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    Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    What is your preference and why?

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    How can one survive in urban society while his wife is a stay-home-wife? He is probably rich, and can afford for his wife to stay home.
    Last edited by sovietchild; 14-10-17 at 03:21 PM.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by sovietchild View Post
    Stay-at-home-wives belong in rural areas. Don't you agree?
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by aynina View Post

    Rural wives usually have lots of kids. Urban wives not so much.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    The difference between an urban wife and a rural wife is the urban wife is a specialist (career) while rural wife has skills at many things, like cooking, cleaning, taking care of goats, and so on. This theory only applies to western society, though. They have been urban for much longer then any other nations.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by sovietchild View Post
    The difference between an urban wife and a rural wife is the urban wife is a specialist (career) while rural wife has skills at many things, like cooking, cleaning, taking care of goats, and so on. This theory only applies to western society, though. They have been urban for much longer then any other nations.
    So the pious wife is only found in rural areas
    يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by aynina View Post
    So the pious wife is only found in rural areas
    What would the urban society be without women? And, how is stay at home wife considers as religious? Rednecks in America have very similar life as they do in Middle East for example, they have big beards, guns and their wives stay at home wives (clean, cook and do many others things). I don't think stay at home wife has something to do with religious, its more of a rural life style. I my self have came from rural background as both of my grandparents were very, very rural.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by sovietchild View Post
    What would the urban society be without women? And, how is stay at home wife considers as religious? Rednecks in America have very similar life as they do in Middle East for example, they have big beards, guns and their wives stay at home wives (clean, cook and do many others things). I don't think stay at home wife has something to do with religious, its more of a rural life style. I my self have came from rural life style jeans as both of my grandparents were very, very rural.
    Bc how can a career woman have a halal lifestyle if shes mixing with men 38 hours a week -.-
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by sovietchild View Post
    The difference between an urban wife and a rural wife is the urban wife is a specialist (career) while rural wife has skills at many things, like cooking, cleaning, taking care of goats, and so on. This theory only applies to western society, though. They have been urban for much longer then any other nations.
    Subhana'Allah,looking course how to take care of goats...

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by aynina View Post
    So the pious wife is only found in rural areas
    lol you can be pious and have a career

    That user sounds like a troll
    taking care of goats
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    If I had a wife i would prefer she stay at home so she can take of my children guide then and give them the turbiya they need
    The mother is the teacher of the next generation
    Also a wife shouldnt have to work its the mans job to put food on the table
    Also she it could lead to stress taking care of children and working and she maybe exposed to a haram environment

    Nevertheless if she was adamant she wanted to work abit to make her own money and keep her self occupied if it didnt affect her role as a mother or wife I wouldnt mind as long as its halal money in a halal environment but most of the time full time work will affect your role as a mother

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by uccello verde View Post
    Subhana'Allah,looking course how to take care of goats...
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    lol you can be pious and have a career

    That user sounds like a troll
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    I have a pet lamb <
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by aynina View Post
    Bc how can a career woman have a halal lifestyle if shes mixing with men 38 hours a week -.-
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Ya'sin View Post


    I have a pet lamb <
    Why not, they look so cute...I want black one I could be shepherd

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by uccello verde View Post
    Why not, they look so cute...I want black one I could be shepherd
    Yes!

    If I could have a pet, it would be this soldier of a lamb

    Lol
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Ya'sin View Post
    Yes!

    If I could have a pet, it would be this soldier of a lamb

    Lol
    Lol,you could have herd of them. They could join with my black sheep.

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by uccello verde View Post
    Lol,you could have herd of them. They could join with my black sheep.
    Wow . You have one?
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Sorry off topic but I'm a housewife and I'm originally from a lovely town

    Now I'm in a city which is erm...no comment

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    Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Stay at home is ideal, but how feasible is it in this age of high rent?

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Ya'sin View Post
    Wow . You have one?
    Yeh, I'm a shepherd...plenty of time on hands when sheep eating grass..

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by uccello verde View Post
    Yeh, I'm a shepherd...plenty of time on hands when sheep eating grass..
    That's so cool

    No wonder you are chilled out
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Ya'sin View Post
    That's so cool

    No wonder you are chilled out
    True, no worries, clear sky, good wifi and plenty of fresh air...

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Ya'sin View Post
    Sorry off topic but I'm a housewife and I'm originally from a lovely town

    Now I'm in a city which is erm...no comment

    Alhamdullilah
    lol agree about city life
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Snippets View Post
    What is your preference and why?
    Stay at home is preference ,but if wife wants to work in a female setting no worries there.

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by uccello verde View Post
    True, no worries, clear sky, good wifi and plenty of fresh air...
    Yes, one of the great perks of living in a rural community, is that if you love nature, there's plenty to be found. However, rural communities usually have a smaller choice when it comes to shopping, medical services, and so on.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by aynina View Post
    So the pious wife is only found in rural areas
    Don't think he said anything about piety ,the question is stay at home or career wife.

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Rumaysah~ View Post
    lol you can be pious and have a career

    That user sounds like a troll
    taking care of goats
    Bit harsh to call him troll.

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by muzzybee View Post
    Bit harsh to call him troll.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by sovietchild View Post
    Thats not an answer to my question
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by muzzybee View Post
    Don't think he said anything about piety ,the question is stay at home or career wife.
    Oh so piety isnt a requirement anymore for marriage, ya Rabb
    I once heared a story a man came to a dad and asked his daughters hand and the dad went
    "so wyd for a living" "so what car u drive" "so where do you live" "you have furniture etc",
    yes yes yes the guy seemed to be able to sustain his faughter they got married and the daughter spends her first night there and he is worshipping shaytan, the daughter runs back home and tell the dad
    The dad goes and asks the guy
    "do you worship shaytan?" Guy says yes
    So dad asks "why didnt you tell me?"
    And the guy says "you never asked about my religion"
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by aynina View Post
    Oh so piety isnt a requirement anymore for marriage, ya Rabb
    I once heared a story a man came to a dad and asked his daughters hand and the dad went
    "so wyd for a living" "so what car u drive" "so where do you live" "you have furniture etc",
    yes yes yes the guy seemed to be able to sustain his faughter they got married and the daughter spends her first night there and he is worshipping shaytan, the daughter runs back home and tell the dad
    The dad goes and asks the guy
    "do you worship shaytan?" Guy says yes
    So dad asks "why didnt you tell me?"
    And the guy says "you never asked about my religion"
    go make your own piety thread. the op only gave 2 options.
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by aynina View Post
    Oh so piety isnt a requirement anymore for marriage, ya Rabb
    I once heared a story a man came to a dad and asked his daughters hand and the dad went
    "so wyd for a living" "so what car u drive" "so where do you live" "you have furniture etc",
    yes yes yes the guy seemed to be able to sustain his faughter they got married and the daughter spends her first night there and he is worshipping shaytan, the daughter runs back home and tell the dad
    The dad goes and asks the guy
    "do you worship shaytan?" Guy says yes
    So dad asks "why didnt you tell me?"
    And the guy says "you never asked about my religion"
    Relax...read op and the post you quoted again..

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by uccello verde View Post
    Yeh, I'm a shepherd...plenty of time on hands when sheep eating grass..
    That's very hard work I imagine. Sheep can be...well sheep!

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by muzzybee View Post
    Relax...read op and the post you quoted again..
    So a woman with a career, not just a job, a career she wont be freemixing? In our civilisation? SubhanAllah
    يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

    O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

    Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    Quote Originally Posted by aynina View Post
    So a woman with a career, not just a job, a career she wont be freemixing? In our civilisation? SubhanAllah
    why do you reduce piety down to one thing that you're not even sure takes place or not.
    Some women own their own businesses or work in positions in which they don't need to mix.
    شَكَوْتُ إلَى وَكِيعٍ سُوءَ حِفْظِي
    فَأرْشَدَنِي إلَى تَرْكِ المعَاصي
    وَأخْبَرَنِي بأَنَّ العِلْمَ نُورٌ
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    Re: Brothers, Stay at home or career wife

    3/4 brits can't make ends meet if the wife doesn;t work after 7 months




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    Quote Originally Posted by aynina View Post
    So the pious wife is only found in rural areas
    generally thats true.




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    Rural environments are great

    You're far away from a lot of corrupt people so their influences are less

    Even in England I have noticed Muslims from small towns are completely different to the majority of Muslims from larger cities. The environment of competition or surviving brings out other characteristics. A lot of Londoners I know are much more street smart than those from the small towns/villages. Because they have had to be.

    I am really thinking about leaving England because I don't think it's a healthy environment for children to grow up in. My neighbours are 9 and 13 and their parents are very good in terms of restricting them from social media and ensuring they spend time outside etc. But when I talk to them they tell me that they have iPads at school and they just log on there. They are v decent kids but even they succumb to peer pressures around them.

    I tried to explain to the 13year old about not living for insta likes and that it creates a dopamine boost which is addictive and unhealthy. I thought he lost interest half way through the convo but the next day he came and told me he had researched about it and that the teacher at his school asked them about hormones in the body and he spoke about dopamine lol (so cute - I just added that last bit cos I'm still buzzing at the cuteness allahumma baarik)
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    Ideally if I could live on a farm with a husband that didn't really mind animals cos I am scared of them then this would be the DREAM
    ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
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    I could be a farmers wife... that's pretty cool
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