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    Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    I know many of you are not parents and do not have adult children, but inshaAllah if you live long enough to do so, would you allow them to marry outside of your ethnicity?

    Also, what kind of conditions would you require someone to have in order for your son/daughter to be allowed to marry them? E.g. do they need to be earning x amount of money etc.?

    Last edited by DaughterOfAdam; 06-08-14 at 02:55 PM.

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

    Of course and same is with my parents they (especially abi) have never been against it



    Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta Khalaqtani wa ana'abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa Wa'dika mastata'tu A'uidhubika min sharri ma sana'tu.' abu'u Laka bi ni 'matika wa'ala abu'u bidhanbi; faghfirli fa'innahu la yaghfiru-dh-dhunuba illa anta.
    O Allah, You are my Lord, none has the right to be worshipped except You, You created me and I am Your servant and I abide to Your covenant and promise as best I can, I take refuge in You from the evil of which I have committed. I acknowledge Your favour upon me and I acknowledgemy sin, so forgive me, for verilynone can forgive sin except You.



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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

    When we is Moslems ethnicity don't matter.

    Conditions? Probably be similar to their father in a different sort of way.

    Why.....I'll rant in another thread won't derail yours.

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

    yes.

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

    - Absolutly

    - All potentials would have the same basic requirements. No other ethnicity would have special, above and beyond, or otherwise extra requirements.
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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

    yes without a doubt

    have told my parents this and my mother has said she is not happy but i dont care.

    have told theif father and his face was like

    but I DONT CARE
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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by F_R View Post
    When we is Moslems ethnicity don't matter.

    Conditions? Probably be similar to their father in a different sort of way.

    Why.....I'll rant in another thread won't derail yours.

    I like cake!
    And who's their father?

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by Ansaariyah View Post
    Of course and same is with my parents they (especially abi) have never been against it
    what lovely parents you have! May Allah grant them al firdaws, ameen
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    Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Yes inshaAllah

    I don't even speak my language so that wouldn't be a problem in regards to communication between the son in law
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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by Muslima London View Post
    yes without a doubt

    have told my parents this and my mother has said she is not happy but i dont care.

    have told theif father and his face was like

    but I DONT CARE
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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

    So is the first person who votes no going to get bullied?

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

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    Last edited by F_R; 06-08-14 at 05:08 PM.

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by Muslima London View Post
    yes without a doubt

    have told my parents this and my mother has said she is not happy but i dont care.

    have told theif father and his face was like

    but I DONT CARE
    It seems you learned from your experiences

    Well done sister london
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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by F_R View Post
    My husband


    Is he a person on this forum by any chance? Lol

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    To the sister op, yes I would

    I would marry out my ethnicity and probably will

    So it is unfair to put restrictions on my children.
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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by DaughterOfAdam View Post
    Is he a person on this forum by any chance? Lol



    Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta Khalaqtani wa ana'abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa Wa'dika mastata'tu A'uidhubika min sharri ma sana'tu.' abu'u Laka bi ni 'matika wa'ala abu'u bidhanbi; faghfirli fa'innahu la yaghfiru-dh-dhunuba illa anta.
    O Allah, You are my Lord, none has the right to be worshipped except You, You created me and I am Your servant and I abide to Your covenant and promise as best I can, I take refuge in You from the evil of which I have committed. I acknowledge Your favour upon me and I acknowledgemy sin, so forgive me, for verilynone can forgive sin except You.



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    AW: Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

    Yes I would let them inshallah.

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by sunrise867 View Post
    what lovely parents you have! May Allah grant them al firdaws, ameen
    Ameen wa iyyaki

    I think its cos they seen couples who have married outside community and are still happily married? alhamdulillaah

    My sister's MIL herself is a revert and she and mum are like besties



    Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta Khalaqtani wa ana'abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa Wa'dika mastata'tu A'uidhubika min sharri ma sana'tu.' abu'u Laka bi ni 'matika wa'ala abu'u bidhanbi; faghfirli fa'innahu la yaghfiru-dh-dhunuba illa anta.
    O Allah, You are my Lord, none has the right to be worshipped except You, You created me and I am Your servant and I abide to Your covenant and promise as best I can, I take refuge in You from the evil of which I have committed. I acknowledge Your favour upon me and I acknowledgemy sin, so forgive me, for verilynone can forgive sin except You.



