Asalamu alaykum brothers & sisters
I’m a happily married muslim guy. Alhumdullilah Allah has blessed me with a beautiful wife. Unfortunately everytime we’re out together men will really stare at her and some will even approach her when I leave her alone for a few minutes. These men are so disgusting, why do they still do it when she’s clearly got her husband next to her?
We get the tube together to work and these animals will stare, go out of their way to help her even when it’s not needed. My blood boils with anger everyday, I usually stare back with, which works at times. I’ve even barged a few and had a physical fight whilst abroad. Its not like my wife dresses or behaves provocatively, it upsets me when these guys leave her feeling uncomfortable. What makes me even angrier is that some muslim guys who have their wife next to them will stare as well. My wife wears the hijab with loose fitting clothes. I’ve had a conversation with my wife about wearing the abaya but she’s not willing to wear one, and I don’t want to force her. What do I do!? This is making me very frustrated! Any tips on how to convince her to wear an abaya? Thank you