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    Marrying Orphan girls !!

    As'salamu alaikum brothers...

    I am a muslim...... I self promised that I will marry an orphan girl..so that I can give her a new life and thus get reward from ALLAH .........( also to love her )

    I want to know is there any specific aayaths or ahadeeth about marrying orphan girls...

    how well ISLAM treats this good deed.... ??

    My friend also asked me the same. So I can know myself also I can share with my friend...

    Waiting for replies........

    jazakumullah....

    As'salamu alaikum !!

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    Re: Marrying Orphan girls !!

    dont know any hadiths and that, but may Allah reward you for your intention.
    The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said:
    'Take advantage of five things before five other things: from your youth before your old age, your health before your sickness, your richness before your poverty, your free time before you become occupied, and from your life before your death.' (al-Haakim--Saheeh)
    seeking piety...

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    Re: Marrying Orphan girls !!

    Quote Originally Posted by ayah123 View Post
    dont know any hadiths and that, but may Allah reward you for your intention.
    thanx brother... jazakallah.........

    I heard there are some aayaaths or ahadeeth about this... I really want to knw the importance of this...


    thanks for reply though

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    Re: Marrying Orphan girls !!

    Quote Originally Posted by swalihmcmr View Post
    thanx brother... jazakallah.........

    I heard there are some aayaaths or ahadeeth about this... I really want to knw the importance of this...


    thanks for reply though

    There are some ayaaths of treating Orphans good and by marrying an orphan girl you are obviously going to love her and make her feel wanted.

    May allah reward you for this act and grant you Jnnah

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    Re: Marrying Orphan girls !!

    Quote Originally Posted by ImperfectBeauty View Post
    There are some ayaaths of treating Orphans good and by marrying an orphan girl you are obviously going to love her and make her feel wanted.

    May allah reward you for this act and grant you Jnnah
    thanks bro..........

    can you quote some aayaths please.....I searched google....but not found yet. !!

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    Re: Marrying Orphan girls !!

    Quote Originally Posted by swalihmcmr View Post
    thanks bro..........

    can you quote some aayaths please.....I searched google....but not found yet. !!
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    Re: Marrying Orphan girls !!

    Abu Hurairah (R.A.) reports that the Messenger of Allah (S.A.W.) stated "Whoever caresses the head of an orphan (in affection), solely for the sake of Allah, a good deed will be written to his account for every hair over which he passed his hand."


    Narrated Sahl bin Sa'd:

    The Prophet said, "I and the person who looks after an orphan and provides for him, will be in Paradise like this," putting his index and middle fingers together. Volume 8, Book 73, Number 34

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    Re: Marrying Orphan girls !!

    Quote Originally Posted by ImperfectBeauty View Post
    Abu Hurairah (R.A.) reports that the Messenger of Allah (S.A.W.) stated "Whoever caresses the head of an orphan (in affection), solely for the sake of Allah, a good deed will be written to his account for every hair over which he passed his hand."


    Narrated Sahl bin Sa'd:

    The Prophet said, "I and the person who looks after an orphan and provides for him, will be in Paradise like this," putting his index and middle fingers together. Volume 8, Book 73, Number 34
    thanks dear.......

    I really wanted to knw about this issue..

    thanks.......

    if you get more info..... let me know... thanks !!

    jazakallah

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    Re: Marrying Orphan girls !!

    Quote Originally Posted by swalihmcmr View Post
    thanks dear.......

    I really wanted to knw about this issue..

    thanks.......

    if you get more info..... let me know... thanks !!

    jazakallah

    Btw, im a girl not a bro

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    Quote Originally Posted by swalihmcmr View Post
    As'salamu alaikum brothers...

    I am a muslim...... I self promised that I will marry an orphan girl..so that I can give her a new life and thus get reward from ALLAH .........( also to love her )

    I want to know is there any specific aayaths or ahadeeth about marrying orphan girls...

    how well ISLAM treats this good deed.... ??

    My friend also asked me the same. So I can know myself also I can share with my friend...

    Waiting for replies........

    jazakumullah....

