Marriage In Islam
The reports of the seerah (Prophet’s biography) indicate that Khadeejah bint Khuwaylid (may Allaah be pleased with her) was a determined and intelligent woman, and she was also rich and had several kinds of trade. The men of her people were keen to marry her. She did not engage directly in trade...
100 Premarital Questions Answered by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani Not a perfect set of questions, but useful suggestions, for sure: 100 Premarital Questions In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful
This is long.. but worth a read.. and a wonderful resource for working out what questions to ask at a level that really helps you know the person you are marrying.. I think the real question to ask is.. Would you want to be married to this man or this woman for all eternity because as Sh...
Shaytan enters with the glance, for he travels with it, faster than the wind blowing through an empty place. He makes what is seen appear more beautiful than it really is, and transforms it into an idol for the heart to worship. Then he promises it false rewards, lights the fire of desires within...
Praise be to Allaah. The basic principle is that one of the conditions of marriage is the consent of both parties, because of the hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) which says that the Prophet SAW said: “A virgin cannot be married until her consent has been sought...
Short A to Z of Marriage Includes issues such as: Abandonment, Abortion, Arbitration (tahkim), Celibacy, Cleanliness, Contraception, Conditions of Marriage, Ego, Polygamy amongst many others.
Salaam all :D I'm as eager as the next person when it comes to marriage :p but I would like to lay down some ground rules for this forum since there seems to be WAY too many threads/ posts created which are either duplicates/ spam etc etc So here is what I can think of off the top of my...
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Do you suppose Grotbags is married?
I got married to a muslim sister some months ago, but may be due to demonic interference, anytime I go to her for the purpose of satisfying my urge, it could not be possible due to sudden loss of desire. Any ruqyah or medicine that could take me out of this problem ? mmanga
to those ppl constantly attention seeking and creating threads about marriage as in "what do brothers/sisters think about x, y or z", or "i want to get married but ..." or "i cant find a husband/wife .." or "how can i find a spouse online .." and all the rest blah blah blah .... please just shut...
... is that you first see her behavior and thoughts and then her looks. There are so many really cool sisters here but Allah knows what they look like and at the end of the day looks matter. I believe it is imperative that you be physically attracted to the person you're marrying. Ideally what...
whats ur thoughts about it? sisters would u marry a younger man n brothers will u marry an older women?
نحن نؤمن أن التوفيق بيد الله سبحانه وحدة وأن كل شيء مقدر ومكتوب .. ولكن هناك أسباب يجب الأخذ بها مع التوكل على الله We believe that success is in the hands of Allah SWT and that everything has been written and destined.. but there are actions that we must be doing whilst having Tawakul on...
... why men have become so picky. Sisters always complaining that men are too choosy about age, skin color, beauty and on and on. It's because it's become hard to marry more than once. Seriously. We are generally only given one shot to get married to that perfect one and then we're stuck....
:salams Is there a time limit on the getting-to-know period before marriage/nikaah. Some people have 2 or 3 meetings and get married. Other may need 10 meetings (appropriately supervised) to get all the information they need to make a decision. But islamically, is there a time limit? For...
Hello / Assalamu Alaikum Just got married (nikah done) and now going to do walima, I think that’s what its called. After that the girl will be coming to my/our house. The thing is I don’t know what are her rights? I mean I will care, respect and compromise with her. But like I don’t want to...
Many brothers just assume they can handle a polygamous marriage but instead of fantasying about the 'perfect marriage' you have to be logical marriage can be expensive especially when juggling multiple wives you have to pay for their mahrs, buy them things, and get a house,if they have children you...
:salams Money is one of the main causes of arguments among married couples. ... Do (would) you and your spouse agree on having a joint bank account ? Why ? Why not? state your opinions. :jkk:
when it comes to marriage, is skin colour an issue for you? i have noticed that particularly amongst bangladeshis,pakistanis its a major issue and they dont go for dark skinned people. your thoughts...
salam. to my single brothers out there; sincerly from the bottom of me heart, i feel as you do. however i have some words of adive that ive collected from elders ive come across, and from life experience, pertaining to marrage. first, i will ask some questions that only you yourself can...
Asalamu-alaikum, Basically, my first cousin has been living in Pakistan all his life and I've been here (UK) so we don't know each other, but we have met quite a few times when I've visited. He's been hassling me since I was 14/15 (I'm now 22) when I've visited and also through email saying that...
Ila: Annulment of a marriage after the husband's sworn testimony to have refrained from sexual intercourse with his wife for a period of at least four months. For further details, refer to the chapter on ila can some one help me find more info on it please i looked around but i couldnt find...
Most of the discussions on polygamy here are referring to the jealousy the first wife might have but imagine how jealous the 2nd(3rd,or even 4th) wives feel? being in love with a man that has already found someone :inlove:, or marrying a man that has already found TWO women:inlove::inlove: but...
wives preventing polygyny source: silsilat ul-hudaa wa nnoor – the series of guidance and light -tape no. 787 ~ this is a much needed admonition to the muslimaat upon the sunnah, and may Allaah grant both men and women the akhlaaq (manners) to deal with such situations. shaykh al-albaani...
Question for all the married brothers and sisters on the forum...how is the first few weeks of marriage I know if the spouses didn't take some time in the meetings prior to marriage it can sort of feel like living with a stranger in the first few weeks especially if your a sister and have to move...
dis thread is in no way inspired by another thred in de marriage section. or any other part of ummah.com :o if u r single n u want 2 b happy u shud kno dat single ppl: enjoy freedom (dis is someting dat de oppressed dont have) can wake up wen ever dey like (de oppressed have 2 wake up...
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