Beard sisters??????

[Serina]

I just wondered..

How many sisters would want their husbands to grow a full beard after marriage.. or even if you are already married.. do u want your husband to grow a full beard.??

Reasons will be appreciated..

I also want to know from brothers.. if your wife wanted you to wear grow a full beard would you? or would you rebel?

[.: Anna :.]

Yes this is the sunnah and they should be keeping a beard. Theres different views in dif madhahib but totally to shave the beard of, is not encouraged by anyone. They should be making effort to grow a decent beard :up: insha allah. Still, if they don't do it then u ask them nicely u dnt "order" them in that way, but use ur powers of persuasion and expain them why they should

[BHAI]

mashaallah

[Abu.Bakr]

Assalaamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaatuhu,

I hope I am not coming across as harsh, but my wife will have no say in the length of my beard. Mine will keep growing InshaAllah, just like the prophets, may Allah be pleased with them, grew theirs.

Concerning the opinions of the scholars and madhabs, here is a link explaining it further InshaAllah - http://ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?t=80852

[Abu.Bakr]

There are authentic reports of Ibn Umar, Abu Hurairah and I think it was Ibn Abbaas radiyallahu 3unhum grabbing their beards by a fist length and cutting off everything more than that. But the actual sunnah of the prophet Mohammed sallallahu 3alayhi wassallam is to let it grow.

Allah knows best

[Ibn Khattab]

Still, if they don't do it then u ask them nicely u dnt "order" them in that way, but use ur powers of persuasion and expain them why they should

powers of persuasion :D hehehe

you sisters got plenty of that ;)

[.: Anna :.]

ya alhamdulillah

[ur_yusra]

I just wondered..

How many sisters would want their husbands to grow a full beard after marriage.. or even if you are already married.. do u want your husband to grow a full beard.??

Reasons will be appreciated..

I also want to know from brothers.. if your wife wanted you to wear grow a full beard would you? or would you rebel?

lol Serina.. :rubeyes: ...

Well I've always wanted my husband to have the beard and always will.. A beard is what makes a man.. because what makes a man is his adherence to the sunnah .. and that would be having the beard.. brothers with beards are more fitnah for sisters then brothers without them.. sorry that has to be said.. because brothers seem to think the only people that are fitnah are sisters..

Anyway.. a few things relating to the beard.. what about brothers who can't grow a beard properly..? like if it grows patchy.. what do they do..? .. and is it justifiable to cut it off for security..so one is not considered a 'terrorist'..?

[Abu.Bakr]

There's a hadith where a man could only grow 3 hairs and they grew long MashaAllah. One day he shaved them off and Mohammed sallallahu 3alayhi wassallam saw him at the masjid and looked at him with an upset look on his face. The man approached the rasool and asked him what was wrong? Than the rasool sallallahu 3alayhi wassallam said "I used to see the angels playing with your beard (3 hairs), now I don't see them anymore

[.: Anna :.]

I find this cut it off for security..so one is not considered a 'terrorist' reason so pathetic, I dnt think that is justifiable and it really bugs me when people use this excuse! Even more so when brothers are growing beards and other people are saying to them "cut ur beard, u will look like a terrorist. we dont need these beards, its only sunnah. we dnt have to do it bla bla bla" its so frustrating and annoying to hear!!!!! :mad:

[Abu.Bakr]

It's sad, I had my grandma visit us from interstate yesterday and the first thing she said to me was "Go shave off your beard, you look like Osama bin Laden" I said alhamdulillah lol Telling a guy to shave his beard is like telling a girl to take off her hijaab. Astaghfirillah, what is there after truth but misguidance?

