Does it just happen naturaly??

[zarah_87]

One thing i noticed a while back was that practicing sister wearing hijab/jilbab/nikab...... when thier lost and cant find their way and say that thers no femails around they'd rather approach a non-muslim man and ask him for direction and help rather then a practicing brother.....:
is it just me who noticed this?? rubeyes:

[qwickmalik]

aint come across this .... but seems serious.

can anyone shed more light of the reasons for this? I'm curious

[muslim_sis]

well u cant ask us why they do this ,we dont know ... also u cant say ''sisters that wear hijaab and jilbab'' , coz thats a generalisation [not from islam,its just the individuals themselves-if it was something to do with modesty then u can generalise with muslim women as thats how they are meant to be, and this is from islam]

.....but anyway if ur asking about what islam says , Allahu Alam , but i think it would be more bettering for a muslim woman to ask a muslim man , so they both conduct themselves in the right manner [i.e.lowering the gaze] being of benefit for both of them , allahu alam

[mara]

If i got lost i would ask the first person about direction. I would not wait until a muslim man would appear to tell me.:)

[muslim_sis]

If i got lost i would ask the first person about direction. I would not wait until a muslim man would appear to tell me.:)
lol , true id prob do the same ...
but if ther was a choice i think she meant , allahu alam .

[Hafsah]

maybe its just the sisters you know

like mara said...if you're lost..you're not exactly gonna be fussy about who you ask

[zarah_87]

lol , true id prob do the same ...
but if ther was a choice i think she meant , allahu alam .

thats what i ment sis. if she had a choice between a practising bro or a non-muslim dude.

the reason i mentiond it is coz i see it happen in east-london alot and kinda get abit confused :rubeyes:

they might have good reasons behind it....Allahu alam

[islam..~*^rules]

yeh u wud want to find ur ryt way as soon as possible

[zarah_87]

yeh u wud want to find ur ryt way as soon as possible

Tell me about it :D
I got lost a few times in the city and people i approached(females) (non-muslims) lookd at me like.....you whaaaaaaat???....they seemd scared, maby its coz of the way i was dressed :(

[Fuchsia]

There might be an issue about not wanting to give the brother the wrong idea- at least a non-Muslim is unlikely to think you might be interested in him!
I know brothers who are comfortable talking to non-Muslims but embarassed to speak to hijabi sisters.
If I needed to ask the way, I'd probably ask a woman rather than approach a strange man.

[PaGaL~LaDo0]

One thing i noticed a while back was that practicing sister wearing hijab/jilbab/nikab...... when thier lost and cant find their way and say that thers no femails around they'd rather approach a non-muslim man and ask him for direction and help rather then a practicing brother.....:
is it just me who noticed this?? rubeyes:


yup i d0:rubeyes: i dnt g0 2 muzlim br0z c0z dwn ere der abt scry :eek: :hidban: :D :hidban:

[Ignatius F. Peace]

I would never ask a woman for directions .... wouldn't want to get more lost .... :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :embar: sorry

[Arifa]

One thing i noticed a while back was that practicing sister wearing hijab/jilbab/nikab...... when thier lost and cant find their way and say that thers no femails around they'd rather approach a non-muslim man and ask him for direction and help rather then a practicing brother.....:
is it just me who noticed this?? rubeyes:

Now that you mention it, Yep, I might do just that. But for me it's not about their religion. If brothers are hanging out in gangs I would never approach them same thing with non-muslims. If they're by themselves or wife, children etc going about their own business then yeh I'd probably ask them. I wouldn't want to draw attention to myself, just for asking directions.

[Nusayba bint Ka'b]

I would never ask a woman for directions .... wouldn't want to get more lost .... :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :embar: sorry

sexist:rolleyes:

[Ibn Sina]

I would never ask a woman for directions .... wouldn't want to get more lost .... :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :embar: sorry

lol :blobblue: :blobblue:

[.: Anna :.]

Its not a big issue to make a thread about. And I dont think it is most people who even do that. I would approach it in the same order as we use for doctors...

muslim female
non muslim female
muslim male
non muslim male.

nothing confusing or complecated about it. if the top one on the list is not available then work ur way down... and continue.

[MangoChutney]

One thing i noticed a while back was that practicing sister wearing hijab/jilbab/nikab...... when thier lost and cant find their way and say that thers no femails around they'd rather approach a non-muslim man and ask him for direction and help rather then a practicing brother.....:
is it just me who noticed this?? rubeyes:

i feel rather comfortable asking a non muslim guy than a PRACTISING muslim brother....if it's a muslim whose not practising then whatever...

[alhadid]

lol :blobblue: :blobblue:

I bet theres truth in that too , you know men and hunters and crap , woman stay at and and raise the kids. Why would they need to go anywhere ??

[new2islamagain]

Ive taken the leap and said Shahadah but how do you motivate yourself to stay on the right path?

[RaNdOm]

One thing i noticed a while back was that practicing sister wearing hijab/jilbab/nikab...... when thier lost and cant find their way and say that thers no femails around they'd rather approach a non-muslim man and ask him for direction and help rather then a practicing brother.....:
is it just me who noticed this?? rubeyes:

:salams

id rather ask a non muslim man aswell.... muslim bros are scary... :coolbro:

[ur_yusra]

:salams

id rather ask a non muslim man aswell.... muslim bros are scary... :coolbro:

Yeah I would rather ask a non muslim man too..

[PaGaL~LaDo0]

:salams

id rather ask a non muslim man aswell.... muslim bros are scary... :coolbro:

sistaz tink alaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaak:hidban: :D :hidban: sstp c0pyin ma brain maaaan:hidban: :torture:

[ur_yusra]

Ive taken the leap and said Shahadah but how do you motivate yourself to stay on the right path?

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[RaNdOm]

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:salams

:up: :up: :up: <<<thats sucha cheesy smily enit :rolleyes: