Zawjati

[Khattaab]

Assalamualaikum


Is this a nnew nasheed,...does anyone have this nasheed and album
Please post

[sajid]

its not new its ahmed bukhatir u can puchase from www.noormedia.com

[lonely_me]

That's a beautiful Nasheed.

[Nawar]

A bit too mushy for a public nasheed to be honest.

:S

[ur_yusra]

A bit too mushy for a public nasheed to be honest.

:S

:rotfl:

[sajid]

http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=94000

[Nawar]

I mean. Why would WE want to listen to him, singing about HIS zawjati???

I dont get it :S

[-Espérer-]

Yeah I know Nawar. It stings. Joke.


;)

[Nawar]

loool

where did this thread come from :p

[Ebony]

Oh...You really don't want to know what I think of this nasheed.

I can rip it to shreds 100times over :p

[Ibn Khattab]

zawjati is a boooooooooootiful nasheed

inshallah im gonna sing tht to my wife :D

[Salman Al-Farsi]

zawjati is a boooooooooootiful nasheed

inshallah im gonna sing tht to my wife :D


What if she prefers Bukhatir ? :eek:

[Nawar]

zawjati is a boooooooooootiful nasheed

inshallah im gonna sing tht to my wife :D


Yes Im sure she'll love you singing her a nasheed, that some other brother wrote for his wife :rolleyes:

[Nawar]

Oh...You really don't want to know what I think of this nasheed.

I can rip it to shreds 100times over :p

lool

Make that 200 times over for me :D

[Ebony]

Yes Im sure she'll love you singing her a nasheed, that some other brother wrote for his wife :rolleyes:

Sheer laziness I tell you :rolleyes:

[Ebony]

lool

Make that 200 times over for me :D


We should share notes :p :D

[Salman Al-Farsi]

Yes Im sure she'll love you singing her a nasheed, that some other brother wrote for his wife :rolleyes:

Its the thought that counts really.

[Nawar]

Indeed mashallah it is a nice thought.

Actually, Im not sure whats worse. Just singing this one, or a poetic husband who sits down and makes one up himself :p

[Ebony]

Please...have you seen the video? He just mopes around the house, looking for her jewellery to pawn.

Baaad baaaaaaad husband :p

[Ibn Khattab]

im sure my wife will prefer me, otherwise its :rolleyes:

[Salman Al-Farsi]

lets not get into backbiting.

I think its quite sweet of Ibn Khattab to sing this to his wife, and I am sure she will dearly appreciate it.

[Nawar]

Inshallah Ibn Khattab, dont let my comments deter you :p

[Salman Al-Farsi]

im sure my wife will prefer me, otherwise its :rolleyes:

i am sure she will akhee, and if you cant sing you can always mime. :up:

[Al-ghurabah]

sinigng to your wife lol.. man tahts funny..

[Salman Al-Farsi]

sinigng to your wife lol.. man tahts funny..


yeah bro, its crazy times we live in. Wont you agree?

[Al-ghurabah]

yeah bro, its crazy times we live in. Wont you agree?


mmmmmm...is there a hidden message( a point) in the above statement :confused:

[Salman Al-Farsi]

mmmmmm...is there a hidden message( a point) in the above statement :confused:
:smack:

[Jum'u@h]

zawjati is a boooooooooootiful nasheed

inshallah im gonna sing tht to my wife :D

Yeh Course insha'Allah, Singing to Wife is standard :inlove:

(loL)

[zarah_87]

sinigng to your wife lol.. man tahts funny..

i think its really sweet, im sure some sisters might agree with me.
its a way to make your wife melt brothers.....(but if your voice is realy bad then a poem will do) :D

[-Espérer-]

Yes Im sure she'll love you singing her a nasheed, that some other brother wrote for his wife :rolleyes:


Bukhatir never wrote it :p



What if she prefers Bukhatir ? :eek:


I'm not guilty of that! :nerdsis:


;)


Bukhatir's got a brilliant voice masha`Allah and I'm sure he loves his wifey like crazy.. But he really shouldn't be singing his love for her in public. That's what I think, anyway..

He should keep a beard :coolbro: (<--I just like the Beardy Man :inlove: )

[Salman Al-Farsi]

I ve only heard it once, or twice I think. The words are just stuck in my head since I saw this thread. argggh

[Nawar]

Dont mess about sis Esperer, he didnt write it :eek:

Yeah I agree, I dont think its necessary to express personal love in public. What people sing or say privately is their own business, but since when were Islamic nasheeds about that.

The ones which praise Allah (swt) and Rasool (saw) are best for nasheeds.

[-Espérer-]

Yup Nawar. And no, he didn't write it. I'll tell you who did.. If I can find the album cover *-)

[Jum'u@h]

The brother (Bukhatir) was on Islam Channel and he was explaining why he done that nasheed Zawjati, I dont think it was anything personal he just said that he doesnt like the cultural way how people treat their wife, like a house maid etc, and he wanted to encourage a more Islamic and proper treatment insha'Allah, so Masha'ALlah I think d motive is good Allahu Alam whether it had any personal meaning tho...

