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    Internet marriages and getting to know the other!- Sheikh Ubayd

    Sheikh Ubayd al-Jaabiree spoke against those Muslim men and women who use the internet to find a partner. He said there are amongst some men whose hearts there is a disease and who are cursed by Allaah such that they enter amongst forums specific for women with female names and start chatting with sisters and even if it is for da'wah for they deceive the people around them and then ask them for marriage etc.

    The Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said "Whoever comes to you and you are pleased with their deen and mannerism..." Saheehah (1022)

    Here the sheikh said a Muslim man who wants to get married should go to the wali (her guardian) and not through the internet so they can see the mannerism and deen of the one proposing. How can the deen and mannerism be ascertained from the internet? The hadeeth says "comes to you". Sisters and brothers he said be warned since these brothers and also some sisters have no shame in what they do and sometimes they break marriages as they maybe speak to someone who is already married and chat with them until the divorce has occurred. And he said he has received numerous complaints about this.

    Abdulilah Lahmami

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    Re: Internet marriages and getting to know the other!- Sheikh Ubayd

    lol at Ubayd al Jaabiree, maybe he should warn the madhkalis and spubs about the slandering and backbiting on their websites.

    With regards to marriage only if his followers take his advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ahaneefah View Post
    lol at Ubayd al Jaabiree, maybe he should warn the madhkalis and spubs about the slandering and backbiting on their websites.

    With regards to marriage only if his followers take his advice.
    you know what ive heard all this madkhali and spubs business but i seriously dont know what it means can someone fill me in please? inshaallah

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    Re: Internet marriages and getting to know the other!- Sheikh Ubayd

    Quote Originally Posted by muslimali1234 View Post
    you know what ive heard all this madkhali and spubs business but i seriously dont know what it means can someone fill me in please? inshaallah
    Same here...
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    Re: Internet marriages and getting to know the other!- Sheikh Ubayd

    Quote Originally Posted by OBL View Post
    Sheikh Ubayd al-Jaabiree spoke against those Muslim men and women who use the internet to find a partner. He said there are amongst some men whose hearts there is a disease and who are cursed by Allaah such that they enter amongst forums specific for women with female names and start chatting with sisters and even if it is for da'wah for they deceive the people around them and then ask them for marriage etc.

    The Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said "Whoever comes to you and you are pleased with their deen and mannerism..." Saheehah (1022)

    Here the sheikh said a Muslim man who wants to get married should go to the wali (her guardian) and not through the internet so they can see the mannerism and deen of the one proposing. How can the deen and mannerism be ascertained from the internet? The hadeeth says "comes to you". Sisters and brothers he said be warned since these brothers and also some sisters have no shame in what they do and sometimes they break marriages as they maybe speak to someone who is already married and chat with them until the divorce has occurred. And he said he has received numerous complaints about this.

    Abdulilah Lahmami
    So he is saying don't use the internet to get to know people? because they might be married or might lie about themselves?
    What about the sites for muslims who are single and looking for spouses? People marry from those sites all the time..?

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    Re: Internet marriages and getting to know the other!- Sheikh Ubayd

    i have to agree but i have to disagree aswell internet is like a sword it will either hurt you or benifit you. also those revert muslims around the world need internet to find potential spouses so i wouldnt rule it out altogether and i would never tell a muslim not use internet because thats just silly. not everybody has parents that will find them a spouse. not everybody is blessed to have parents even!!! you can find bad eggs anywhere! and as for those men who find married women on internet and they fall in love thats ther own buisness because at the end of the day we cant dictate

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    Quote Originally Posted by muslimali1234 View Post
    you know what ive heard all this madkhali and spubs business but i seriously dont know what it means can someone fill me in please? inshaallah
    Quote Originally Posted by XRUHYX View Post
    Same here...
    someone say madkali??

