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    Women seeking a religious marriage, what are you looking for in a man

    Girls who are practicing and want an islamically-oriented marriage, who would be fine with staying at home (not working) or even only leaving with your husband as a guardian, who want lots of kids and to be active in the local muslim community (gatherings/events that are halal), a practicing religious husband who will get you up for fajr, who have no problem wearing niqab... i read Lots of comments and threads on here seems like a lot of guys want this kind of girl. I definitely do.

    But I'm asking those girls directly, I know there must be many here, what kind of man do you want? What are your requirements and what are the deal breakers? What are your expectations, what are you more flexible with? How should a man be if he wants a woman like you?

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    Re: Women seeking a religious marriage, what are you looking for in a man

    Didn't even give salams smh
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    Re: Women seeking a religious marriage, what are you looking for in a man



    I wanna know too, where are the girls

    nobody wants to marry a mug, that's a deal breaker

    no one likes a plank head or a lazy muppet with nutcasism taking over his life

    ideally someone who is determined, ambitious, go getter, and pious

    if I were you i'd just go on indeed.com and your list is there, it's what every employer looks for excluding the salary

    I think so

    all the best
    'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

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    Re: Women seeking a religious marriage, what are you looking for in a man

    Quote Originally Posted by Abu Jarir View Post
    Didn't even give salams smh


    some people are so picky they'll reject you if you don't salam them

    it's called spoilt for choice, one mini slip up and that's one potential out of the door

    'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

    So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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    Re: Women seeking a religious marriage, what are you looking for in a man

    Normally you shouldnt salaam the opposite gender unless it is a group your giving salaam to

    So some may actually not salaam to avoid fitna

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    Re: Women seeking a religious marriage, what are you looking for in a man

    Although when talking to a potential in a halal environment I dont know whether you should or shouldnt salaam

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    Re: Women seeking a religious marriage, what are you looking for in a man

    Quote Originally Posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post
    So some may actually not salaam to avoid fitna
    Hahaha
    Was this supposed to be a joke?

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    Re: Women seeking a religious marriage, what are you looking for in a man

    No not at all

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    Re: Women seeking a religious marriage, what are you looking for in a man

    Quote Originally Posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post
    No not at all
    To me, it was a good one :-)
    Anyway, how could a public salam make fina on a public forum to everyone?

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    Re: Women seeking a religious marriage, what are you looking for in a man

    No u didnt understand me

    Im saying for example if 2 people were talking for marriage and they were in a halal environment with mehrams being there but the 2 people were allowed to talk seperately

    Now one person could avoid salaam just to avoid the fitna of lust occuring then again it might be better to salaam toshow that you have akhlaaq in greeting people

    It was just a thought lol

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    Re: Women seeking a religious marriage, what are you looking for in a man

    Quote Originally Posted by Ya'sin View Post


    I wanna know too, where are the girls

    nobody wants to marry a mug, that's a deal breaker

    no one likes a plank head or a lazy muppet with nutcasism taking over his life

    ideally someone who is determined, ambitious, go getter, and pious

    if I were you i'd just go on indeed.com and your list is there, it's what every employer looks for excluding the salary

    I think so

    all the best
    it wouldn't even be appropriate lol
    what a weird thread
    “How amazing is it that a seeker of knowledge leaves his home in order to recite and memorise the Qur’ān. It is as if his tongue is saying: ‘O my Lord, bear witness! I want to carry the Qur’ān in my chest, thereby seeking Your Face, and desiring that which is with You!’”
    Sh. Muhammad al-Mukhtār al-Shinqītī

 

 

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