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  • Handsome

    1 1.89%
  • Brave

    2 3.77%
  • Strong/Fit

    5 9.43%
  • Funny

    9 16.98%
  • Educated

    5 9.43%
  • Nice

    19 35.85%
  • Rich

    8 15.09%
  • Other/ Pls specify

    4 7.55%
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    Top characteristic in husband

    Pls submit ur answer in the poll.

    Assuming that he is religious.

    Just sisters pls, brothers can vote in the wife threads.

    P.S. I hope brothers and sisters who are ok with free mixing to talk out side the thread... Pls no offense.

    P.S. I didnt put All the above cos everybody will chose that. Maybe we could make another thread that is what is the second characteristic...etc
    Last edited by insann; 14-01-15 at 04:48 PM.
    Sorry I dont carry a conversation nor an argument with a sister. I just put my point of view in general for everybody and it is up to you to take it or leave it.

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by missmirah02 View Post
    Me too Lol
    Alhamdulilah dont u think? If it took me any more than that I wouldn't bother leaving the house. :/

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    spontaneity
    laid back

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by HopefulOne View Post
    Alhamdulilah dont u think? If it took me any more than that I wouldn't bother leaving the house. :/
    Me either when I hear that it takes some girls hours to leave the house because of makeup I'm just like -_____- I have no idea how to do makeup though I try to and it just becomes a big mess

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by HopefulOne View Post
    Alhamdulilah dont u think? If it took me any more than that I wouldn't bother leaving the house. :/
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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Strive View Post
    Awks
    I'm not following.. :/

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by missmirah02 View Post
    Me either when I hear that it takes some girls hours to leave the house because of makeup I'm just like -_____- I have no idea how to do makeup though I try to and it just becomes a big mess
    I can't apply make up either hahahahaha and im older than u!

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by HopefulOne View Post
    I'm not following.. :/
    Takes me ages to leave the house :/
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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    the poll isn't very accurate. Yeah you might think youd want someone funny but what is the point if he isn't nice, or if hes nice but not educated enough to stimulate you, or hes educated but you don't find him attractive. Its always going to be a combination that you look for

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by HopefulOne View Post
    I take 10 mins.
    U is a real woman ... Shift+R improves the quality of this image. Shift+A improves the quality of all images on this page.
    Last edited by Ria; 14-01-15 at 06:34 PM. Reason: I'm using my tablet. No idea why its saying shift r

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    opposite of fat is fit

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by -qed- View Post
    the poll isn't very accurate. Yeah you might think youd want someone funny but what is the point if he isn't nice, or if hes nice but not educated enough to stimulate you, or hes educated but you don't find him attractive. Its always going to be a combination that you look for
    Agreed. It's not about specific qualities, it's about the whole package.
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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    :

    In no particular order:

    1. Nice
    2. Strong

    Not too fussed about sense of humour (because I make myself laugh) as long as he communicates.

    Would hate it if he takes more than 10 mins to get ready because I'd be waiting at the door. lol

    He is supposed to impress me no one else (not implying anything here). Ha Ha. Besides it's so much easier for a man to get ready.

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Humble
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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    erm where is the religious option??? well i choose strong/fit but i would also prefer him religious..

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    What about ugly men, like who will marry them
    Ya Allah,
    Make me a stronger person today. Make me a better person out of all these. It is no longer bearable for me for my heart is aching and You are the only One who knows how I feel. Nothing is making sense to myself and for anyone else for that matter especially to the one person I wish to understand me better than anybody else.
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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Hanasaeed View Post
    What about ugly men, like who will marry them
    Lolll

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    Its was a serious question missmirah02
    Ya Allah,
    Make me a stronger person today. Make me a better person out of all these. It is no longer bearable for me for my heart is aching and You are the only One who knows how I feel. Nothing is making sense to myself and for anyone else for that matter especially to the one person I wish to understand me better than anybody else.
    "Don't use the sharpness of your tongue on the mother who taught you how to speak

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Hanasaeed View Post
    Its was a serious question missmirah02
    Someone who is ugly to you is beautiful to someone else so everyone will be able to get married because people like different things

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Hanasaeed View Post
    What about ugly men, like who will marry them
    No such thing as ugly.

    I don't think women are as fussy when it comes to appearances. Men tend to be more 'visual'.
    'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Strive View Post
    Takes me ages to leave the house :/
    You're like my sister. Needless to say, we never go anywhere together.

