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    Stepmom and stepdads, give us stepson/stepdaughter tips...

    Bismillah Ar-Rahman Ar-Raheem..

    Recently been reading some negativity about Stepmoms/dads not treating their spouse kids right or just wishing they dont exist.

    so hypothetically you marry someone with kids and they have full custody..What are some ways to make the kids feel comfortable and loved?

    Do you try to shower the older kids wth gifts? what if they say you are not my dad/mom..how do you improve your relationship with them?

    maybe its easier if the kid is under 3 years old?
    Stop being apologetic to Kuffars!

    If I don't engage with you or reply to any of your question, it's likely because I find you racist and a total waste of time.

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    Re: Stepmom and stepdads, give us stepson/stepdaughter tips...

    2 of my uncles married divorcees with children
    From the looks of it they all seem happy i mean i wouldnt know the internal problems but they seem ok

    From what i know just treating them equally as if they were your own kids and loving them equally

    Try to show them love in different ways from helping them in anything taking them to places or activities teaching them advicing them comforting them giving them gifts what a normal parent would do

    If its a tough kid who resists the step parent then just have patience and keep doing the same as above eventually they will understand and see also get the actual parent to explain

    A younger child is always going to be easier as an older child has developed a certain way of life and is more attached to the parent you coming causes a change none the less if done in the right way it can be beneficial alhamdullilah from what ive seen of 2 families

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    Re: Stepmom and stepdads, give us stepson/stepdaughter tips...

    Its weird you mentioned this SubhanAllah recently i was thinking of what my uncles have done and thought why not marry a single mother it could be so rewarding and beneficial for me and them but still just a thought for now

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    Re: Stepmom and stepdads, give us stepson/stepdaughter tips...

    Quote Originally Posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post
    Its weird you mentioned this SubhanAllah recently i was thinking of what my uncles have done and thought why not marry a single mother it could be so rewarding and beneficial for me and them but still just a thought for now
    i need to have a meal with your uncles...

    I am not particularly trying to marry a single mum, but if it happens and i am open to marrying a single mom..I want to make sure the kid is loved and I want to give th kid the best upbringing as possible.

    yeah man...Although I dont think you should specifically look for a single mum, you might miss out on a great wife...Just be open i guess
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    Re: Stepmom and stepdads, give us stepson/stepdaughter tips...

    Lol if there is any questioms u have let me know and i can try ask إنشاءالله

    And yh i understand ofc

    And im not specifically looking for that it was just a thought im maybe open to but yh staying open to all is the best

 

 

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