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    Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    What is your preference and why?

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by RaNdOm View Post
    I could be a farmers wife... that's pretty cool
    Word is out ,Random is arriving.

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by muzzybee View Post
    If only everything was so black and white.

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Rumaysah~ View Post
    why do you reduce piety down to one thing that you're not even sure takes place or not.
    Some women own their own businesses or work in positions in which they don't need to mix.
    I've only come across little of those
    يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    You have good and bad people in cities and good and bad people in rural areas. Let's not get too carried away here.

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by noobz View Post
    generally thats true.
    You sound like my ex mum in law

    Btw how is the wali database going
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    O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

    Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by zi-zizou View Post
    If only everything was so black and white.
    Grass is green though...
    Farmers are awesome,mostly every farmer I have met are just happy humans.

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by muzzybee View Post
    Grass is green though...
    Farmers are awesome,mostly every farmer I have met are just happy humans.
    I was looking at the goat.

    Guess you've not been to Pakistan, much.

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Rifqah View Post
    That's very hard work I imagine. Sheep can be...well sheep!
    I was pulling Ya'sin's leg...I'm a city ukhti....but I do love animals.

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by zi-zizou View Post
    You have good and bad people in cities and good and bad people in rural areas. Let's not get too carried away here.
    Obviously the guy living in the city would say that
    يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by zi-zizou View Post
    I was looking at the goat.

    Guess you've not been to Pakistan, much.
    It cant be that bad

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by aynina View Post
    Obviously the guy living in the city would say that

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by uccello verde View Post
    I was pulling Ya'sin's leg...I'm a city ukhti....but I do love animals.
    Oh see I fall for anything

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by muzzybee View Post
    It cant be that bad
    Farming I don't think is as romantic and idyllic as some would make out. It's a hard living, very physical and long, long hours. Wifey won't see much of the husband.

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    She can be stay at home wife, and still working. There are plenty of options you can do from home... If she wants to works...but it is man's duty to bring bread home.
    If he can't even fulfil that part, why he needs wife. He needs to fast until, he is able to provide for his family. Just saying, if there is want, there is will.

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Rifqah View Post
    Oh see I fall for anything
    Lol, no worries, if you read our convo from beginning it would come out... when you are tired funny things happens...

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by zi-zizou View Post
    Farming I don't think is as romantic and idyllic as some would make out. It's a hard living, very physical and long, long hours. Wifey won't see much of the husband.
    Trust me I know ,my dad had a farm in his hometown and I have physically sorted and planted and harvested potatoes and what not ..it is hard work alright,but awesome feeling when you see the end product.

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by zi-zizou View Post
    Lol jk u know
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by aynina View Post
    You sound like my ex mum in law

    Btw how is the wali database going
    i sound like 'what people don't want to hear'.

    whos wali?




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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by zi-zizou View Post
    You have good and bad people in cities and good and bad people in rural areas. Let's not get too carried away here.
    on avg , more bad people reside in cities compared to rural areas.




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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by noobz View Post
    i sound like 'what people don't want to hear'.

    whos wali?
    No it's called "Where's Wali".

    Quote Originally Posted by noobz View Post
    on avg , more bad people reside in cities compared to rural areas.
    Okay.

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by noobz View Post
    i sound like 'what people don't want to hear'.

    whos wali?
    Yo its a compliment when ppl tell me i sound like a rural girl in the city

    Anyones wali u had a plan remember to make a "get ur wali" website
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    O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

    Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by zi-zizou View Post
    No it's called "Where's Wali".



    Okay.
    Take a patent on that name rn
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by aynina View Post
    Yo its a compliment when ppl tell me i sound like a rural girl in the city

    Anyones wali u had a plan remember to make a "get ur wali" website
    that idea is so september .....




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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by noobz View Post
    that idea is so september .....
    No mercy
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    O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

    Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Rumaysah~ View Post
    @sovietchild I apologise for calling you a troll. Forgive me
    No problem.
    Last edited by sovietchild; 15-10-17 at 11:16 PM.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post
    If I had a wife i would prefer she stay at home so she can take of my children guide then and give them the turbiya they need
    The mother is the teacher of the next generation
    Also a wife shouldnt have to work its the mans job to put food on the table
    Also she it could lead to stress taking care of children and working and she maybe exposed to a haram environment

    Nevertheless if she was adamant she wanted to work abit to make her own money and keep her self occupied if it didnt affect her role as a mother or wife I wouldnt mind as long as its halal money in a halal environment but most of the time full time work will affect your role as a mother
    Prophet Muhammad's first wife was a specialist. Why don't you want a wife who is a specialist at her field?
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by sovietchild View Post
    Prophet Muhammad's first wife was a specialist. Why don't you want a wife who is a specialist at her field?
    A specialist ?
    U mean a business women

    I dont mind my wife having a business or working as long as it doesnt affect her role as a mother or wife but naturally when working whether business or employed most of the time it will take alot of your time up so i would prefer she didnt

