Would you let ur kids use ummah.com

[MMS]

being members we all know what goes on in and around the forums ;)

would you let your teenanger child use ummah.com?

[MalikOne™]

being members we all know what goes on in and around the forums ;)

would you let your teenanger child use ummah.com?

"hell no" :p

I dunno tho theres alot of advantages to a site like this as well. You can learn a hell of alot and it can help you become a better person. Hmm..

[Hayaa]

would you let your teenanger child use ummah.com?No

it's downright addicting :(

[K@M]

I probably would, but once he/she is 16 or sometihng. Funnily enough, my little brother wanted to go on this site today and I told him he had to wait till he was about 16 :p

And especially if I am browsing aswell (if I do by then), then I know he/she wont be upto no good and I can keep tabs on them. There is a lot of fitnah in this forum but there is also a lot of benefit, if you can control it, then its great. But thats a looooong way off anyway, dont know if Ummah will be around then.

[MMS]

I probably would, but once he/she is 16 or sometihng. Funnily enough, my little brother wanted to go on this site today and I told him he had to wait till he was about 16 :p

And especially if I am browsing aswell (if I do by then), then I know he/she wont be upto no good and I can keep tabs on them. There is a lot of fitnah in this forum but there is also a lot of benefit, if you can control it, then its great. But thats a looooong way off anyway, dont know if Ummah will be around then.

hmm why are u reffering to ur imaginary child as "He" what if it was a she would you let her use ummah.com :)

[PaGaL~LaDo0]

hahhahahahha in da bin dey vnt ave tym man der g0na b 2 high 0n da mang0 rubic0n :p lo0o0ol naaah man dun0o im stl a bachee maslf :nuts:

[Universal_Islam]

To be honest with you all, this thread is giving me a different impression about Ummah :(

I never knew about the so-called "what goes on in and around the forums" and "There is a lot of fitnah in this forum"

It is just shocking me !! that's all what I can say ...
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[K@M]

hmm why are u reffering to ur imaginary child as "He" what if it was a she would you let her use ummah.com :)

What you on about, it says he/she :scratch:

However, now you bought it up, if it was a girl, I'd ask the wife if she should :p

[MMS]

What you on about, it says he/she :scratch:

However, now you bought it up, if it was a girl, I'd ask the wife if she should :p

u edited it :eek:

[MalikOne™]

To be honest with you all, this thread is giving me a different impression about Ummah :(

I never knew about the so-called "what goes on in and around the forums" and "There is a lot of fitnah in this forum"

It is just shocking me !! that's all what I can say ...
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This forum is actually quite decent- content wise- compared to some other islamic forums :rubeyes:

I think shes referring to tha ppl that didnt know each other before ummah dot com and end up marrying each other and tha rest of it. Quite a few members here have been down that route.

[PaGaL~LaDo0]

^ lo0o0o0o0o0o0ol u r0te d0t instd 0f . lo0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0l :rofl1: :rofl1: s0oori i fnd d@ funi :p :nuts:

[K@M]

u edited it :eek:

I did? Check your quote Miss. it says exactly what I wrote and theres no "edited" under my post, I tihnk you are seeing things.

I'm too quick for you :p

[.: Rashid :.]

I'm 14. Joined when I was 13. So yes...I would.

It can be very advantageous...as long as rules are applied and followed. I know you;d be tempted to like supervise them or whatever...but that'd be weird (me speaking as a child). You'd have to sort of explain the rules...then trust them. Otherwise it'd ruin it. (like asking embarassing questions/discussing sensitive issues...you wouldn't be able to anymore etc)

-Rashid

[bint]

well...

id have ummah.com closed down before my kids came into this world.:D hek im only 19!

[Chained_Water]

I would let my kids use it :D

After giving the following warning..

For a daughter:

"There are some desperate brothers using that forum, some of them are probably 52 yr old men wearing stained vests and eating fried chicken. Don't go and fall for any of them and if you do you better tell me straight away so I ban you from the internet and disable the guys account for daring to mess with a mods daughter :torture: No, but seriously don't talk to random weirdo's and get overexcited if a brother shows you attention."

For a son:

"I'm glad you're not out on the streets taking drugs, but don't you dare try pulling any sisters on that site or I will skin you alive. But all the sisters on that site are really nice mashaAllah, so I'll arrange your marriage to one of them inshaAllah, just let me know which one you like :D "

Other rules: They can only use ummah for a maximum of three hours a day AFTER they've done all their other jobs. And they'd have to be in bed by 11.30pm.

And yes I know I will be a cool mum (inshaAllah). :hidban:

[sajid]

yeh our kids will take over teh forums lol

[Chained_Water]

yeh our kids will take over teh forums lol
We'll get them married to each other and they can all run the forum together and be on the admin team :inlove:

[MalikOne™]

For a son:
"I'm glad you're not out on the streets taking drugs, but don't you dare try pulling any sisters on that site or I will skin you alive. But all the sisters on that site are really nice mashaAllah, so I'll arrange your marriage to one of them inshaAllah, just let me know which one you like :D "



:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: comedy

Erm if ther only allowed on 3 hrs a day that means they got 21 hours of the rest of the day to be on the streets takin drugs :p :outta:

[.: Anna :.]