    As'salamu alaikum !!
    Surah 4. Women

    1. O mankind! reverence your Guardian-Lord, who created you from a single person, created, of like nature, His mate, and from them twain scattered (like seeds) countless men and women;- reverence Allah, through whom ye demand your mutual (rights), and (reverence) the wombs (That bore you): for Allah ever watches over you.
    2. To orphans restore their property (When they reach their age), nor substitute (your) worthless things for (their) good ones; and devour not their substance (by mixing it up) with your own. For this is indeed a great sin.
    3. If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (a captive) that your right hands possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice.
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    Re: Marrying Orphan girls !!

    24v32. "And marry such of you as are solitary and the pious of your slaves and maid servants. If they be poor; Allah will enrich them of His bounty. Allah is of ample means, Aware"

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    Re: Marrying Orphan girls !!

    But you shouldnt solely do it for the reward, just do good things

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    why cant we do good deeds for the reward?

    Allah has promised us that if we do good deeds, we get a reward, i believe Allah says that to inspire us to get the rewards and not the punishments
    .لا نريد زعيما يخاف البيت الإبيض
    نريد زعيما يخاف الواحد الأحد




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    Re: 严 : Re: Marrying Orphan girls !!

    Quote Originally Posted by AbuMubarak View Post
    why cant we do good deeds for the reward?

    Allah has promised us that if we do good deeds, we get a reward, i believe Allah says that to inspire us to get the rewards and not the punishments
    Ye I knoe but we should always do good things no matter what, not just relying on the reward...

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    Re: Marrying Orphan girls !!

    Just wondering....How are you going to search for orphan girls? Who are you planning to approach?

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    i prefer to bank on the reward

    rewards motivate people
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    Re: Marrying Orphan girls !!

    Quote Originally Posted by ImperfectBeauty View Post
    But you shouldnt solely do it for the reward, just do good things
    you shouldn't do things for the material reward or so u can boast about doing it. its good to do things for Allah's reward as it shows you have true faith in His words.

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    Quote Originally Posted by silver88 View Post
    you shouldn't do things for the material reward or so u can boast about doing it. its good to do things for Allah's reward as it shows you have true faith in His words.
    yeah..I meant that only..

    I meant ALLAH's reward... not any money or kinda....

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    Re: Marrying Orphan girls !!

    asalamu alaykum,

    just wondering, isn't an orpahn by definition someone under the age of 15? or does that only apply to male orphans cause they can start to work and take care of themselves by that age?

    May Allah reward whomever intends good.

    I don't think it would be hard to find an orphan you just go to one of the poorer muslim nations and have your pick- plenty to choose from. better than leaving them there for all the kuffar to come and take them and then raise them up as agnostics (but they usually take babies and smaller children).

    I know of someone who married an orphan- she turned out to be an excellent wife- he sings her praises day and night masha'Allah and all their children are very pious and well educated muslims masha'Allah.

    Insha'Allah Allah will put much brakah in the marriages and families of people who choose to do such a great deed.

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    Re: Marrying Orphan girls !!

    Quote Originally Posted by swalihmcmr View Post
    As'salamu alaikum brothers...

    I am a muslim...... I self promised that I will marry an orphan girl..so that I can give her a new life and thus get reward from ALLAH .........( also to love her )
    A noble action indeed...May you accomplish what you intend.
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    Re: Marrying Orphan girls !!

    marrying an orphan girl... every mans dream... no in-laws!
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    ^^ I'm telling!!
    What does 'freedom' mean?

    Does the eagle want to swim in the sea,
    Restricted by the sky?

    Does the fish want to dance on the wind,
    Not enough river to explore?

    Yet the sky is freedom for the bird
    but death for the fish,

    The sea is wide for the fish
    but will engulf the bird.

    We ask for freedom but freedom to do what?
    We can only express our nature as it was created.

    The prayer mat of the earth is freedom,
    freedom from slavery to other than the One,
    Who offers an shoreless ocean of love to swim in
    and a horizon that extends to the next life,

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    Quote Originally Posted by seven View Post
    marrying an orphan girl... every mans dream... no in-laws!
    man makes a good point
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