Either way....LONG LIVE SINGING TO THE WIFE (IN PRIVATE) :inlove: :inlove: :inlove:


(looL)

[-Espérer-]

You know I've been asked by so many girls, "Is Bukhatir married? Get a word in to him from me please."

It vexes me :s

I still don't think he should be singin, "you are my loooovvveeee you my wifeeyyyy" in public :p

[Salman Al-Farsi]

I dont like the idea of singing to wife or anyone, its too bollywood inspired. WE should adopt the Sunnah way which is the only acceptable way and promote it.

[Jum'u@h]

I dont like the idea of singing to wife or anyone, its too bollywood inspired. WE should adopt the Sunnah way which is the only acceptable way and promote it.

Bollywood Inspired? , lol maybe for some,

But the Sunnah is to treat the wife kindly, and do things that make her happy right? So if singing to her makes her happy then theres clearly nothing contradicting the Sunnah, rather another way to put it into practice :)

[Black_Flag]

i think if my husband sang to my i wud laugh so hard!!! im not one 4 that kinda stuff...

i'd prob be like "HAHAHHAHAAAAA ahem..hehehee...thats very nice...lets watch the errrm news instead!"

[-Espérer-]

BF I know what you mean. If he was singing just generally I wouldn't mind.. But specifically to me.. I'd be like :blink:

[Black_Flag]

totally man...i cnt contain ma laugh easily nd stuff like tht just pushes me 2 da brink!

[-Espérer-]

I do understand though that if my husband was singing to me that I'd HAVE to contain myself, because it would hurt his feelings if I cracked up in his face... But I'd tell him.. as politely as possible.. Not to, in the future

[Black_Flag]

yh tru say...but id let ma hubby kno b hand tht im not one 4 dat kinda stuf...

[Nawar]

Now now sisters, save all this for the sisters section please :eek:

[-Espérer-]

Can you tell we're missing it? :p

[Nawar]

Can you tell we're missing it? :p

I know.

Talk about HAZARD when its not about :p

Just contain the hate for mushyness sisters.

Please.

[Black_Flag]

LOL! i cnt help ma self!

[-Espérer-]

..Anti habibiti anti..... Zawjatiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii :p

[Salman Al-Farsi]

Bollywood Inspired? , lol maybe for some,

But the Sunnah is to treat the wife kindly, and do things that make her happy right? So if singing to her makes her happy then theres clearly nothing contradicting the Sunnah, rather another way to put it into practice :)

Where did the idea of singing to girlfriend/wife come from?
certainly was not the practise of Prophet (saw). Thats the point.

[-Espérer-]

Salaman what I think Jumu'ah means is that keeping your ife happy is a sunnah.. And for everyone, happiness comes in deifferent forms.. So for someones wife, singing to her may make her happy.. And so in a way the man is following the sunnah.. Because's he's keeping his wife happy by singing to her...?

[Salman Al-Farsi]

Salaman what I think Jumu'ah means is that keeping your ife happy is a sunnah.. And for everyone, happiness comes in deifferent forms.. So for someones wife, singing to her may make her happy.. And so in a way the man is following the sunnah.. Because's he's keeping his wife happy by singing to her...?

No sis, following the sunnah means fulfillign it according to the sunnah.

Even though singing maybe permissable but its still something from the culture of the kuffar. So it cant be sunnah something permissable (mubah) yes.

[-Espérer-]

Ok.. Can I ask if you have any sources for this: "Even though singing maybe permissable but its still something from the culture of the kuffar."

[Salman Al-Farsi]

Ok.. Can I ask if you have any sources for this: "Even though singing maybe permissable but its still something from the culture of the kuffar."

becasue the Jahilli Arab used to sing to their women publicly. And this practise was never adopted by Prophet (saw) nor the Sahabah.

But it really goes to show how media can effect the minds of innocent Muslims, these nasheeds are now going to next level.

[-Espérer-]

Oooh right, yes I et you. True Salman. But is it still following the Kuffars way, if its not public?



(You should have Mr Bukhatir up. ;))

[Salman Al-Farsi]

Oooh right, yes I et you. True Salman. But is it still following the Kuffars way, if its not public?



(You should have Mr Bukhatir up. ;))

its permissable in origin however my disagreement was that it should not be categorised as Sunnah, as that would constitute as slandering the prophet (saw) who never sang to his wives nor did his sahbah. For example, it is permissable to go away on a holiday with your wife but we cant say its the sunnah because Prophet (saw) never went to other countries to spend quality time with his wives. However if a married couple want to race each other in a secluded place and one of them lets the other win, this can perfectly be called Sunnah as this is what Prophet (saw) did to make Sayeda Aeisha happy.

[Jum'u@h]

JazakAllahu Khair Akhi Salman, for your explanations, But I think youve taken it a little too deep lol, I disagree becoz, If you read about Marriage and means of pleasing the wife - We can do anything that pleases them as long as its Halal. Now the question is, Is singing to your Wife in private Halal? Well, Ive never seen anything that says otherwise if you have something please bring it forward.

I didnt attribute singing to the Wife to the Prophet PBUH, As far as I know there isnt such a recording...but what I did attribute to the Sunnah is Pleasing Ones wife, and treating them Kindly etc. Like -Espérer- said, not everyone is made happy with the same things. The general topic of Sunnah here is pleasing the wife and treating them kindly etc.

Now as youve mentioned, Prophet PBUH used to race Aysha RA in the desert, does that mean that the only way we are allowed to enjoy sports with our wife is by racing...in a desert? - I dont think so, What is being shown from what I have read is how the Prophet PBUH was cheerfull and playful with his wives and we should follow his example, racing isnt every sister and brothers cup of tea.

As for singing to the Wife being from Kuffar society, I completely disagree,The Kuffar do things that are both Halal and Haram, and they do certain things which can be done in a Halal way or a Haram way. Obviously singing to your girlfriend is Haram, coz the Girlfriend itself is Haram lol, but to say that singing to your wife is not recommended becoz its from the Kuffar society is like saying bringing flowers home for your wife is the same, its from the Kuffar society right?

So yeh, Long Live Singing to The Wife (Still- Until Properly Refuted) lool :inlove: :inlove: :inlove: :inlove:

[Jum'u@h]

its permissable in origin however my disagreement was that it should not be categorised as Sunnah,

But Akhi, I didnt categorise singing as Sunnah, I categorised the act of Pleasing ones wife and making her happy Sunnah, see the difference?

The truth is lol, im onli kidding I doubt many brothers sing to their wives and I prob wont too, unless she wants me to lol, juss jokin about - Dont worry im not gonna start a Singing to Your Wife movement amongst the Ummah.

[Salman Al-Farsi]

Jummah if you notice my discussion was with sister Esperer as the quotes would suggest :rolleyes:

And there is a difference between halal/permissable (Ibahah) and Sunnah (Qawli/Fi'li/Taqreeri).

[Jum'u@h]

looool, The discussion may have been with Esperer, but it was clearly discussing the points I made earlier... and your statement...

"Wife singing is inspired from Bollywood", That statement wasnt quoted to anyone...was just a general post :)

N even if it was with Esperer...its an Open Discussion forum isnt it? :nerdsis: , it wasnt a PM ...

..So :rolleyes: To You Too looooool...N JazakALlahu Khair Akhi, Im aware of the difference.

[Jum'u@h]

Where did the idea of singing to girlfriend/wife come from?
certainly was not the practise of Prophet (saw). Thats the point.

N That ^ Was direct discussion with me...As the Quote Suggests :rolleyes: ;)

Sister Esperer was just saying what she thought I meant...Salaman what I think Jumu'ah means

Quote or no Quote, (even tho I was Quoted lol) The discussion involved me lol,

N now im bored...:wavey:

(1-0 Akhi Salman...lol jokin)

[Aasiya]

Please...have you seen the video? He just mopes around the house, looking for her jewellery to pawn.

Baaad baaaaaaad husband :p

Yeah. And that mobile phone bleeping away at the start of the video. For a good 5 minutes too, I add.

What kind of sublimal materialistic message does this send to our sweet flock of Muslim youth?! :p

[Ebony]

Yeah. And that mobile phone bleeping away at the start of the video. For a good 5 minutes too, I add.

What kind of sublimal materialistic message does this send to our sweet flock of Muslim youth?! :p

That he has a trendy mobile phone, yet his wife still is upset with him? :D

[Freshie]

Freshie like it this song maybe freshie looking for zawjati with british passport. thank you for your comment. :up:

[Aasiya]

That he has a trendy mobile phone, yet his wife still is upset with him? :D

^^lol.

I imagine a lot of men just buy a mobile phone so that when the wife starts her daily nagging, they can just use the excuse that they're setting their ringtones very loud to slyly screen out her deafening voice.

The "I-have-everything-except-the-love-of-my-life!" scenario is a regular occurence of life for mankind. :rolleyes:

Freshie like it this song maybe freshie looking for zawjati with british passport. thank you for your comment. :up:

I wonder what the Immigration Police would have to say about that daredevil scheme, Freshie. :p

[Ebony]

^^lol.

I imagine a lot of men just buy a mobile phone so that when the wife starts her daily nagging, they can just use the excuse that they're setting their ringtones very loud to slyly screen out her deafening voice.

The "I-have-everything-except-the-love-of-my-life!" scenario is a regular occurence of life for mankind. :rolleyes: .

Bet you he bought that mobile through pawning her jewellery.

[Aasiya]

^^lol! :rotfl:

I guess if you watched the vid with the volume turned way down, you'd really come to believe it.

[MTE]

Assalamu alaikom all,

I'm Mohamed from Egypt, I wonder if anyone can give me a link to download "Zawjati" for Ahmed Bukhatir.

Jazakom Allahu Khairan