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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    InshaAllah,

    I have twin boys, one told me he wants to marry a Dutch revert girl, the other wants to marry a Moroccan girl.

    As long as the girls are Muslimah's.
    My heart will go on

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    Re: AW: Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

    I have heard of too many stories where a guy and girl from different ethnicities like each other and their parents say no.

    And then you wonder why zina is so rampant when you make marriage so hard.
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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Your kids are already talking about marriage?
    Quote Originally Posted by zainah View Post
    InshaAllah,

    I have twin boys, one told me he wants to marry a Dutch revert girl, the other wants to marry a Moroccan girl.

    As long as the girls are Muslimah's.
    They say good things come to those who wait, so imma be at least an hour late

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by F_R View Post
    Innit
    Oh come on, it was genuine question lol

    If you don't want to answer, that's ok

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by zainah View Post
    InshaAllah,

    I have twin boys, one told me he wants to marry a Dutch revert girl, the other wants to marry a Moroccan girl.

    As long as the girls are Muslimah's.
    But your boys are so young. So why are they thinking if marriage so suddenly. Maybe they matured quicker than me.

    I was held back from being independent and had too much of a cushy life
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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by F_R View Post
    I have a question for you

    I know many of you are not parents and do not have adult children, but inshaAllah if you live long enough to do so, would you allow them to marry outside of your ethnicity?

    Also, what kind of conditions would you require someone to have in order for your son/daughter to be allowed to marry them? E.g. do they need to be earning x amount of money etc.?
    I'd rather not answer that right now.

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by F_R View Post
    Aww why not? Is your husband a username?
    Gosh you gals, have some shame.



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    O Allah, You are my Lord, none has the right to be worshipped except You, You created me and I am Your servant and I abide to Your covenant and promise as best I can, I take refuge in You from the evil of which I have committed. I acknowledge Your favour upon me and I acknowledgemy sin, so forgive me, for verilynone can forgive sin except You.



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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by F_R View Post
    Aww why not? Is your husband a username?
    I don't have a husband..and if I did, he wouldn't be a 'username' lol

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Yes I'll let my children marry from a different ethnicity but I probably won't

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by F_R View Post
    Hey this is not shameless talk.


    Good coz usernames aren't very useful.

    Would you like a husband?
    Let's get back to the topic sis.

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by ibzy View Post
    Your kids are already talking about marriage?
    yes,
    Quote Originally Posted by firestar101 View Post
    But your boys are so young. So why are they thinking if marriage so suddenly. Maybe they matured quicker than me.

    I was held back from being independent and had too much of a cushy life
    I have a very open relationship with them, they can tell me anything what's on their mind.. and sometimes marriage is on their mind and they ask me about it.
    My heart will go on

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by F_R View Post
    Hey this is not shameless talk.


    Good coz usernames aren't very useful.

    Would you like a husband?
    It is when its on public mixed forum



    Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta Khalaqtani wa ana'abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa Wa'dika mastata'tu A'uidhubika min sharri ma sana'tu.' abu'u Laka bi ni 'matika wa'ala abu'u bidhanbi; faghfirli fa'innahu la yaghfiru-dh-dhunuba illa anta.
    O Allah, You are my Lord, none has the right to be worshipped except You, You created me and I am Your servant and I abide to Your covenant and promise as best I can, I take refuge in You from the evil of which I have committed. I acknowledge Your favour upon me and I acknowledgemy sin, so forgive me, for verilynone can forgive sin except You.



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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Who died and made me my children's wali?




    They don't even exist but still.

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by مسلمة View Post
    Who died and made me my children's wali?




    They don't even exist but still.
    Well you know how some mothers can be very controlling.

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Quote Originally Posted by DaughterOfAdam View Post
    Well you know how some mothers can be very controlling.
    Hmm okay.

    I just remembered I'm not supposed to be reading or replying to marriage threads anymore, but yes I'd be fine with my children marrying outside their ethnicity.

    Wait, what if they are already mixed race themselves - what does their ethnicity become then?

    I'll leave this thread once my question is answered

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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

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    yes,


    I have a very open relationship with them, they can tell me anything what's on their mind.. and sometimes marriage is on their mind and they ask me about it.
    That is good to see

    I can never tell my parents anything. We do not have that type of relationship
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    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Yes, because why not?

 

 

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