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by sovietchild View Post
    How can one survive in urban society while his wife is a stay-home-wife? He is probably rich, and can afford for his wife to stay home.
    Or he's man enough to handle the financial responsibility Allah عز و جل placed on his shoulders without relying on the wife's money,
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
    Or he's man enough to handle the financial responsibility Allah عز و جل placed on his shoulders without relying on the wife's money,
    So what do you expect her to do? Sitting around the house doing nothing? I was born in worker's state. My grandmother was the boss at manufacturing plant. The country progress much faster when everyone is working.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    This was posted way back,

    But worth reading,

    http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/heal...home-mums.html

    Especially those who think career chasers are somehow better when reality is their priorities are messed up,

    Nauzibillah
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by sovietchild View Post
    So what do you expect her to do? Sitting around the house doing nothing? I was born in worker's state. My grandmother was the boss at manufacturing plant. The country progress much faster when everyone is working.
    http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/heal...home-mums.html

    This one is for you and your inherent prejudices.

    Sisters are not obligated to work for a living.

    If a wife of a Muslim man is working in a Halaal job, to help support family, husband,

    She is doing him a favour


    The Husband on the other hand isn't doing anyone any favours by financially supporting the family.

    He's carrying out his duty/obligation.
    Last edited by Saif-Uddin; 16-10-17 at 09:57 PM.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    I for one believe that kids should be brought up together with other children in child's care program.

    They get to socialize, exercise and obtain some wisdom at the same time.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Saif-Uddin View Post

    She is doing him a favour
    When you typed that you were probably wearing cloth that were made by women. Now, who is giving you a favor? You probably don't even know how to use a needle.

    In this theory of yours, who is going to be your secretary? Who is going to do all the office management for you? When you go to hospital, who is going to cure you? Who is going to fix your teeth? Who is going to serve you when you go to the restaurant? When you go shopping, who is going to scan the bar code for you? Who is going to make perfume for your wife and for you? When your kids go to school, who is going to teach them? What kind of a quality will your nation have with this kind of diversity? If diversity attracts quality then what kind of economy will your nation have?
    Last edited by sovietchild; 17-10-17 at 02:22 AM.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by sovietchild View Post
    When you typed that you were probably wearing cloth that were made by women. Now, who is giving you a favor? You probably don't even know how to use a needle.

    In this theory of yours, who is going to be your secretary? Who is going to do all the office management for you? When you go to hospital, who is going to cure you? Who is going to fix your teeth? Who is going to serve you when you go to the restaurant? When you go shopping, who is going to scan the bar code for you? Who is going to make perfume for your wife and for you? When your kids go to school, who is going to teach them? What kind of a quality will your nation have with this kind of diversity? If diversity attracts quality then what kind of economy will your nation have?
    You don't know that it's the man's responsibility to provide financially and not the woman according to Islam, or are you just trolling me?
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    salaams to all

    sisters that WANT to work- they should NEVER say they want a pious husband bcos NO pious muslim man will EVER allow his wife to work.
    he would rather his family live on dry bread & water & wear tattered clothing instead of letting his wife work.

    so sisters are only deluding themselves & making a mockery of deen by demanding to work but still expecting a pious husband
    what they will get is someone who compromises on deen- just like themselves.


    and Allah ta'ala knows best
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by msmoorad View Post
    salaams to all

    sisters that WANT to work- they should NEVER say they want a pious husband bcos NO pious muslim man will EVER allow his wife to work.
    he would rather his family live on dry bread & water & wear tattered clothing instead of letting his wife work.

    so sisters are only deluding themselves & making a mockery of deen by demanding to work but still expecting a pious husband
    what they will get is someone who compromises on deen- just like themselves.


    and Allah ta'ala knows best
    jazakallah
    Waalaikumussalam
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by muzzybee View Post
    Waalaikumussalam
    Nothing wrong with working in a halal environment, but of course after discussing with hubby of course.
    Let's face it akhi, most people are not in a Halaal environment, and career chasers more often than not compromise their families to chase after careers and make a name for themselves,
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
    Let's face it akhi, most people are not in a Halaal environment, and career chasers more often than not compromise their families to chase after careers and make a name for themselves,
    True

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
    You don't know that it's the man's responsibility to provide financially and not the woman according to Islam, or are you just trolling me?
    That's not what I'm chatting about, let's stay focused on the real issue. Who was is that manufactured your cloth that you are wearing, men or women?
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by sovietchild View Post
    That's not what I'm chatting about, let's stay focused on the real issue. Who was is that manufactured your cloth that you are wearing, men or women?
    Read the thread title,

    It's about career chasers or stay at home mum,

    It's not about who did what, and wether it was a woman or not.

    You accept it should be the man coffing up the financial expenses and not the wife, or not?

    Remember even if the wife works, she doesn't have to pay for financial expenses of household,

    It's time you stopped beating around the bush
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