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    Icon11 Your first child: son or daughter and why?



    If Allah wills for you to get married and have children. would you make du'a for your first child to be a son or daughter? And give reasons.

    May Allah provide you all with righteous spouses and children that will be the coolness of your eyes.

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Wa aleykum salaam,

    Insha Allah daughters, i love them more than sons.


    Ameen and to you too bro

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    I can't choose lol ;-;

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Personally Id love to have daughters first due to many reasons. Who can resist a little maryam or sarah calling you daddy/baba and running in between your legs

    Also daughters mature faster so if you have sons after that, they will take care of their younger brothers.

    I probably won't be able to say no to my daughters lol. Fathers definitely have a soft spot for their little girls.

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Kullu bidda dalala wa kullu dalala fin naar...
    Last edited by Ms.Mints; 14-02-16 at 10:30 PM.

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    I want a son, insha'allah, so when I have a daughter she'll have a brother to protect her.
    “Ask forgiveness from your Lord. Indeed! He is Oft-Forgiving.” (71:10)

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    A daughter in shaa Allah. As children they are just so much sweeter and cuter than boys.

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    If I had daughters I'd name each one after Muhammad's wives. lol

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    MashaAllah the bros are choosing daughters and the sisters choosing sons.

    I accidently chose son in the poll

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Son.

    And his name will be Musa

    Reason:
    I really don't know. I guess I want to experience a Father/son like relationship.

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    Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Baby hudayfah.....
    إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by Deeni Akh View Post
    Personally Id love to have daughters first due to many reasons. Who can resist a little maryam or sarah calling you daddy/baba and running in between your legs

    Also daughters mature faster so if you have sons after that, they will take care of their younger brothers.

    I probably won't be able to say no to my daughters lol. Fathers definitely have a soft spot for their little girls.
    Yeah lol me neither I would spoil her.

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Men want daughters, and women want sons lol. Strange

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    A daughter in shaa Allah. As children they are just so much sweeter and cuter than boys.
    Youll have to get used to answering whys tho
    ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
    "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
    [Al-Imran 3:159]

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by Abu Jarir View Post
    If I had daughters I'd name each one after Muhammad's wives. lol
    Nice

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by RaNdOm View Post
    Youll have to get used to answering whys tho
    It's okay, I have already mastered the art of the vague response.

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    I'd name my son Abdul Wahab

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    Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    I CANT WAIT TO MEET MY FUTURE CHILDREN bi ithnillah
    إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    It's okay, I have already mastered the art of the vague response.
    Thats the thing with girls tho - they won't give up
    ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
    "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
    [Al-Imran 3:159]

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by iRepIslam View Post
    I CANT WAIT TO MEET MY FUTURE CHILDREN bi ithnillah
    Go TO SLEEP
    ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
    "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by Abu Jarir View Post
    I'd name my son Abdul Wahab


    Nice name

    I am thinking between Hussain, Ali or Ja'far.



    Daughters Fatima and Khadija Insha Allah

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by RaNdOm View Post
    Go TO SLEEP
    I CANT ANYMORE, u r to blame
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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    A son 100%

    I want my daughters to have a big brother that can protect them and take care of them and look after them. If some loser is hasseling them at school he can teach them a lesson lol.

    Maybe because I don't have an older brother myself and I have always wanted one

    My brother is only two years younger than me but I used to do whatever I wanted when we were younger and I treated him like a baby (still do actually)

    May Allah grant us all righteous children, ameen.

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by Abu Jarir View Post
    I'd name my son Abdul Wahab
    MashaAllah let him be the next shaykh muhammad ibn Abdul wahhaab!

    Quote Originally Posted by RaNdOm View Post
    Thats the thing with girls tho - they won't give up
    I won't give up either.


    Quote Originally Posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    It's okay, I have already mastered the art of the vague response.
    We'll have to train lol

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by iRepIslam View Post
    I CANT WAIT TO MEET MY FUTURE CHILDREN bi ithnillah
    lol...

    Oh, you will meet them alright. 24/7 non-stop feeding and cleaning and taking care of.

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by iRepIslam View Post
    I CANT ANYMORE, u r to blame
    lol the first step is to put your phone away and then CLOSE your eyes
    ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
    "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    I think there is a hadeeth that states if your first child is a daughter then you are blessed...I will try and find for Ummah forum
    “Whoever wants to purify his heart must prefer Allah over and above his own desires.” .

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by Deeni Akh View Post
    MashaAllah let him be the next shaykh muhammad ibn Abdul wahhaab!



    I won't give up either.




    We'll have to train lol
    May Allah will Akhi ameen,

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by shay5 View Post
    I think there is a hadeeth that states if your first child is a daughter then you are blessed...I will try and find for Ummah forum
    Please do. Shukran

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by bintmydad View Post
    A son 100%

    I want my daughters to have a big brother that can protect them and take care of them and look after them. If some loser is hasseling them at school he can teach them a lesson lol.

    Maybe because I don't have an older brother myself and I have always wanted one

    My brother is only two years younger than me but I used to do whatever I wanted when we were younger and I treated him like a baby (still do actually)

    May Allah grant us all righteous children, ameen.
    Oh trust me he will. My brothers are glued onto me.. can't move an inch without their presence *sighs*

    I just shove them occasionally when i feel like they're suffocating me.
    Last edited by Peony.; 14-02-16 at 10:34 PM.
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    Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    @A.Basheer

    What I dream of in my spare time.. May Allah bless us all.
    @RaNdOm

    Okay bye I'm going to sleep.

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    For real tho - I think don't think too much of which one you would like just inshaAllah Allah swt to bless us with healthy pious offspring. We don't actually know what path our lives will take so we have hopes and dreams but like let's just keep it real too

    YEA I KNOW MOOD KILLER

    but had to be said, cos I've said stuff on UF before and years later I've thought... U idiot
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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by RaNdOm View Post
    Thats the thing with girls tho - they won't give up
    Yeah, my daughter(s) will be very stubborn in shaa Allah, just like their papa.

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Can't wait to be abu sarah with my little girl sitting on my shoulders

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    Yeah, my daughter(s) will be very stubborn in shaa Allah, just like their papa.
    Rule number one - learn that the girls will always win
    ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
    "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
    [Al-Imran 3:159]

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    Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Last time I had a dream I dropped my baby hudayfah off to the nursery. That was so nice.

    Anyway. Please make dua for me.
    إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by RaNdOm View Post
    For real tho - I think don't think too much of which one you would like just inshaAllah Allah swt to bless us with healthy pious offspring. We don't actually know what path our lives will take so we have hopes and dreams but like let's just keep it real too

    YEA I KNOW MOOD KILLER

    but had to be said, cos I've said stuff on UF before and years later I've thought... U idiot
    Yeah your right too. There's always du'a alhamdulillah.

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Don't really mind which gender comes first, just as long as its healthy, in shaa Allah.

    May Allah swt grant us all pious and righteous offspring, Ameen.
    All humans are dead, except those who have knowledge.
    And all those who have knowledge are asleep, except those who do good deeds.
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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by shay5 View Post
    I think there is a hadeeth that states if your first child is a daughter then you are blessed...I will try and find for Ummah forum


    I know the ahadith you're talking about but they are not authentic.

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    Re: Your first child: son or daughter and why?

    Quote Originally Posted by Deeni Akh View Post
    Yeah your right too. There's always du'a alhamdulillah.
    Lol but u don't know what would be best for u - I think you'd be a great dad to sons inshaAllah cos like then u can teach them to be good to their mother
    ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
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