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  • Handsome

    1 1.89%
  • Brave

    2 3.77%
  • Strong/Fit

    5 9.43%
  • Funny

    9 16.98%
  • Educated

    5 9.43%
  • Nice

    19 35.85%
  • Rich

    8 15.09%
  • Other/ Pls specify

    4 7.55%
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    Top characteristic in husband

    Pls submit ur answer in the poll.

    Assuming that he is religious.

    Just sisters pls, brothers can vote in the wife threads.

    P.S. I hope brothers and sisters who are ok with free mixing to talk out side the thread... Pls no offense.

    P.S. I didnt put All the above cos everybody will chose that. Maybe we could make another thread that is what is the second characteristic...etc
    Last edited by insann; 14-01-15 at 04:48 PM.
    Sorry I dont carry a conversation nor an argument with a sister. I just put my point of view in general for everybody and it is up to you to take it or leave it.

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Lol, sisters be like "Yo, where's Option: All the above"

    I hear humour is important. Let's see how my guess fares
    I write novels for posts. Beware.

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Other...all of the above
    wabihamdihihiladheem


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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    hmmmm i want him to be funny but at the same time he has to be nice too. but are most funny guys nice. because im funny and nice too

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Not being a psycho
    And strive because the sweetness of life lies in the struggle - Imam al-Shafi'i

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Strive View Post
    Not being a psycho
    good one

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ria View Post
    hmmmm i want him to be funny but at the same time he has to be nice too. but are most funny guys nice. because im funny and nice too
    Mostly haha. Funny and nice = good combination

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Taqwa, Sunnah and Compassion and Confidence
    وَالْعَصْرِ

    إِنَّ الْإِنسَانَ لَفِي خُسْرٍ

    إِلَّا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ وَتَوَاصَوْا بِالْحَقِّ وَتَوَاصَوْا بِالصَّبْرِ

    "If Allah (swt) only sent this Surah to us, for the guidance of Mankind, this will be enough for usĒ - Imam Shaafi'ee r.a.

    "Yeh dunya daar e faani hain, Tum apna dil mat lagaon, Ganimat samaj zinadagee ki bahar, aana na hoga, yahaa baar baar......"

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Strive View Post
    Not being a psycho
    That too
    وَالْعَصْرِ

    إِنَّ الْإِنسَانَ لَفِي خُسْرٍ

    إِلَّا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ وَتَوَاصَوْا بِالْحَقِّ وَتَوَاصَوْا بِالصَّبْرِ

    "If Allah (swt) only sent this Surah to us, for the guidance of Mankind, this will be enough for usĒ - Imam Shaafi'ee r.a.

    "Yeh dunya daar e faani hain, Tum apna dil mat lagaon, Ganimat samaj zinadagee ki bahar, aana na hoga, yahaa baar baar......"

    Khanqah Habibiyah

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Strive View Post
    Not being a psycho
    This plus humour

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Can I choose more then one??
    Ibnul Qayyim رحمه الله said: "Donít ruin your happiness with worry, and donít ruin your mind with pessimism. Donít ruin your success with deception and donít ruin the optimism of others by destroying it. Donít ruin your day by looking back at yesterday.
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    If you think about your situation, you will find that Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) has given you things without asking, so have trust in Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) that He doesnít prevent anything you want except there is goodness for you.

    You could be sleeping and the doors of the heavens are being opened with duaías being made on your behalf, SubhanAllaah: perhaps from someone poor whom you helped, or someone sad whom you brought joy, or someone passing by and you smiled at him, or someone in distress and you removed it.. so donít ever underestimate any good deeds."



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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Constant Hope View Post
    Lol, sisters be like "Yo, where's Option: All the above"

    I hear humour is important. Let's see how my guess fares
    Yeah better hope for your sake that it's not that important
    Ibnul Qayyim رحمه الله said: "Donít ruin your happiness with worry, and donít ruin your mind with pessimism. Donít ruin your success with deception and donít ruin the optimism of others by destroying it. Donít ruin your day by looking back at yesterday.
    __________________________________________________ _____________________________
    If you think about your situation, you will find that Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) has given you things without asking, so have trust in Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) that He doesnít prevent anything you want except there is goodness for you.

    You could be sleeping and the doors of the heavens are being opened with duaías being made on your behalf, SubhanAllaah: perhaps from someone poor whom you helped, or someone sad whom you brought joy, or someone passing by and you smiled at him, or someone in distress and you removed it.. so donít ever underestimate any good deeds."



