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    Marriage Section Behavior

    Shaytan is alive and well (May Allah curse him) and we should be particuarly careful of how we act and what subjects we bring up and how we respond.

    This is your modesty, your imaan, your deen and your akhira at stake here.

    There will be less tolerance for inappropriate remarks on this section specifically because it is so easy to fall into idle, inappropriate discussion when discussing issues of marriage.

    These are your sisters, mothers, daughters and aunties here.
    These are your brothers, fathers, sons and uncles here

    Behave and fear Allah who sees and hears all you do
    .لا نريد زعيما يخاف البيت الإبيض
    نريد زعيما يخاف الواحد الأحد
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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    Thanks for share this information..

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    Definitely, and we should care our EEman from shaitan mardud.

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    Thanks for providing nice information. Share more information about it with us.

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    You: Allah SAW Said: This don't mean you are the commander of the women, no, you have responsibility to them.
    She don't even have to work. She don't have to lift a cup. She don't have to do any work. She don't have to clean you clothes. She don't have to iron your clothes. She don't have to wash no dishes. She don't have to cook no food for you. She don't have to do anything! This is not her job. If you want to somebody to do that go hire a servant. But if she does that, this well be blessing for her in front of Allah SAW. She should do that to want to serve her husband to obtain his pleasure because the pleasure of the husband is next to what? The pleasure of Allah. The displeasure of the husband is next to the displeasure of Allah SAW.
    The Prophet SAW Said: "That the husband that goes to sleep, while he is displeased with his wife, What happens? The 'Maalaikah' (Angels) curse her all of the night."

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    One day inshallah when technology allows we can separate the genders by moving them to another planet. That will reduce fitna to zero (except the homos).

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    Indeed your behave is most important factor, we should always keep this in our mind that Allah is seeing us all the time.

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    Nice discussion it may resolve many muslims problems..
    Last edited by AbuMubarak; 12-12-14 at 08:10 AM.

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    Ya absolutely We should think about that.. like a relation...

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior



    Absolutely right

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    Marriage Section Behavior

    I agree, these kids are so childish!

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    Quote Originally Posted by ibraheemproduct View Post
    I agree, these kids are so childish!
    some of them are not kids
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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    Quote Originally Posted by islamuslim View Post


    Absolutely right
    Great discussion.. can you please explain me of these urdu words..

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said:

    The parents do not have the right to force their child to marry someone whom he does not want, and if he refuses he is not being disobedient towards them, as is the case when he does not eat what he does not want.

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    If your are not prepare for marriage, then don't get marry because your parents says or you age.

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    ..
    Last edited by Muslim Mothers; 09-10-15 at 07:40 AM.

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    Quote Originally Posted by koran101 View Post
    You: Allah SAW Said: This don't mean you are the commander of the women, no, you have responsibility to them.
    She don't even have to work. She don't have to lift a cup. She don't have to do any work. She don't have to clean you clothes. She don't have to iron your clothes. She don't have to wash no dishes. She don't have to cook no food for you. She don't Paris shuttle transportation
    have to do anything! This is not her job. If you want to somebody to do that go hire a servant. But if she does that, this well be blessing for her in front of Allah SAW. She should do that to want to serve her husband to obtain his pleasure because the pleasure of the husband is next to what? The pleasure of Allah. The displeasure of the husband is next to the displeasure of Allah SAW.
    The Prophet SAW Said: "That the husband that goes to sleep, while he is displeased with his wife, What happens? The 'Maalaikah' (Angels) curse her all of the night."
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    The only way you can work this out with him is on the basis that he is honest about his actions and take accountability for it.
    Marriage is about taking the bad with the good and being there for your partner through thick and thin.
    In my opinion your husband was wrong in flirting with women online when you needed him most.
    As humans we all make mistakes and are not perfect especially when we can be under a lot of emotional stress.
    The two of you may need some counseling to get through this situation because of trust issues that your husband has caused you.

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    I think the reminder needs to be revisited. Some threads have made me sick.

    There are some things that should be kept private, especially when talking about spouses or ex-spouses.

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    I saw this thread some time ago and I forgot to bump it.

    It's a good reminder

    I think there was another thread like this by Darul ilm.

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    It's a good reminder

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    Thanks for providing nice information.

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    Salaam Everyone! I’m so happy to join in the discussion inshaAllah. I wanted to share my Blog http://sakeenahbegum.com which has great resources for muslim women looking for advice for all areas of their life inshaAllah. Please check it out!

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    Thanks for this page! Wonderful resource.
    Check out this article about advice for newly weds and how to adjust to living together after marriage.

    http://sakeenahbegum.com/adjusting-t...fter-marriage/

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    Re: Marriage Section Behavior

    Quote Originally Posted by MuslimBro17 View Post
    I think the reminder needs to be revisited. Some threads have made me sick.

    There are some things that should be kept private, especially when talking about spouses or ex-spouses.
    folks, fear Allah
    .لا نريد زعيما يخاف البيت الإبيض
    نريد زعيما يخاف الواحد الأحد
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    جازاك الله خيرا أخي الكريم

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