[jimm]

the terms beard and sisters sends shivers down my spine.

use the words carefully

[Al Qadr]

I wouldnt mind if my husband had a beard... I think they look beautiful on most bros:embar: :75: as long as they seem humble and not judgemental of others :)

[Chained_Water]

the terms beard and sisters sends shivers down my spine.

use the words carefully
:banbear:

[Omar]

I prefer my wife nto to have a beard

[MMS]

i have a bit of an obsession with beards :inlove:

i dont think id marry someone without one actually :inlove:

i could braid it and dye it funky colours and straighten it and make ponys in it :D

[ur_yusra]

i have a bit of an obsession with beards :inlove:

i dont think id marry someone without one actually :inlove:

i could braid it and dye it funky colours and straighten it and make ponys in it :D

lol..:p

ahem that reminds me of a poem a brother wrote..

It was about the hoors.. and funny ideas like how she would play with his beard.. :eek3:

[Unicorn]

no full beard thnak you very much, a nice thin stylish does me nothing else sorry brothers out there sicere apologies

oh yea and the odd lil goaty ;)

[Furqan]

i have a bit of an obsession with beards :inlove:

i dont think id marry someone without one actually :inlove:

i could braid it and dye it funky colours and straighten it and make ponys in it :DI don't think you're allowed to do that... :rubeyes:

Braiding men's hair (http://63.175.194.25/index.php?ln=eng&ds=qa&lv=browse&QR=69822&dgn=4) doesn't mention anything about the beard...

[ur_yusra]

no full beard thnak you very much, a nice thin stylish does me nothing else sorry brothers out there sicere apologies

oh yea and the odd lil goaty ;)

Yeah but the prophet (saw) had a beard.. :crying:

[.: Anna :.]

Unicorn please can you chose a more appropriate avatar? jazakallah khayr

[Unicorn]

Unicorn please can you chose a more appropriate avatar? jazakallah khayr


whys that?:confused:

[MalikOne™]

no full beard thnak you very much, a nice thin stylish does me nothing else sorry brothers out there sicere apologies

oh yea and the odd lil goaty ;)

ur an idiot :)

but I must say goatees run tings- its all about the six inch goatees :D

[K@M]

It was about the hoors.. and funny ideas like how she would play with his beard.. :eek3:

Forget the hoors playing with your beard, do you know how fun it is to have a beard? You can play with it when you bored, twirl it around, hide stuff in there, man. endless hours of fun.

:banbear:

[ur_yusra]

Forget the hoors playing with your beard, do you know how fun it is to have a beard? You can play with it when you bored, twirl it around, hide stuff in there, man. endless hours of fun.

:banbear:


I can just imagine.. lol

Do you guys twiddle about with it when your nervous.. :rolleyes:

[Unicorn]

ur an idiot :)

but I must say goatees run tings- its all about the six inch goatees :D


LOL u sound familiar!!!!!

[Furqan]

I can just imagine.. lol

Do you guys twiddle about with it when your nervous.. :rolleyes:No.. Only when there're too many things that need to be hidden in there.. :rolleyes:

[muslim_sis]

Yes this is the sunnah and they should be keeping a beard. Theres different views in dif madhahib but totally to shave the beard of, is not encouraged by anyone. They should be making effort to grow a decent beard :up: insha allah. Still, if they don't do it then u ask them nicely u dnt "order" them in that way, but use ur powers of persuasion and expain them why they should
i agree with anna ... :up:

[Unicorn]

No.. Only when there're too many things that need to be hidden in there.. :rolleyes:


LIKE???????? few bags of saudi riyals??????:hidban:

[Omar]

Forget the hoors playing with your beard, do you know how fun it is to have a beard? You can play with it when you bored, twirl it around, hide stuff in there, man. endless hours of fun.

:banbear:

You hide ur next meal in urs :p

[Furqan]

LIKE???????? few bags of saudi riyals??????:hidban:Coupla grand.. :p

:torture: <- If you tell any1.. :p

[.: Anna :.]

whys that?:confused:it seems lacking in haya to put a pic of a big eye covered in a load of make up.
hence ur replacement avatar was also not appropriate
try again please

[sunrise]

As salam ou lakoum

Well i would definatley encourage my husband to have a beard inshAllah....the longer the better!