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Hanasaeed View Post
    What about ugly men, like who will marry them
    Ugly women? Gold diggers?

    (My posts in this thread and the other are El oh el so no offence should be taken pls. No one is ugly)

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Why only one? Most humans have more than one good thing about them.

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Brave and strong
    Must possess gheerah cos let's face it no one wants a dayooth as a husband
    Has control over his emotions esp anger
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    Last edited by Strive; 14-01-15 at 10:29 PM.
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    AW: Re: Top characteristic in husband

    All vote rich but nobody says it in comments.. Sad to see that money really is sonimportant to many woman

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    Re: AW: Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Muslim96 View Post
    All vote rich but nobody says it in comments.. Sad to see that money really is sonimportant to many woman
    lol it mentions that it's assuming he's religious, what trait would they rather he have. Some would prefer not to live in poverty or struggling financially, which is fine.

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    AW: Re: AW: Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Grimmjow View Post
    lol it mentions that it's assuming he's religious, what trait would they rather he have. Some would prefer not to live in poverty or struggling financially, which is fine.
    Ok so its better to be rich but not funny or nice or be rude than be the usual guy who is funny and nice?

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    Re: AW: Re: AW: Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Muslim96 View Post
    Ok so its better to be rich but not funny or nice or be rude than be the usual guy who is funny and nice?
    It's not mutually exclusive but rather after religion, what would you most prefer. He could be funny or rich, but some would prefer rich. After all, finances are one of the top reasons for divorce nowadays.

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    Re: AW: Re: AW: Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Grimmjow View Post
    It's not mutually exclusive but rather after religion, what would you most prefer. He could be funny or rich, but some would prefer rich. After all, finances are one of the top reasons for divorce nowadays.
    Forever alone....

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    AW: Re: AW: Re: AW: Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Grimmjow View Post
    It's not mutually exclusive but rather after religion, what would you most prefer. He could be funny or rich, but some would prefer rich. After all, finances are one of the top reasons for divorce nowadays.
    To be honest I dont care about that. Ok, I am a man, but to me it is more important that she is nice and funny and modest..

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    AW: Re: AW: Re: AW: Re: AW: Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by HComet View Post
    you don't care about what, having money? your duty as the husband to provide so you must be making enough income in order to support your family and give a roof over their head and food on the table. this is the main reason why women would prefer a man with riches, everyone thinks its for materialistic reasons but its not. having enough money does ensure a more secure marriage, as grimmjow said i believe the number one reason most couples (in my family anyway) have argued is because of money troubles.
    Noo, I said I do not care if the woman has money or not, or is educated or not, if she is a good and modest woman that supports and loves me.

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    AW: Re: AW: Re: AW: Re: AW: Re: AW: Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by HComet View Post
    thats how it should be ideally.
    Yes, and that is why imo money is not that important.

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    I chose nice

    I didn't think about it too much just skimmed through the options

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    very attentive
    good listener (rare!)
    hard worker
    honest
    good moneymaker, though not necessarily gotta be rich.
    protective
    good at cooking, loves cooking (i always compete with hubby when it comes to cooking!! lol)

    And all the heavens go their way.... And only change is here to stay...

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    So handsome has zero votes, but rich is in the top 2? hmmm

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    I was meant to vote nice, accidently voted rich
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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by youngheart View Post
    So handsome has zero votes, but rich is in the top 2? hmmm
    Yes subhanAllah how bizarre. I prefer handsome over rich anytime. Infect I don't want a rich husband. Just someone with normal income.
    I have seen what money can do to a family and it ain't nice.
    My heart will go on

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by zainah View Post
    Yes subhanAllah how bizarre. I prefer handsome over rich anytime. Infect I don't want a rich husband. Just someone with normal income.
    I have seen what money can do to a family and it ain't nice.
    As they say money can never bring your happiness.. perhaps this is the true colours of the ummah forum members showing ( Lol joke please dont kill me)

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by youngheart View Post
    As they say money can never bring your happiness.. perhaps this is the true colours of the ummah forum members showing ( Lol joke please dont kill me)
    I think it has to do with the culture of some members on this forum. If I have to believe how much money and status comes at first place in some culture's I can totally understand why they can't find spouses.
    My heart will go on

 

 

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