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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    All of the above, he doesn't have to be rich tho.. I can live with a little less
    My heart will go on

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Muslima London View Post
    Yeah better hope for your sake that it's not that important
    Psssht! I'll take classes
    Last edited by Constant Hope; 14-01-15 at 02:24 PM.
    I write novels for posts. Beware.

    Ummah Forum seems pretty black and white. Was thinking of offering Skittles as Dawah to introduce a rainbow.

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Zero for handsome!!! what!?! wait!!! but I just got a job lot of "Fair and Lovely".

    Worra waste of money.

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Constant Hope View Post
    Psssht! I'll take classes
    will take years probably

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Funny and good looking. Love someone who can make me laugh. Laughter is medicine!

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by zi-zizou View Post
    Zero for handsome!!! what!?! wait!!! but I just got a job lot of "Fair and Lovely".

    Worra waste of money.
    lol

    but being fair skinned doesnt make u more attractive

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Humility wouldn't go amiss.
    *~* Learn Patience from Aasiyah (RA); Loyalty from Khadhija (RA); Sincerity from Aisha (RA) and Steadfastness from Fatima (RA).*~*

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Ria View Post
    lol

    but being fair skinned doesnt make u more attractive
    It might make me lovely though.

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Ria View Post
    will take years probably
    Perfection does take time ya know, kind of like women and makeup
    I write novels for posts. Beware.

    Ummah Forum seems pretty black and white. Was thinking of offering Skittles as Dawah to introduce a rainbow.

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by zi-zizou View Post
    It might make me lovely though.



    good


    use all of them

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Constant Hope View Post
    Perfection does take time ya know, kind of like women and makeup
    Just hope ur wife can wait that long. as long as the woman doesnt look like a clown when wearing makeup i dont think she needs to be a perfectionist plus real women take 10 minutes to get ready

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Makes you smile and feel comfortable

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    I miss romantic in the poll. My husband needs to be super romantic. He has to surprise me from time to time hihi
    My heart will go on

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Ria View Post
    Just hope ur wife can wait that long. as long as the woman doesnt look like a clown when wearing makeup i dont think she needs to be a perfectionist plus real women take 10 minutes to get ready


    Such meanies, poor 'little' me

    Ok, new tactic. Act all mysterious and broody. The serious yet alluring individual
    I write novels for posts. Beware.

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    ....
    Last edited by liya1; 05-08-15 at 07:26 PM.
    The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, "You must be gentle. Verily, gentleness is not in anything except that it beautifies it, and it is not removed from anything except that it disgraces it."

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by zainah View Post
    I miss romantic in the poll. My husband needs to be super romantic. He has to surprise me from time to time hihi
    Ta-dah...meet wife No.2

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by zi-zizou View Post
    Ta-dah...meet wife No.2
    You clearly don't know what romance is, poor wife of yours

    I was more thinking of a bouquet of roses and a nice dinner out..
    My heart will go on

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by zainah View Post
    You clearly don't know what romance is, poor wife of yours

    I was more thinking of a bouquet of roses and a nice dinner out..
    You just ruined two other surprises I had in mind.

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Other ..I can't really choose 1 quality but most important for me are..sincere,honest,trustworthy,caring,
    positive,balanced

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by insann View Post
    Pls submit ur answer in the poll.

    Assuming that he is religious.

    Just sisters pls, brothers can vote in the wife threads.

    P.S. I hope brothers and sisters who are ok with free mixing to talk out side the thread... Pls no offense
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    its a such a shame no one ever listens to the op *cries*

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by zainah View Post
    I miss romantic in the poll. My husband needs to be super romantic. He has to surprise me from time to time hihi
    Romantic should be an option

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by liya1 View Post
    10 points to this one. I keep getting guys who seem great then turn out to be nut cases!
    Sigh...
    Same
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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Define psycho please.

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    there's no option about "clean n neat"

    defo, I'll choose it

    lol

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by |Abdur Raheem| View Post
    Define psycho please.
    It's a term that can't really be defined
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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by Ria View Post
    Just hope ur wife can wait that long. as long as the woman doesnt look like a clown when wearing makeup i dont think she needs to be a perfectionist plus real women take 10 minutes to get ready
    I take 10 mins.

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by |Abdur Raheem| View Post
    Define psycho please.
    It's different for everyone

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    Re: Top characteristic in husband

    Quote Originally Posted by HopefulOne View Post
    I take 10 mins.
    Me too Lol

 

 

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