, im not talking about the small GTPase which is often mutated in the MAPK pathway in cancer)

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    Re: Marriage Positivity

    Salaam,

    Hmm I think maybe the first month of a marriage sounds great. After that I'm not sure.

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    Re: Marriage Positivity

    Quote Originally Posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    True story.
    fixed
    It's not about me, it's all about you, coz you're special

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    Re: Marriage Positivity

    so much negativity here, I feel like an outsider
    It's not about me, it's all about you, coz you're special

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scrooge View Post
    so much negativity here, I feel like an outsider
    They need some baklawa and biryani. If that does not cheer them up then I don't know what does

 

 

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