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    Being Asked About Someone from your social circle

    Have you been asked by a potential suitor doing a background on someone in your social circle?

    What have been your response if that person had some major personality issues?
    Would you disclose that?
    Have you?

    I have been asked twice and was happy to tell of my positive experience about them but can’t help wonder about some others. There are some I sympathize with the person who would have to be their life partner.

    I had a friend who was so narcissistic that I wondered how would his marriage be. He had a love marriage, and three years later, ended in a messy divorce.

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    Re: Being Asked About Someone from your social circle

    No i havent but i would
    You have to tell the truth its not backbiting when it comes to marriage

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    Being Asked About Someone from your social circle

    Yeah I have.................

    lol

    had to say l good stuff n the only problem was that she laughed too too much lol
    إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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    Being Asked About Someone from your social circle

    Yeah, sort of.

    I tried to be as unbiased as possible.

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    Re: Being Asked About Someone from your social circle

    Quote Originally Posted by Snippets View Post
    Have you been asked by a potential suitor doing a background on someone in your social circle?

    What have been your response if that person had some major personality issues?
    Would you disclose that?
    Have you?

    I have been asked twice and was happy to tell of my positive experience about them but can’t help wonder about some others. There are some I sympathize with the person who would have to be their life partner.

    I had a friend who was so narcissistic that I wondered how would his marriage be. He had a love marriage, and three years later, ended in a messy divorce.
    How could u tell this friend was narcissistic
    ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
    "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
    [Al-Imran 3:159]

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    Re: Being Asked About Someone from your social circle

    Quote Originally Posted by RaNdOm View Post
    How could u tell this friend was narcissistic
    Personality test?
    It may not be easy, you may not understand it, but you need to have the Imaan to trust Allah when life doesn't make sense.
    "Whoever intends eternal happiness, then let him hold tight to the threshold of servitude.” ibn Taymiyyah.

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    Re: Being Asked About Someone from your social circle

    Quote Originally Posted by eesa the kiwi View Post
    Personality test?
    Nah not accurate enough for that
    ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
    "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
    [Al-Imran 3:159]

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    Re: Being Asked About Someone from your social circle

    Quote Originally Posted by RaNdOm View Post
    How could u tell this friend was narcissistic
    It was so obvious, he is selfish and had no empathy.

 

 

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