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    Sorry for my absence

    It has been a long time since I have been able to post, maybe 6 months? Once my family realised that my reverting was not just a phase they made things very difficult for me and tried to isolate me even more than I already was. I was not permitted to leave the house or use the internet. It is still very hard for me and even now they do not accept me for who I am. Sorry I have not been able to post

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    Re: Sorry for my absence

    Quote Originally Posted by SaraVR View Post
    There was a lot of pressure put on me around Christmas time and that particularly hard. It is difficult but as someone pointed out earlier in this thread, there are other muslims suffering a lot more than me because of their choices so I can't let this get to me. I will need to think a lot about moving away. There are many things to consider so it won't be a decision I make lightly. I don't see them a lot. They are usually just families I see around town and they are polite when I say hello but I'm a stranger to them. There is a young man around town who is a muslim and he's a nice person but I think he is just a cultural muslim as you called it
    As he's a man it really is better to stay well clear as revert, until you've learnt the basics and settled into the deen. I am sure you've been around this forum long enough to know some Muslim brothers behave less than ideally towards revert sisters.
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    Hope everything is well @SaraVR
    It may not be easy, you may not understand it, but you need to have the Imaan to trust Allah when life doesn't make sense.
    "Whoever intends eternal happiness, then let him hold tight to the threshold of servitude.” ibn Taymiyyah.

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    Re: Sorry for my absence

    Quote Originally Posted by Gingerbeardman View Post
    As he's a man it really is better to stay well clear as revert, until you've learnt the basics and settled into the deen. I am sure you've been around this forum long enough to know some Muslim brothers behave less than ideally towards revert sisters.
    I am avoiding this man It is tough being a Muslim in Ireland
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    Hope everything is well @SaraVR
    Thank Eesa, since my behaviour towards my parents changed the atmosphere around the house has gotten a little better so I am thankful for this

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    Quote Originally Posted by SaraVR View Post
    I am avoiding this man It is tough being a Muslim in Ireland


    Thank Eesa, since my behaviour towards my parents changed the atmosphere around the house has gotten a little better so I am thankful for this
    Just an update on this. Things have improved gradually and now my my parents are allowing to move to Sarajevo for 6 months with Bosnian friend. My mother thinks living in semi-Islamic country will open my eyes to evils of Islam so she has allowed me to go. I'm just glad I'm allowed relocate!!!

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    Re: Sorry for my absence

    salaams to all

    May Allah ta'ala make everything easy for u
    pls remember us in your duaahs.

    which part of SA are u originally from?
    im from Durban

    And Allah ta'ala knows best
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    Re: Sorry for my absence

    Quote Originally Posted by SaraVR View Post
    Just an update on this. Things have improved gradually and now my my parents are allowing to move to Sarajevo for 6 months with Bosnian friend. My mother thinks living in semi-Islamic country will open my eyes to evils of Islam so she has allowed me to go. I'm just glad I'm allowed relocate!!!


    Wish you all the best sister. I am a revert too but fortunately my family is supportive. Hope your staying in Sarajevo is going well.

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    Re: Sorry for my absence

    Quote Originally Posted by SaraVR View Post
    I never thought of that. I guess I am being selfish by just focusing on my own situation and not thinking about others. I hindsight my own situation is not that bad afterall, I haven't been harmed physically.



    I haven't thought about all the practical things you mentioned,you have given me a lot to think about brother.
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    Yes merried is the best answer to solve your problem sis. FInd a good muslim and get married.
    May Allah grant you the best Muslim as your husband Amin YRA>

 

 

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