My reasons are:

Firstly because it was the sunnah of our beloved Nabi Muahmmed (Sul Allah ou a3lahe wa salam)

Secondly so people can differntiate him from the muslims and the non-muslims.

And, thirdly in my opinion it is very attractive mashAllah.

I think it makes them look a lot more manly...i personally think bros without beards lok too feminine (lol...sorry)

I can't tell you the amount of times i have walked down the street being baffled trying to work out if some people are male or female, especially with guys getting highlights growing hair really long and extra tight jeans...lol

Sunrise

[Abu.Bakr]

I think it is important to not judge our brothers who don't have a beard.

I know one brother who shaved his beard off because he didn't know it was haram to do so. I know another Hungarian revert brother MashaAllah who had a beard upto his belly button but came to class one day without one (he had to shave it off because of an operation).

Also, I know many beardless brothers who are very practising MashaAllah. They fulfil all their prayers, fasting, know heaps of Quran mashaAllah, but their weakness is the beard. That does not make them a bad Muslim at all, it might just mean they need some more time or motivation. Make dua for them InshaAllah and never judge someone without knowing the full circumstances behind him and even then, keep judgments to yourself InshaAllah because no one knows what is in our hearts but Allah

[Al Qadr]

I dont like goatees :S they look immature n playa :p

[Unicorn]

I dont like goatees :S they look immature n playa :p

playa???? thats a strong generalisation!!!

HEY IS MY AVATOR ANY BETTER? I TOOK OFF MY MAKEUP ;)

[Omar]

playa???? thats a strong generalisation!!!

HEY IS MY AVATOR ANY BETTER? I TOOK OFF MY MAKEUP ;)

she said it looks playa not tht they are playa :rolleyes:

[Al Qadr]

she said it looks playa not tht they are playa :rolleyes:


Yea thats what i said :p it LOOKS playa, and typical ...looks kinda quite cheesy these days :outta:

[.: Anna :.]

yes sis without the make up its better

[Unicorn]

Yea thats what i said :p it LOOKS playa, and typical ...looks kinda quite cheesy these days :outta:


beg ur pardon lol i think it looks:hidban:

[sunilight]

i like beard
but i like a happy fella more
and more than that one who is comfortable with his islam
so its up to him

the beard dont make the muslim ya know
its rather the icing on the top

[Unicorn]

yes sis without the make up its better


thanks sis :) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[MMS]

I dont like goatees :S they look immature n playa :p

goatees are a sikh thing :rubeyes:

[Omar]

goatees are a sikh thing :rubeyes:

yeahh it dont look good at all :D

[Unicorn]

yeahh it dont look good at all :D


not that kind of goaty but a real short one ;)

[Emelianenko]

lol Serina.. :rubeyes: ...

Well I've always wanted my husband to have the beard and always will.. A beard is what makes a man.. because what makes a man is his adherence to the sunnah .. and that would be having the beard.. brothers with beards are more fitnah for sisters then brothers without them.. sorry that has to be said.. because brothers seem to think the only people that are fitnah are sisters..

Anyway.. a few things relating to the beard.. what about brothers who can't grow a beard properly..? like if it grows patchy.. what do they do..? .. and is it justifiable to cut it off for security..so one is not considered a 'terrorist'..?
AS Yusuf Estes stated once: The job is not to grow the beard..tht is in Allahs hands..either grows well..or just on the chin like some brothers..or patchy..our job is to not cut it and let it grow to above one fist and keep it nice and tidy inshaAllah.

With the security thing, Sis these are all tests from Allah, Sahabah RA got persecuted and remained steadfast, if pleasing other people and making them feel more comfortable with us means shaving the beard and destroying an act which nabi saw ordered on men and displeasing Allah, then go ahead...but it sure has hell goes to show where our priorities are..mankind or Allah.

[PaGaL~LaDo0]

i tink brdz r0k!!!!! wo0o0o0o0h0oo00oo0 u cn plat em curl em n str8 em :D :D lo0o00o0o0o0o0o0ol :rofl1:

[ur_yusra]

ur an idiot :)

but I must say goatees run tings- its all about the six inch goatees :D

Thats not very nice..

