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    Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    What is your preference and why?

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Salaams to all

    It seems we have sisters who are trying to mix Islam with feminism and hoping to get something that fits the requirements/dictates of both.

    Cant happen.

    And Allah ta'ala knows best
    Jazakallah
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
    Read the thread title,

    It's about career chasers or stay at home mum,

    It's not about who did what, and wether it was a woman or not.

    You accept it should be the man coffing up the financial expenses and not the wife, or not?

    Remember even if the wife works, she doesn't have to pay for financial expenses of household,

    It's time you stopped beating around the bush
    Why don't you look at the societies like Iraq and Afghanistan. Majority of people in the markets and on the streets are men. What kind of a quality does a nation like that have when this kind of diversity is present?
    If you don't want to be criticized, say nothing, do nothing, be nothing.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
    Read the thread title,

    It's about career chasers or stay at home mum,

    It's not about who did what, and wether it was a woman or not.

    You accept it should be the man coffing up the financial expenses and not the wife, or not?

    Remember even if the wife works, she doesn't have to pay for financial expenses of household,

    It's time you stopped beating around the bush
    Your cloth that you are wearing was made by career women, by the way.
    If you don't want to be criticized, say nothing, do nothing, be nothing.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
    Let's face it akhi, most people are not in a Halaal environment, and career chasers more often than not compromise their families to chase after careers and make a name for themselves,
    sounds like a lot of men today
    شَكَوْتُ إلَى وَكِيعٍ سُوءَ حِفْظِي
    فَأرْشَدَنِي إلَى تَرْكِ المعَاصي
    وَأخْبَرَنِي بأَنَّ العِلْمَ نُورٌ
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by msmoorad View Post
    Salaams to all

    It seems we have sisters who are trying to mix Islam with feminism and hoping to get something that fits the requirements/dictates of both.

    Cant happen.

    And Allah ta'ala knows best
    Jazakallah
    Where?
    Not a single sister on this thread said anything like what you're implying.
    I guess this is the automatic standard response these days
    شَكَوْتُ إلَى وَكِيعٍ سُوءَ حِفْظِي
    فَأرْشَدَنِي إلَى تَرْكِ المعَاصي
    وَأخْبَرَنِي بأَنَّ العِلْمَ نُورٌ
    ونورُ الله لا يهدى لعاصي

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Rumaysah~ View Post
    sounds like a lot of men today
    Yes it does, though the problem is men have to work they have no choice, whereas sisters choosing to work in Haraam environments and/or compromise their families are in double trouble,
    Last edited by Saif-Uddin; 18-10-17 at 01:41 PM.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by msmoorad View Post
    Salaams to all

    It seems we have sisters who are trying to mix Islam with feminism and hoping to get something that fits the requirements/dictates of both.

    Cant happen.

    And Allah ta'ala knows best
    Jazakallah
    Wa alaikumsalaam akhi,

    You are correct.

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by sovietchild View Post
    Your cloth that you are wearing was made by career women, by the way.
    Lol, is that how you refute Islamic principles or Fatwa?

    You are too immature, there is no point prolonging this discussion.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
    Lol, is that how you refute Islamic principles or Fatwa?
    First person to accept Islam was a field women not a house servant. Keep that in mind.

    Quote Originally Posted by Saif-Uddin View Post

    You are too immature, there is no point prolonging this discussion.
    Don't try name-calling tactics on me, it does not work.
    If you don't want to be criticized, say nothing, do nothing, be nothing.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by sovietchild View Post
    First person to accept Islam was a field women not a house servant. Keep that in mind.



    Don't try name-calling tactics on me, it does not work.
    Facepalm

    I have no patience for immature individuals like you.

    Think what you want, it doesn't make any difference,

    The Qur'an and Sunnah take priority over your personal opinions.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
    Facepalm

    I have no patience for immature individuals like you.

    Think what you want, it doesn't make any difference,

    The Qur'an and Sunnah take priority over your personal opinions.
    Why are you raging in the form of name-calling? Your entire closet was made by career women. And, let's not chat about what is Islamic and what is not because half of middle east men population smoke tobacco.
    If you don't want to be criticized, say nothing, do nothing, be nothing.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by sovietchild View Post
    Why are you raging in the form of name-calling? Your entire closet was made by career women. And, let's not chat about what is Islamic and what is not because half of middle east men population smoke tobacco.
    Your behaving like an immature individual, what do you want me to call you?

    I think you'll find it is you who is raging,

    I'm not arguing with you anymore,

    As Ali said, one can't win an argument with a Jahil
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
    Your behaving like an immature individual, what do you want me to call you?

    I think you'll find it is you who is raging,

    I'm not arguing with you anymore,

    As Ali said, one can't win an argument with a Jahil
    As Prophet Muhammad said, a good man treats a women with honor. Your camera phone by the way, who was is made by?
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Stay at home with perhaps a part time job. Me personally i would love to come home after work to my loving wife when (if) i get one

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Stay home, If she want to take a job then we would have to discuss.

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    I myself am at the moment stay at home career and student. Benefits of studying computer science

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    stay at home

    don't

    stray from home

    home is where the is

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    Stay in the kitchen
    إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by iRepIslam View Post
    Stay in the kitchen
    Good choice.

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    Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Hehe
    إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    why only kitchen? the whole house can be hers lounge, dining bed room, loo room, bath room. variety is the spice

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    it seems some sisters have kitchen fear, THE BIG DEADLY SANDWICH

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    Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    How about a garden wife?
    إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    sounds awesome, she plant and feed me fresh vegs

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    Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    She cook you a good curreeh with these vegetables she doesn’t even need to go out to the suppppermarket.
    إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    yup, she only needs supermarket to buy lindt

 

 

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