I would do the same as CW I think :cool:

[Te'oma]

well I have let my kids read what's on here but I have told them that they aren't allowed to post(mainly because I am logged in under my name) I often hook up and leave the site up while I am off doing other things. I haven't seen anything on here that I would hesitate to let a kid of 13 see. I often share the Jihaad videos and other stuff from here with my 13 yo son and my 18 yo daughter pokes around here from time to time :D

[janathi]

:salams

lol this thread is funny :p I dunno Allahu Alam! :inlove:

:wswrwb:

[Quest]

we will see when the time comes. Inshahallah dont like these sort of questions lol lets see when the actual situation occurs.

then considering what the forum is like by then, my mood lol (just kidding)
i will decide

[mara]

I don't know what bring the future but i would not be troubled if my children would spend the time here:)

[Al Qadr]

If I had kids I wouldnt mind if they came on ummah forum.. much better than chatrooms where no-one has respect for each other n they dont learn about Islam.

[MMS]

This forum is actually quite decent- content wise- compared to some other islamic forums :rubeyes:

I think shes referring to tha ppl that didnt know each other before ummah dot com and end up marrying each other and tha rest of it. Quite a few members here have been down that route.

well i wasnt talkin about the ummah.com marriages i was reffering to what goes on 'behind the scenes' :outta:

*runs before the moodyrators eat her alive*

[MalikOne™]

well i wasnt talkin about the ummah.com marriages i was reffering to what goes on 'behind the scenes' :outta:

*runs before the moodyrators eat her alive*

Can you elaborate for the rest of us? :p

[neelu]

I would let my hyperthetical kids use this place when they're aged 13 or above I think and I'd probably give the same warning as CW as well.

[Abu' Maryam]

Can you elaborate for the rest of us? :p
Innit like. :rubeyes:

[Omar]

No way

Id make sure they're occupied with other activities rather then coming here.

Also its not just this site specifically id rather they dont use the net that much. Unfortunately the disadvantages outweigh the advantages.

and we all know the probs with these kinda sites anyway, we just like to pretend there arent any.

[Peace]

being members we all know what goes on in and around the forums ;)

would you let your teenanger child use ummah.com?

Not for under 18s!!!!!

[Omar]

Not for under 18s!!!!!

heck id get more worried if they were over 18

[MalikOne™]

Id make sure they're occupied with other activities rather then coming here
and we all know the probs with these kinda sites anyway, we just like to pretend there arent any.True say my kids are gona be too busy training to become the next Muhammed Ali to come here :p Problems? They aint that bad are they? :rubeyes: If we're on the same wavelength here then I guess it depends on the individual and usage time.

[Te'oma]

heck id get more worried if they were over 18

whatchyoutalking about :eek3:

[TEH]

This forum is actually quite decent- content wise- compared to some other islamic forums :rubeyes:

I think shes referring to tha ppl that didnt know each other before ummah dot com and end up marrying each other and tha rest of it. Quite a few members here have been down that route.

And is that such a bad thing...?

[Omar]

True say my kids are gona be too busy training to become the next Muhammed Ali to come here :p Problems? They aint that bad are they? :rubeyes: If we're on the same wavelength here then I guess it depends on the individual and usage time.

True bro best to get them doing usefull stuff, also get them involved in the masjid and muslim community form a young age init :p

and bro there are some problems init :p but we wont go into dem :p

[MMS]

And is that such a bad thing...?

do you go through every thread and only reply to posts which have something to do with marriage? :rubeyes:

i know a sister who does the same i have found u a match

[TEH]

Do you go through all my posts and look for marriage related ones only...? Im chuffed..

:eek:

[Omar]

whatchyoutalking about :eek3:

dont worry :D

[Te'oma]

dont worry :D

had me worried there...if the age limit was 18, I could get in twice with some change left over :D

[Eemaan]

I would let my kids use it :D

After giving the following warning..

For a daughter:

"There are some desperate brothers using that forum, some of them are probably 52 yr old men wearing stained vests and eating fried chicken. Don't go and fall for any of them and if you do you better tell me straight away so I ban you from the internet and disable the guys account for daring to mess with a mods daughter :torture: No, but seriously don't talk to random weirdo's and get overexcited if a brother shows you attention."

For a son:

"I'm glad you're not out on the streets taking drugs, but don't you dare try pulling any sisters on that site or I will skin you alive. But all the sisters on that site are really nice mashaAllah, so I'll arrange your marriage to one of them inshaAllah, just let me know which one you like :D "

Other rules: They can only use ummah for a maximum of three hours a day AFTER they've done all their other jobs. And they'd have to be in bed by 11.30pm.