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    Re: Internet marriages and getting to know the other!- Sheikh Ubayd

    Quote Originally Posted by muslimali1234 View Post
    you know what ive heard all this madkhali and spubs business but i seriously dont know what it means can someone fill me in please? inshaallah
    Listen to this and find out
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    ÑÏ : Re: Internet marriages and getting to know the other!- Sheikh Ubayd

    so we can use the internet to slander muslims, dead and alive

    but we cant use it to sincerely find a spouse?

    seems rather confusing to me

    would i marry my daughters to a guy she met on the internet? probably not
    but would i marry someone i met on the internet, probably so

    it all depends on many things
    Terrorists do not walk around in turbans and long beards, but they wear suits and ties.
    Innocents are primarily killed by foreign policies which command bombs dropped from jet planes, tanks, and naval vessels.
    NOT from "suicide bombings".

    People who fight against this naked aggression are called terrorists. People who purport this evil upon mankind are called heroes.
    Stop being a victim of your own ignorance.

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    ÑÏ : Re: Internet marriages and getting to know the other!- Sheikh Ubayd

    regarding the evils of the madkhali brigage, i suggest this

    http://revolutionmuslim.blogspot.com...on-salafi.html
    Terrorists do not walk around in turbans and long beards, but they wear suits and ties.
    Innocents are primarily killed by foreign policies which command bombs dropped from jet planes, tanks, and naval vessels.
    NOT from "suicide bombings".

    People who fight against this naked aggression are called terrorists. People who purport this evil upon mankind are called heroes.
    Stop being a victim of your own ignorance.

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    Re: ÑÏ : Re: Internet marriages and getting to know the other!- Sheikh Ubayd

    Quote Originally Posted by AbuMubarak View Post
    so we can use the internet to slander muslims, dead and alive

    but we cant use it to sincerely find a spouse?

    seems rather confusing to me

    would i marry my daughters to a guy she met on the internet? probably not
    but would i marry someone i met on the internet, probably so

    it all depends on many things
    AbuMubarak, who are these madkhalis? Can you give me some names of their shaikhs.

    And can you find me amriki wife please?
    I looooooooooooooooooooooooooove Saudi. I truely dooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.

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    saudi, man of many delicacies

    learn any new ways to eat them?
    Terrorists do not walk around in turbans and long beards, but they wear suits and ties.
    Innocents are primarily killed by foreign policies which command bombs dropped from jet planes, tanks, and naval vessels.
    NOT from "suicide bombings".

    People who fight against this naked aggression are called terrorists. People who purport this evil upon mankind are called heroes.
    Stop being a victim of your own ignorance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saudi Prince View Post
    AbuMubarak, who are these madkhalis? Can you give me some names of their shaikhs.

    And can you find me amriki wife please?
    o, and if you click the link, it will answer your questions

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    Terrorists do not walk around in turbans and long beards, but they wear suits and ties.
    Innocents are primarily killed by foreign policies which command bombs dropped from jet planes, tanks, and naval vessels.
    NOT from "suicide bombings".

    People who fight against this naked aggression are called terrorists. People who purport this evil upon mankind are called heroes.
    Stop being a victim of your own ignorance.

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    and you hook, me up with a saudi princess, and i will find you an american wife, deal?
    Terrorists do not walk around in turbans and long beards, but they wear suits and ties.
    Innocents are primarily killed by foreign policies which command bombs dropped from jet planes, tanks, and naval vessels.
    NOT from "suicide bombings".

    People who fight against this naked aggression are called terrorists. People who purport this evil upon mankind are called heroes.
    Stop being a victim of your own ignorance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AbuMubarak View Post
    saudi, man of many delicacies

    learn any new ways to eat them?
    AbuM, what are you talking about?
    I looooooooooooooooooooooooooove Saudi. I truely dooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.

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    Re: ÑÏ : Re: ÑÏ : Re: Internet marriages and getting to know the other!- Sheikh Ubayd

    Quote Originally Posted by AbuMubarak View Post
    and you hook, me up with a saudi princess, and i will find you an american wife, deal?
    I think singles go first. So, do you know amriki woman who you can recommend me for marriage?
    I looooooooooooooooooooooooooove Saudi. I truely dooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.

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