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  • Ironing

    26 23.42%
  • doing the dishes

    28 25.23%
  • cleaning

    20 18.02%
  • dusting

    5 4.50%
  • vacuuming

    8 7.21%
  • cooking

    8 7.21%
  • other please state

    16 14.41%
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    Exclamation What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

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    (im sure there will be many )



    so what is the most hated household chore?
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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    cleaning the toilet

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by noor-upon-noor View Post
    cleaning the toilet
    ewwww I dont mind it as much, because we have a long brush but I usually let my ma do it
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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by Saudi Prince View Post
    I just wonder what would happen if this question was asked by a prospective husband, do you think the girls would have been as honest as they're now?
    ur such a jowker lol!we could trust you to ask such a question

    Quote Originally Posted by sunrise View Post
    *sighs* i've given up on my bros tryna get thru to them.. ive opted for evil methods like washing everyones clothes except theirs until they discover the wash basket muahahhah
    LOL!

    looks like ironings winning !!
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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    For me everything would come under other but its got ta be done coz cleanliness is half of ones faith, cant wait till when we can start liven like royalties and have servants in heaven insha'Allah aoooow
    Time beat you to it

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    I think ironing is not that bad but remember my thread lol..have to take it easy while ironing

    I 've voted for others...but I'm not sure what other worse things are
    Last edited by GAL-actic; 14-01-08 at 08:38 PM.

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by Saudi Prince View Post
    I just wonder what would happen if this question was asked by a prospective husband, do you think the girls would have been as honest as they're now?
    I resent that paranoid, cynical line of questioning

    Quote Originally Posted by fisabilllillah View Post
    why cant u atleast put things back in their original place? or if u volunteer to wash the dishes...wash em properly without leaving the curry stains at the back of the plate?
    Oh this happens in my house too- the forks are the worst When I was well enough I used to wash up again after a certain someone left stained dishes/cutlery in the clean rack but now I'm not well enough to do that so I chuck anything that looks dirty back into the sink and use whatever looks okay.

    Quote Originally Posted by Phoenix CG View Post
    his room is clean, my room is a sty, you walk in here its like action man
    Like that Bold advert in which the mum has to enter her sons room with a biosuit and oxygen mask

    I voted for hoovering cos' I can't tolerate the noise I don't mind ironing much cos' I buy mostly non-iron clothes so I don't have to do it much anyway and also I don't mind cos' I can do it whilst sitting down.
    Last edited by neelu; 14-01-08 at 10:42 PM. Reason: to mention reason i voted

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    My most hated chore is taking down curtains, washing them and re-hanging them. I would get the dry cleaner to come in and do them if it were not so expensive.
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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by Maureen View Post
    My most hated chore is taking down curtains, washing them and re-hanging them. I would get the dry cleaner to come in and do them if it were not so expensive.

    oh gosh yes i need to change my vote to the curtains thing...and shampooing the carpet.
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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by Umm 'Umarah View Post
    emptying the bin and putting bedsheets over the matresses, i don't mind doing the duvet cover though...but I absolutely can't stand putting sheets on and tucking them in the sides...but i always have to do it....and a complete eyesore is seeing people with a mismatch of bedding.
    irnoning the bedsheets takes foreeeeever
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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by ibn suleman View Post
    irnoning the bedsheets takes foreeeeever
    why would you be ironing bed sheets?

    You only gotta sleep on them, ironing for free. Why waste all that pwetious electlicity?

    People these days, not satisfied until they've ruined the world
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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by ibn suleman View Post
    irnoning the bedsheets takes foreeeeever


    who irons bed sheets haha
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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by GuCcI View Post


    who irons bed sheets haha
    I think his mummy's just trying to keep him busy otherwise God knows what he'd get up to
    ...sermons from this minbar come with tongue planted quite firmly in cheek.


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    and a little more than enough to drink; for thirst is a dangerous thing."

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by Joha View Post
    why would you be ironing bed sheets?

    You only gotta sleep on them, ironing for free. Why waste all that pwetious electlicity?

    People these days, not satisfied until they've ruined the world
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    who irons bed sheets haha
    Quote Originally Posted by Joha View Post
    I think his mummy's just trying to keep him busy otherwise God knows what he'd get up to


    whaa? ur not supposed to iron them?

    but they hang down off the bed? and if they are all creased they look a right mess innit ????
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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by ibn suleman View Post


    whaa? ur not supposed to iron them?

    but they hang down off the bed? and if they are all creased they look a right mess innit ????
    deary me...

    *shakes head in resignation - there's no hope for you...*
    ...sermons from this minbar come with tongue planted quite firmly in cheek.


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    a cat, a dog, and a pipe or two, enough to eat and enough to wear,
    and a little more than enough to drink; for thirst is a dangerous thing."

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by ibn suleman View Post


    whaa? ur not supposed to iron them?

    but they hang down off the bed? and if they are all creased they look a right mess innit ????
    whoa....

    hes lost it
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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    what did i do wrong?
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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by ibn suleman View Post
    what did i do wrong?
    ironing bedsheets

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by noor-upon-noor View Post
    cleaning the toilet
    Ur avatar is funny

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by GAL-actic View Post
    ironing bedsheets

    Ironing bedsheets....

