I thought I'll share this post someone had written online:
So i've been reading a lot of the statuses in my news feed, and the main theme today seems to be about men being indecisive over the girl he wants and how they can make a girl feel so ugly because another girl is more prettier. It makes me so sad to realize that a man will be so picky with a girl's physical outlook and will leave her, even if she's a good person, just because she isn't pretty enough. While a girl can actually give an 'unattractive' guy a chance because he's funny, has a great personality or has a great character. I understand that men are visual creatures, but can't they for a second judge a woman by her heart and character. If you were blind, do you really think you'd go for a 'sexy' girl? No. You'd go for the girl who treats you like a king and gives you respect and appreciation. You guys need someone who makes you feel like a man and acts like a loving loyal lady. If SOME of you men keep going for a girl's look, and base your relationship off of attraction; I will guarantee you that the relationship may not last so long if she isn't the kind to have a brain and fights over everything and always wants it her way; you'll start to find many irritating and annoying things that you will start to dislike about her. Do you want a woman like that to be your children's mother? If looks are the only thing you go for I'm sure the girl will be taking care of herself more than she takes care of you and your kids. When time moves along and she ages, will she look the same? Nope. She'll get wrinkles and her body will morph into something you may not like to look at, and on top of that she still got that unattractive personality to match her. Would you still stick with a woman like that? It really irritates me when men leave a good woman for another just because of appearance. Stop having high expectancy when most girls would lower their expectancy just to fit to where you are in their list. I know from personal experience, I lowered my standard every time when I find a potential. But I always end up being their "low standard" and they wouldn't compromise their expectancy for me like I did for them. A woman with a good heart will make your soul tremble with love. Just give them a chance. Their personality can shape them into the most beautiful woman alive for all you know. She can be exactly what you always wanted in your dream wife. Sometimes great things can come in ugly packages. So you'll never know if she's the one if you don't 'buy' the ugly package and 'unwrap' what's hidden.
What do you think?