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    How long would you wait to have nikah?



    I was having discussion with ukhtis,when you found future spouse. How long would you wait to have nikah.
    Alhamdulillah, very interesting mixer of answers. My head is still spinning.

    So, lovely Sisters and Brothers when you have found the one. How long would you wait to have nikah?
    And what is Sunnah way to do it?


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    Re: How long would you wait to have nikah?

    Quote Originally Posted by uccello verde View Post


    I was having discussion with ukhtis,when you found future spouse. How long would you wait to have nikah.
    Alhamdulillah, very interesting mixer of answers. My head is still spinning.

    So, lovely Sisters and Brothers when you have found the one. How long would you wait to have nikah?
    And what is Sunnah way to do it?

    I'll wait a week

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    Re: How long would you wait to have nikah?



    too much customary things happening, + have to book a register of marriage and officiator appointment.

    A few months at least.
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    Re: How long would you wait to have nikah?

    4-6 months, i think i need to build feelings towards the person, understand his character, look out for any red flags, if things seem ok, fine, otherwise move on. I know most ppl r overwhelmed by emotions and cant make good judgement then, but i'm not the most emotional, if my brain is not happy, its over...
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    Re: How long would you wait to have nikah?

    Was 3 months in my case and even that I thought was getting towards being too long, we are not meant to delay the nikkah.
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    Re: How long would you wait to have nikah?

    Quote Originally Posted by Red Apples View Post
    I'll wait a week
    One week from meetings? Is that enough time to sort out everything? Why to rush?

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    Re: How long would you wait to have nikah?

    Quote Originally Posted by uccello verde View Post
    One week from meetings? Is that enough time to sort out everything? Why to rush?
    Why to wait?

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    Re: How long would you wait to have nikah?

    Quote Originally Posted by Cptn._.Mario View Post


    too much customary things happening, + have to book a register of marriage and officiator appointment.

    A few months at least.
    Alhamdulillah, sounds more doable.

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    Re: How long would you wait to have nikah?

    Quote Originally Posted by malleat1 View Post
    4-6 months, i think i need to build feelings towards the person, understand his character, look out for any red flags, if things seem ok, fine, otherwise move on. I know most ppl r overwhelmed by emotions and cant make good judgement then, but i'm not the most emotional, if my brain is not happy, its over...
    Wouldn't you spot any major red flags during the meeting/ checking up the brother?
    Until you married to him, you don't really know which kind of man he is....Before you are married would still need to meet him with your Wali.
    4-6 months sounds too long to wait, if he hasn't gone expedition to North Pole.

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    Re: How long would you wait to have nikah?

    Quote Originally Posted by mazuiz View Post
    Why to wait?
    If, he is serious about marriage. He shouldn't rush ukhti but not prolong either. I would wonder, if he want to hide something....

 

 

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