And yes I know I will be a cool mum (inshaAllah). :hidban:

buhahahahahahahha :rotfl:

moi?

im with malik solictors on this one: Hell No! :D

[Reptile]

Nope

[Abu Noah]

not a chance

[Nawar]

I dont get, why all you guys are here yourself then? :confused:

[Reptile]

I dont get, why all you guys are here yourself then? :confused:

lool too late to leave :rotfl:ive got the internet bug, if i had the chance to never to get into it, i would do it in a heart beat

[Nawar]

I think if you really wanted out, anyone could do it. :up:

But most people dont really want out. :torture:

[Reptile]

I think if you really wanted out, anyone could do it. :up:

But most people dont really want out. :torture:

yea insha'allah one day i will get off this thing an never look back, but i just dont think its essential for kids

[sis_sarah]

well i'm 15 and personally alhamdulillah i find this forum great! very beneficial to me too yet VERY addictive...

[ImaanSeeker]

I dont get, why all you guys are here yourself then? :confused:

ditto.

[Lambo5688]

Nevaaa. Then they'll find out about one of my "other" personalities....muhahaha.

Maybe when they are 30 and I am retired.

[*Starry_gal*]

:embar: Um....im 14 myself , i dont think this site contains anything unsuitable for teens! This forums actually reeealy great, ive learnt loads of new stuff from it. Personally I dont hav much against it.

[Kubs]

Hmmm I wouldn't encourage them. There are so many members here who are obsessed with marriage :rolleyes:

Also, some of the opinions are slightly 'extreme' and some are too 'moderate' - People have to understand there are differences of opinions regarding certain topics and I've noticed that 'some' members here follow and accommodate only one line of thinking, and basically anyone who disagrees with them is seen as a trouble maker or someone who is too lenient... rather than someone with a different line of thinking.

However, I'd like my future children to interact with other Muslims from different backgrounds........that would be good :up: This message board is a good opportunity to bring the Ummah together :)

[FYZ]

wouldnt you rather your child going on ummah.com, instead of MYSPACE or sumthing?

i tell you, man myspace is ADDICCCTIVE.

and hello...im a kid according to you people then...
im proably as old as your sayin your kids are...i feel embarrassed now :o

but anyways, i hold my point, and i know exactly why im on this website, so you know...my mum has no problem with it :D

[FYZ]

Not for under 18s!!!!!

thats not very nice.

it depends on your child's ability and maturity.

my mum has no problem with me joining this, i didnt even have to ask to join.

[As-Sideeq]

Assalamu alaikum,

I'm a teen:embar:

[peace2u]

being members we all know what goes on in and around the forums ;)

would you let your teenanger child use ummah.com?

Absolutely, positively ******HELL!!!!!!***** No!!!!!!! Maybe if they only had access to the sisters area but for all the other forums, no, I would not let them be on here.


Peace

[Al-ghurabah]

what about you mms do your kids come online?

[MMS]

what about you mms do your kids come online?

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[peace2u]

I dont get, why all you guys are here yourself then? :confused:

I'm an adult :D



Peace

[Al-ghurabah]

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:rubeyes: youve lost contact with them???
runaway?
married off?
live with their dad?

[MMS]

:rubeyes: youve lost contact with them???
runaway?
married off?
live with their dad?

we cant know what they r upto all the time can we :( parenting is so tough :zzz:

[*Starry_gal*]

So looks lyk majority of u reckon dis site is unsuitable for teens, I dnt understand why :confused:, As a teen myself alhamdulillah i hav nuffin against it. However thats just the way I see it, of course I understand that ppl hav their own beleifs and opinions regarding different matters. :)

[me.sawda]

Yes! I will let them join when they are teens. Its Much better than spending time playin Voo Doo PCgames or reading foul khik yiks jokes online.

[Raziel]

Yes! I will let them join when they are teens. Its Much better than spending time playin Voo Doo PCgames or reading foul khik yiks jokes online.

I'll second that sis...:D

:jkk:

[Supernova Nebula]

not until all my posts get deleted lol. i dont want them to be embarrassed lol.

[Raziel]

not until all my posts get deleted lol. i dont want them to be embarrassed lol.

too late for that sis...:D

:jkk:

[Supernova Nebula]

too late for that sis...:D

:jkk:

huh? i dont have kids yet:scratch:

[me.sawda]

too late for that sis...:D

:jkk:
Your kids comes to ummah sista?
True to say parents can comment on this much better not someone like us who are not parents yet but hoping like bunnies in places for studies:D

[Raziel]

Your kids comes to ummah sista?
True to say parents can comment on this much better not someone like us who are not parents yet but hoping like bunnies in places for studies:D

I'm a BRO....:D

and no my kid's don't come to ummah.com, because i'm neither married nor do i have any kids...:o

:jkk:

[Raziel]

huh? i dont have kids yet:scratch:

I meant when you said when your kids do come here (after your married of course...), you'd want to get your posts deleted...:D

too late for that...:D

:jkk: