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ok i dont mean to offend anyone lool , but something that happened to a sister makes me laugh to this day.
the sister was a kafir right, she was very troublesome as a kid, never use to get along with any foreigners, she herself was black, but didnt look african,
anywho there was this middle aged woman in the hood who could not stand her. the feeling was mutual, in her early teens the girl use to go TO this pakistani middle aged womans house and chuck rocks at the house shout paki then run away.
years later this girl embraced islam, became a very good muslima, and met a pakistani brother, he proposed and when she met his family she had a shock and a half when she saw the middle aged woman who was his mum
the good part was the woman didnt recognise her, walahi its so strange for a while the family would not accept her, the sister however kept firm despite the whole family hating her, she kept coming back, it was her husbands love that kept her going.
she was nice 2 the family but showed them she cant be walked over, eventually they came around, to the extent now they say she is the best daughter in law.
what a small world, i cant believe they now love her to death.
Irfan GBH
22-05-06, 02:31 AM
LOL, so did the mother-in-law ever find out it's the same girl?
Khadhijah
22-05-06, 07:18 AM
LOL! Thats funny! Subhan Allah! Good that it worked out tho.
Does her husband know about her favourite pastime? LOL
muslimah85
22-05-06, 03:39 PM
lol! may allah bless us with loving in-laws inshallah, theres much to be learnt from them and vice versa :love:
lool irfan to my knowledge nope
khadija defintely not i mean how would u tell ur husband that? hey baby i like use to chuck stones at your mum oh and call her names then run
somehow i dont see that one going down well
muslima ameeeeeeeeeeeeeen
lool irfan to my knowledge nope
khadija defintely not i mean how would u tell ur husband that? hey baby i like use to chuck stones at your mum oh and call her names then run
somehow i dont see that one going down well
muslima ameeeeeeeeeeeeeen
i guess this story in one of many, but sis Q they do not all end up like that unfortunately...do they..:(
i guess this story in one of many, but sis Q they do not all end up like that unfortunately...do they..:(
hardly lol :hidban:
Bint Yusuf
27-07-07, 07:36 PM
Oh i miss sis Q:(
Chained_Water
27-07-07, 07:37 PM
Oh i miss sis Q:(
Yeh mashaAllah.. where did she disappear to?
Lambo5688
27-07-07, 07:40 PM
Oh i miss sis Q:(
Yea I remember reading these really long posts by her, i think they were about her life....they were really interesting....and she left them cliffhanger style and I was like :banghead:
Chained_Water
27-07-07, 08:14 PM
she had a gift for storytelling that is for sure.. she'll make a super cool grandma one day, I can imagine a bunch of little kids sitting at her feet asking for more adventures :p ..mashaAllah
Bint Yusuf
28-07-07, 08:18 PM
Yeh mashaAllah.. where did she disappear to?
She left as soon as I arrived here. lol i must smell or suttin just joking.
she thought here was wasting valuable time and she wanted to spend her time doing something she will get rewarded for immensley i guess.
north/south sis
29-07-07, 08:26 PM
ok i dont mean to offend anyone lool , but something that happened to a sister makes me laugh to this day.
the sister was a kafir right, she was very troublesome as a kid, never use to get along with any foreigners, she herself was black, but didnt look african,
anywho there was this middle aged woman in the hood who could not stand her. the feeling was mutual, in her early teens the girl use to go TO this pakistani middle aged womans house and chuck rocks at the house shout paki then run away.
years later this girl embraced islam, became a very good muslima, and met a pakistani brother, he proposed and when she met his family she had a shock and a half when she saw the middle aged woman who was his mum
the good part was the woman didnt recognise her, walahi its so strange for a while the family would not accept her, the sister however kept firm despite the whole family hating her, she kept coming back, it was her husbands love that kept her going.
she was nice 2 the family but showed them she cant be walked over, eventually they came around, to the extent now they say she is the best daughter in law.
what a small world, i cant believe they now love her to death.
wow!! pray that happens to me when i return to my in-laws house (they didnt like me so kind of made me leave)
but my hubbys bringing me back soon, and i wasnt convinced they would ever like me again until i read this!!!!!
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