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by beamz View Post
    Ironing bedsheets....
    no not me but ibn suleman

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Thats sad........ has he not got anything better to do * wonders *

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Oh, i forgot i hate anything to do with the dreaded toilet especially after my older brothers been in, never cleans-up after himself typical boy/man

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Folding the clothes.

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Dishes .. argggghhh
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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    hmm i would have to say that i dislike doing the clothes most...
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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    I can't say anything really.

    Except taking out the garbage. I don't mind doing it most of the times. Get some fresh air.

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by perfectpearl View Post
    Dishes .. argggghhh
    Shouldn't that be natural for you?



    I don't get it...how can women hate household chores?

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by Lambo5688 View Post
    Shouldn't that be natural for you?

    I don't get it...how can women hate household chores?

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by ibn suleman View Post
    what did i do wrong?
    i can't beleive you just ased that
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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    The worst has got to be cleaning the bathroom...the men in my house dont know how to mop the floor, or clean after their 'tash and beard timmings...

    I like hoovering, and i iron my duvet cover and pillowcase! It makes the bed look much neater! (Even though it ends up getting creased).
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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by Lambo5688 View Post
    Shouldn't that be natural for you?



    I don't get it...how can women hate household chores?
    imagine this bro, from the age of 7 u have been daily, hoovering dusting, polishing, cleaning, tidying up, hoovering the stairs ( major mission at that age) cleaning out the fire grate and hot ashes, bringing the full coal bucket in, feeding the pets, washing the dishes, cooking dinner for your father and brothers while ur mother is out working, sweeping and mopping floors, and picking up the shopping from the supermarket.... then u get to 18 and get married and u have to do all this and more now every single day of your life and have babies, no day off at all none, not even one, and more work than this on some days...cleaning windows, curtains,washing down the woodwork, walls etc. and being sent out to work part time too by the husband.

    on top of this not only do u have to do all these jobs sometimes 3 times a day, but for 24 hours a day you are on call,7 days a week, and in my case i have been doing this now for 30 years, so i still have another maybe 50 years to go insha Allah... imagine that akhi no day off from this type of work for maybe 80 years .... bound to end up hating it, and its not like u can have a change of job...


    ( bonus for me though in my family, the men do not allow the women to empty the bins and take them out, or to scrub the cooker top and roasting pots and pans thats the job of the man of the house )
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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by Lambo5688 View Post
    Shouldn't that be natural for you?



    I don't get it...how can women hate household chores?
    Ugh! Don't be so ...whatever the word is to describe it.

    No actually, it isn't natural, I loathe household chores, it isn't unmanly to do household chores either you know, it isn't just assigned for women.

    I don't like how men expect women to be able to cook and clean... They're meant to be looking after the women, not the other way around.

    *sigh*

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by ibn suleman View Post


    whaa? ur not supposed to iron them?

    but they hang down off the bed? and if they are all creased they look a right mess innit ????
    Don't you tuck your blankets in? :eek3:



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    Icon6 Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    going for shopping...
    To Market..for eggs..n daily stuff i hate this.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Abu Mus'ab View Post
    Don't you tuck your blankets in? :eek3:
    The ones wih the frills at the end at meant to be let down as it is.

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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

    Quote Originally Posted by scribble View Post
    The ones wih the frills at the end at meant to be let down as it is.
    Who uses frilly stuff? (excluding fais)



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    Re: What Is The Most Hated Household Chore

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    imagine this bro, from the age of 7 u have been daily, hoovering dusting, polishing, cleaning, tidying up, hoovering the stairs ( major mission at that age) cleaning out the fire grate and hot ashes, bringing the full coal bucket in, feeding the pets, washing the dishes, cooking dinner for your father and brothers while ur mother is out working, sweeping and mopping floors, and picking up the shopping from the supermarket.... then u get to 18 and get married and u have to do all this and more now every single day of your life and have babies, no day off at all none, not even one, and more work than this on some days...cleaning windows, curtains,washing down the woodwork, walls etc. and being sent out to work part time too by the husband.

    on top of this not only do u have to do all these jobs sometimes 3 times a day, but for 24 hours a day you are on call,7 days a week, and in my case i have been doing this now for 30 years, so i still have another maybe 50 years to go insha Allah... imagine that akhi no day off from this type of work for maybe 80 years .... bound to end up hating it, and its not like u can have a change of job...


    ( bonus for me though in my family, the men do not allow the women to empty the bins and take them out, or to scrub the cooker top and roasting pots and pans thats the job of the man of the house )
    u mean they actually use a brillo n scrub the cooker n pans n stuff?! Im impressed lol
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    Who uses frilly stuff? (excluding fais)
    I dunno. Ask the people who do use frilly stuff...

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    Oh, i forgot i hate anything to do with the dreaded toilet especially after my older brothers been in, never cleans-up after himself typical boy/man
    the worst is wen they think the toilet is a shower room so they throw water all over the floor....................so the poor person who goes next has to mop the floor..sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo annnoying!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ify View Post
    u mean they actually use a brillo n scrub the cooker n pans n stuff?! Im impressed lol
    lol absolutely my uncles, grandfathers and my father would never allow their wives beautiful hands to do such nasty jobs no way theyd let them take out the stinky bins either
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