I don't even say that to Al-Irhaab..

and thats saying something.. :p

[MalikOne™]

not that kind of goaty but a real short one ;)

Naa man its all about the longgg thin ones :D

goatees are a sikh thing :rubeyes:

u must've seen some weird sikhs in ur time- I dont know any sikhs with goatees and im basically frm Hounslow :rubeyes:

I dont like goatees :S they look immature n playa :p

It depends it suits some people alot better than others..

[Niqaabi]

i like beard
but i like a happy fella more
and more than that one who is comfortable with his islam
so its up to him

the beard dont make the muslim ya know
its rather the icing on the top
Beard doesnt = piety, but by following the sunnah of the prophet :saw: then it will help a brother become more pious.

As for me, yes i prefer beards. i prefer any sunnah of the prophet :saw: and any command Allah has commanded.
I dont mind the length of the beard, i know there is ikhtilaaf on a fist length so that is the minimum i wouldnt mind, but no way dirty shaven.

:alhumdull recently a brother i know has started to grow his beard, its growing long now mashaAllah and a sister i know has decided to wear niqaab, the only thing stopping her is me... cos i havent given it to her yet :smack::embar:

[MalikOne™]

Thats not very nice..

I don't even say that to Al-Irhaab..

and thats saying something.. :p

Naa it wasnt that having a jawline is up 2 him u kno, thas aight...whatever floats his boat but to dis-respect a sunnah is idiotic

[MMS]

Naa man its all about the longgg thin ones :D



u must've seen some weird sikhs in ur time- I dont know any sikhs with goatees and im basically frm Hounslow :rubeyes:



It depends it suits some people alot better than others..

i mean the modern sikhs, they all have gotee box ugly looking things

[Te'oma]

playa???? thats a strong generalisation!!!

HEY IS MY AVATOR ANY BETTER? I TOOK OFF MY MAKEUP ;)

ack...that's yer eye? Now I have to look down whenever one of your posts scrolls across the screen :D

[Ninjaress]

Asalamualykum warhmatulahi wabarakathu

Insha' Allah i will encourage my hubbie to grow a beard because it is indeed faraz on every believing brother. I personally think beards look soo :inlove:

:up:

walakumasalaam warhmatulahi wabarakathu

[RaNdOm]

inshAllah my husband will definately have a beard.....i find it the most attractive thing....so :up::D

[Nawar]

Beards.......:up:

No beard..........:torture:

Beard which aint kept neat and clean....:mujahida:

Im not a huge fan of the very long ones to be honest, because largely, they are difficult to keep tidy anyway.

[Ar-Raya]

The fact that the first people on earth..yes...EARTH, to be clean shaven...were the SODOMITES,the people of Lut (alaihis Salam)...would have been enough for me to grow Grow GROW...

But having a big beard (it's getting bigger,it just grows slow) is totally cool...(Alhumdulilah)
I can keep a pen in it which save putting it behind my ear...I can even hide my stylus (little pen thingy for my phone) so that no one can see it's even there...

I find myself stroking it a lot,I think I find it relaxing...
My brother always mocks me when I'm talking to him and I start to stroke my beard by stroking his hairless chin (he is beardless that's by choice that's why)

I kinda twisted it into makeshift platts once too...I looked like a pirate...
(still got the pic by broinlaw took on his phone)

NO MATTER what length a beard should be kept tidy and CLEAN...there are no excuses for poor hygiene...

OH and I dont really like Moustaches...so I totally don't have one...
IN DA BIN MAN (even though that's the wrong context i still thought I'd PagalQuote)

[ur_yusra]

OH and I dont really like Moustaches...so I totally don't have one...
IN DA BIN MAN (even though that's the wrong context i still thought I'd PagalQuote)
:rotfl: .... that is well catchy.. its tIk TiK bOOooommIINnnn

I don't like moustaches.. in fact i'd like to know a sister who does..


