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    Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Assalamalaikum,

    I am requesting for the Marriage Forum to be shut down during Ramadan. The section has always been of a very low standard in terms of discussions and quality, but has recently fallen to new depths.

    Ideally I would like the shutdown to start now, but in any case it should be out of action during Ramadan. This will benefit everyone - not just people like myself who really dont want to be reading some of the ridiculous things on there, but also for the benefit of those members who seem to live in the Marriage Section, asking the same question for the 400th time.

    It will help them to protect themselves and their time during the precious moments of Ramadan.

    Surely by now, everyone should have answers to the following topics:

    - Is attraction important?
    - Would you marry a fornicator?
    - Where can I find a revert to marry?
    - Why is life unfair to unattractve people?
    - How would you deal with a gold digger?

    If you dont know by the 400th time of asking, then there is a problem.

    Not only that, but there seems to be an increased lack of hayaa on the section. We've recently had threads where men and women have been openly and frankly discussing matters of a sexual nature - and if you advise them, you'll be told that there is "no shyness in the deen"

    So you would happily sit around a coffee table "in real life" with members of the opposite gender and ask those intimate questions which have been doing the rounds recently?

    Enough is enough - its time to shut down the Marriage Section during Ramadan.

    Please vote now in the Poll above so I can lobby the moderators

    Jazakallah khair.
    Last edited by SimpleTraveller; 30-04-15 at 10:50 PM.

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    But where will people share hypothetical iftar meals that they will have with their future spouse?
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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by SheSaid View Post
    But where will people share hypothetical iftar meals that they will have with their future spouse?
    Funny!



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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

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    Last edited by Simply_Logical; 04-05-15 at 09:28 PM.

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Please shut down the poetry section too. Those crazy love poems are driving me nuts
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    Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Looooooooooooooool^^

    I love that section. I OBJECT!!!!!!!!!
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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by iRepIslam View Post
    Looooooooooooooool^^

    I love that section. I OBJECT!!!!!!!!!
    Hahaaa!! no wayy, they're wack
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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    ...
    Last edited by Simply_Logical; 04-05-15 at 09:28 PM.

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Agreed

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by islamuslim View Post
    Agreed
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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Most problems are caused by single people so why don't we ban them for Ramadan instead?

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by علي بن عبد الله View Post
    ..?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Abu 'Abdullaah View Post
    Most problems are caused by single people so why don't we ban them for Ramadan instead?
    Lol yeah
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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by Abu 'Abdullaah View Post
    Most problems are caused by single people so why don't we ban them for Ramadan instead?
    More like, we should bann married user's since they dont need advice
    Ya Allah,
    Make me a stronger person today. Make me a better person out of all these. It is no longer bearable for me for my heart is aching and You are the only One who knows how I feel. Nothing is making sense to myself and for anyone else for that matter especially to the one person I wish to understand me better than anybody else.
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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    So hows it going? Are the mods considering it or not?

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by *Sweety* View Post
    So hows it going? Are the mods considering it or not?
    One of them told me yesterday that "The mods will discuss this and get back to you in shaa'Allah. "

    I wish I could see who voted, and for what. Well a few people have mentioned above, but I guess only the Moderators can see the full picture.

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Nyo.
    I am just a simple nomad.

    Ephemeral reader

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by SimpleTraveller View Post
    One of them told me yesterday that "The mods will discuss this and get back to you in shaa'Allah. "

    I wish I could see who voted, and for what. Well a few people have mentioned above, but I guess only the Moderators can see the full picture.
    At least it's something

    I think you could have done a public vote? Where you could have seen who voted? oh well too late now

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by Abu 'Abdullaah View Post
    Most problems are caused by single people so why don't we ban them for Ramadan instead?
    I am just a simple nomad.

    Ephemeral reader

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by patient believer View Post
    More like, we should bann married user's since they dont need advice
    Hanna. Pls.
    Il become a mod and ban you.
    I am just a simple nomad.

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by patient believer View Post
    More like, we should bann married user's since they dont need advice
    What I find hilarious is when a married user asks for advice to their marriage problems and a bunch of singles are giving them that advice xd

    Young singles at that!

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Since it's the Election Day today, may I remind those of you who have not voted to please do so now - and cast your vote to decide whether to shut the Marriage Forum during Ramadan.

    At least you know there's no debate with this vote about it being permissible or not, difference of opinion etc.

    Each vote counts, so don't delay and click Yes or No above.

    Jazakallah khair.

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by SimpleTraveller View Post
    Since it's the Election Day today, may I remind those of you who have not voted to please do so now - and cast your vote to decide whether to shut the Marriage Forum during Ramadan.

    At least you know there's no debate with this vote about it being permissible or not, difference of opinion etc.

    Each vote counts, so don't delay and click Yes or No above.

    Jazakallah khair.
    Won't people just start putting all their marriage threads in the lounge instead?

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    EDIT: Quark beat me to it.

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    I'm totally against the idea and here's my take on it
    If there's something wrong about Marriage Forum then it should be shut down right now . why to wait till Ramadan to do it ? It's likes saying Muslims have no will ; we should control them, dictate them what to do ..etc . Ramadan is not a hard time for Muslims where they should shut down forums , struggle and suffer to make it . It's a holy month that we love and wait for eagerly .During Ramadan we live normally but trying to do more extra worships and gets benefit of its blessing days .
    why some Muslims change 180 degree in Ramadan then back to old habits right after it ? . Just image they close the forum during Ramadan then open it after it finished
    if I'm not Muslim this will give me bad impression about Muslims HYPOCRISY and UNREALISTIC .
    sorry It's bad idea
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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by myeverything View Post
    I'm totally against the idea and here's my take on it
    If there's something wrong about Marriage Forum then it should be shut down right now . why to wait till Ramadan to do it ? It's likes saying Muslims have no will ; we should control them, dictate them what to do ..etc . Ramadan is not a hard time for Muslims where they should shut down forums , struggle and suffer to make it . It's a holy month that we love and wait for eagerly .During Ramadan we live normally but trying to do more extra worships and gets benefit of its blessing days .
    why some Muslims change 180 degree in Ramadan then back to old habits right after it ? . Just image they close the forum during Ramadan then open it after it finished
    if I'm not Muslim this will give me bad impression about Muslims HYPOCRISY and UNREALISTIC .
    sorry It's bad idea
    The point is, a permanent shutdown will just not happen. It's unrealistic. So at the very least, at least shut it down during Ramadan so those who spend their lives on it making pointless threads can be deprived of this during the month - and forced to find much more beneficial things to do with their time.

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by SimpleTraveller View Post
    The point is, a permanent shutdown will just not happen. It's unrealistic. So at the very least, at least shut it down during Ramadan so those who spend their lives on it making pointless threads can be deprived of this during the month - and forced to find much more beneficial things to do with their time.
    man I get ur point and I know u mean well , but the approach ( idea ) is very wrong .
    u can't forced anyone to do anything or deprive them from anything . They should do it themselves with fully conviction . not abstain from posting rubbish simply coz the forum not here anymore . I even doubt if they wil be rewarded for it . The intention counts in every single second of Muslims' lives

    # What's unrealistic before Ramadan can't be realistic during Ramadan
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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    i reckon thats a good idea. voted yes.

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    How about banning people for venting in other people's marriage threads?

    Thats for starters
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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by Sky Lark View Post
    How about banning people for venting in other people's marriage threads?

    Thats for starters
    How you mean ?
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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by علي بن عبد الله View Post
    How you mean ?
    We've seen how some members go crazy venting out in certain threads when things go wrong..going into several pages.

    Theres no need for that, really.
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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by Muwahid_ View Post


    No, I don't believe it should be. I never venture into that section, and if you don't find it to be a very useful forum to you then you would do well to avoid it. But, I imagine a lot of people on the forum derive some benefit from the forum and it would be punishing them just to satisfy a handful of people who aren't forced to browse through that part of the site.
    Agreed

    Quote Originally Posted by umm salabil View Post
    I think what we need is a"thread closing" button on each thread. If enough members click it, the thread closes by itself. This should put a stop to some threads. If admins are worried about misuse, it could require one click from a mod to close a thread. So if any number of members click it, but no mod has clicked it, the thread doesn't close. However, if just the mod clicks it or the required number of members haven't clicked the button, then it doesn't close.
    Not Feasible Not Possible



    Shutting down a forum for ramadhan wont work - its pointless

    If we want to vote for Marriage Forum Being closed down then we may as well close down current events - because people end up arguing..

    General Forum - because a lot of people end up posting stuff on there which are non beneficial

    and its going to cause more work for us mods during Ramadhan..


    really cant see this happening you can filter out forums for those that you don't want to venture in

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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by Sky Lark View Post
    We've seen how some members go crazy venting out in certain threads when things go wrong..going into several pages.

    Theres no need for that, really.
    True...But in that case, many would be banned lol
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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    Quote Originally Posted by علي بن عبد الله View Post
    True...But in that case, many would be banned lol
    It would depend...have to give them warnings too..
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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    I find the lounge section to be less useful. Sure there are good beneficial threads but more useless ones.
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    Re: Shut Down the Marriage Forum during Ramadan

    i thought of this thread when i created this meme lol

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