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    Assalaamualaikum everybody

    Recently I have been feeling this, but I'm not sure how describe other than feeling angry and horrible. Everything is coming together for me financially and my family is looking for someone for me for marriage. But whenever I think about marriage, I start to think these horrible scenarios when it comes to marriage and they have negative effect on me.

    In order to suppress this feeling I start work even more, which has results in that I don't have like having free time anymore, because it would mean I have to deal with my issues.

    I often run scenarios in my mind like looking up legalities when donating everything I own to parents in case of divorce and other stuff to make divorce as painless to me as possible. A bit ridiculous if I think about it, while I'm not feeling terrible.

    I thought I dealt these issues years ago, but I'm not so sure about it. I feel anxious when it comes to marriage and I have so far got away from those issues by overloading myself with work or school, but soon those will end and I have no idea how to deal with my issues.

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    Re: Assalaamualaikum everybody

    Wa alaykum salam, "O you who have believed, seek help through patience and prayer. Indeed, Allah is with the patient." (Surah 2:153).

    Also, listen to the Quran more: "The believers are only those who, when Allah is mentioned, their hearts become fearful, and when His verses are recited to them, it increases them in faith; and upon their Lord they rely -"(Surah 8:2)

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    Re: Assalaamualaikum everybody

    Wa alaikum salam

    It seems like you're a person who want to remain single, if that is what you want then let it be.

    Give yourself more time dont rush into marriage too soon.
    “Mix with the noble people, you become one of them; and keep away from evil people so that you protect yourself from their evils.”


    Hadhrat Ali (Radiallahu anhu)


 

 

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