Side Note: iN dA bIn MaN wOoOOoOoOoOoOoOoOoOo

[Nawar]

^^^ lol

Moustaches make me cringe :S...:bang:

[Niqaabi]

i dont like moustaches either :S
beards are much better! :D :banbear:

[*islamia]

I just wondered..

How many sisters would want their husbands to grow a full beard after marriage.. or even if you are already married.. do u want your husband to grow a full beard.??

Reasons will be appreciated..

I also want to know from brothers.. if your wife wanted you to wear grow a full beard would you? or would you rebel?



As Salamu Alakium Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barkatu,


I would DEFINATLY marry someone with abeard. It is fardh. I dont think I would even consider a brother if he didnt have a beard, unless there was some excellent great super reason why he couldnt grow one.



-UmmMujahid

[janathi]

:salams

Beard! :inlove: ........anybody who follow's the Sunnah of the prophet :saw: indeed gains the pleasure of Allah(swt)! Subhan'Allah how beautiful is that! :love:

:wswrwb:

[Ar-Raya]

there are some brothers who don't have beards for good reason...
But most do not have good reason...

All you sisters that don't like moustaches...Is that Bearded brothers that have moustaches...or moustaches on there own which you don't like

Vote A) Bearded Brother with Moustache
Vote B) Bearded Brother with Trimmed Moustache (sunnah to trim the moustache and grow the beard)
Vote C) Bearded Brother with totally no moustache hair cz iTZ in Da Bin MAn
*smiles*

[Niqaabi]

B

i dont like moustaches anyways :p

[janathi]

B

i dont like moustaches anyways :p

:salams

Na'am 'B' !! coz its Sunnah! :love:

:wswrwb:

[MalikOne™]

i mean the modern sikhs, they all have gotee box ugly looking things

oh seen I aint talkin about them box goatee ones im talking the ones that start from ur chin and go down- the o.g ones :p

[Nawar]

Defo a bearded bro with trimmed moustache.....option B man..

When they have zilch moustache, that just looks dodgy...

And moustache only is iN dA biN.....forget that

[RaNdOm]

:salams

Na'am 'B' !! coz its Sunnah! :love:

:wswrwb:

snap...:)

plus isnt moustaches alone for the christians.....beards alone for the jews... and both for the muslims

[Khadhijah]

Moustache alone is quite scary.

Beard rocks!! It is the symbol of a muslim man and the sunnah of our Beloved :saw:

[Niqaabi]

beards dont rock, they wave about in the wind :love::p@)

[*IslamicGirl*]

:start:

:salams

One of the requirements of my spouse to be is he has a beard- no beard means points deducted :D


As long as he tries that's all that matters, there's a brother here whose beard only grows on one side yet the Niyaah is still there :up: so any excuses about 'oh workplace doesn't accept' is a :nono: for me.


They've entered the minus numbers :D

:salams

[Nightfall]

Beard is fardh, so i would prefer to marry a muslim man with a beard. Although i would prefer a man to leave his beard to grow, a short beard is better then no beard. As no beard means he is imitating the kuffar.

[TEH]

I love the whole judging thing you know, so like, he doesnt have a beard, WHAT A KAAFIR FACE.. :eek: Could you liken the whole beard thing to hijaab? Anyway, my mummy dearest says that clean shaven men artn men... :hidban:

Im gonna force my husband to have a beard, or if not, he can choose, Beard or Niqaab... :eek:

[K@M]

I thought you were a guy :eek:

HOMO is haram man, just cos they got no beard dont give you an excuse.

[elefantebianco]

salaams...

i think the beard is part of the male hijaab...obviously its not as fard as the scarf (to some) but i believe its nearly a fard.... and im not goin to get into that argument...but sometimes the brothers fgt that ther is a dress code for them too.....i mean they shouldnt try and imitate the kuffar with all this gangsta wear u see...and they shud try and wear there trousers above their ankles...and dress modestly....and why not follow the sunnah of the prophet.....i mean im not saying never wear english clothing but wen u pants are hanging off its like wtf...i mean who would u like to look like...the kuffar or the sahaaba...i jst think its really imp for brothers to look like brothers...so u cn tell they are muslim too

A beard is a given it goes with out saying....;)

[Irfan GBH]

I love the whole judging thing you know, so like, he doesnt have a beard, WHAT A KAAFIR FACE.. :eek: Could you liken the whole beard thing to hijaab? Anyway, my mummy dearest says that clean shaven men artn men... :hidban:

Im gonna force my husband to have a beard, or if not, he can choose, Beard or Niqaab... :eek:

Aren't you a brother? Wierdo...:p

Anyways I do not want a wife who has beard or moustache, woman should not look like man. Man should not look like woman. Things can get very confusing in the dar ul kufr....:confused:

[Niqaabi]

salaams...

i think the beard is part of the male hijaab...obviously its not as fard as the scarf (to some) but i believe its nearly a fard.... and im not goin to get into that argument...but sometimes the brothers fgt that ther is a dress code for them too.....i mean they shouldnt try and imitate the kuffar with all this gangsta wear u see...and they shud try and wear there trousers above their ankles...and dress modestly....and why not follow the sunnah of the prophet.....i mean im not saying never wear english clothing but wen u pants are hanging off its like wtf...i mean who would u like to look like...the kuffar or the sahaaba...i jst think its really imp for brothers to look like brothers...so u cn tell they are muslim too

A beard is a given it goes with out saying....;)
:rotfl: @pants hanging off!

yeah i agree with the whole male hijaab thing. even though a lot of sisters find the beard :inlove: the bro woundnt be accountable for it, so no using that excuse brothers:p

[elefantebianco]

:rotfl: @pants hanging off!

yeah i agree with the whole male hijaab thing. even though a lot of sisters find the beard :inlove: the bro woundnt be accountable for it, so no using that excuse brothers:p

its true...they are al gangsta and its like dudes...whr ur clothes properly...bt i think in the next isoc newletter me and grapes are goin to do an article on the male hijaab...they go on bout what we shud wear so watch me put them to shame...nah im kiddin...bt i think i will address the issue...

[Niqaabi]

its true...they are al gangsta and its like dudes...whr ur clothes properly...bt i think in the next isoc newletter me and grapes are goin to do an article on the male hijaab...they go on bout what we shud wear so watch me put them to shame...nah im kiddin...bt i think i will address the issue...
its best to address it in a befitting matter.
Not ridicule them, but tell them why it is better to dress like a muslim bro sunnah style then with their trousers hanging down their ankles :rolleyes:

[elefantebianco]

its best to address it in a befitting matter.
Not ridicule them, but tell them why it is better to dress like a muslim bro sunnah style then with their trousers hanging down their ankles :rolleyes:

i would never ridicule anyone insha'Allah, i will jst give them an article backed up with quraan and sunnah...surly i can not add to this deen just give them a lil reminder...may Allah forgive me if it came across in an arogant way for surly Allah swt will not allow one into janaah if they have an atoms wieght of arogance so may He protect us all from this disease of the soul...

[Quest]

Yes i would most defintely want him to grow a beard.
and i pray the characteristics of a true muslim come along with it. no point having a beard yet the brother is a flirt or corrupt (examples)

my reasons for wanting him to have one?

i would want him to be seated closest to rasoululaah scw in the next life, the closest sitting by him are those whom followed him to the letter.

my second reason, is for my own self benefit, u see i want to be able to remember muhammed scw when ever i look at my husband, this will encourage me to be good.

if he refuses to grow the beard, i wont freak out, my injunction is take a brother with a good heart and whom prays his salat then polish him up :_)

the power of a woman can accomplish the rest with ALLAHs mercy. men tend to listen when u are patient, and when they see you yourself are upright

after all behind every great man there is a great woman no?

peace be upon those whom follow the guidance

[Te'oma]

after all behind every great man there is a great woman no?



Yupp usually nagging him about what a deadbeat he is too :D j/k...*ducks and runs away*

[Quest]

Yupp usually nagging him about what a deadbeat he is too :D j/k...*ducks and runs away*

lol thats right u run :up:

[Niqaabi]

Yupp usually nagging him about what a deadbeat he is too :D j/k...*ducks and runs away*
haha, i was wondering when a brother would come and make this comment :p
Yeah i like your points Quest! And i think the remembering the prophet :saw: when you look at him is an excellent point! :up:

But, would any sisters marry a bro without a beard? :rolleyes:

[Na'eemah]

Yeah , i would like him to have a beard inshallah

[ur_yusra]

haha, i was wondering when a brother would come and make this comment :p
Yeah i like your points Quest! And i think the remembering the prophet :saw: when you look at him is an excellent point! :up:

But, would any sisters marry a bro without a beard? :rolleyes:

erm.. well if he was good in deen.. i'd tell him to grow it first then I'd marry him.. OR.. I would at least like to see some hints that he is growing it..

To be honest I don't judge brothers by their beard anymore.. in terms of how good they are in the deen.. this is because my eyes have been opened up to the world of hoax.. because of something that happened to a sister I know..

So really to judge a man by the length of his beard is naiive.. one MUST look at his character and MUST find out exactly HOW GOOD he is in his deen.. then if he doesnt have a beard you can push him to do so.. even if that is after marriage..

If his heart is in the right place the outward can easily be altered according to what pleases you.. i.e the beard. But if he has a beard but no substance.. then.. whats the point?

[TinyTerror]

Beards are so pretty mashAllah :embar:

I wouldn't marry a man without a beard cuz i would find him unattractive :outta:

[Immanuel]

im growing a beard

[Immanuel]

im growing a beard

[ur_yusra]

im growing a beard

cool .. :up:

[Immanuel]

im growing a beard

[ur_yusra]

im growing a beard

yes we know.. you've said it three times.. :rolleyes:

[SoulAsylum]

erm.. well if he was good in deen.. i'd tell him to grow it first then I'd marry him.. OR.. I would at least like to see some hints that he is growing it..

To be honest I don't judge brothers by their beard anymore.. in terms of how good they are in the deen.. this is because my eyes have been opened up to the world of hoax.. because of something that happened to a sister I know..

So really to judge a man by the length of his beard is naiive.. one MUST look at his character and MUST find out exactly HOW GOOD he is in his deen.. then if he doesnt have a beard you can push him to do so.. even if that is after marriage..

If his heart is in the right place the outward can easily be altered according to what pleases you.. i.e the beard. But if he has a beard but no substance.. then.. whats the point?

Yeh true UR yusra........

Beard does'nt mean anything, outside a veneer of piety, on the inside filthy as Crap. I've learnt that as well.
Many brothers wear beard and lonk kurtas and thawb but through experience with them they are the dirtiest and most dishonest people on the earth.

1 example......today i was standing at the bus stop and a pakistani girl was waiting for the bus as well. Then this old pakistani guy with full beard and the works comes and stands right up close next to her. I could tell she was uncomfortable, i was gonna do some'at but thought better of it.

The bus came, the guy motions for the girl to get on in his false gentlemen way, whilst leering at her, the girl does'nt cuz she was waiting for a next bus, so was i. Then this P*** has to get on and look like a fool cuz he thought this girl was gonna on the same bus as well.

[Al Qadr]

Beards are so pretty mashAllah :embar:

I wouldn't marry a man without a beard cuz i would find him unattractive :outta:


Awww, Insha'Allah ull marry a bearded man :up:

[jimm]

i had a beard up until 2 days ago.

what does that make me now?

[Niqaabi]

i had a beard up until 2 days ago.

what does that make me now?
an unbearded jimm.

I dont base piety on the beard, i wouldnt base piety on the length of the beard anyway.
However, the beard is fardh and i wouldnt like to marry a brother without a beard, and i dont think my family would agree to it either unless he had a valid reason.
so long as he has hair on his face, im down with that :cool: