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Jamati
07-01-06, 06:21 PM
Asalamualikum

I am a high school student in Mississauga Ontario, i use to live in Scarborough, the problem I am having is that my new school does not allow me to wear my topi(hat) in school. Now I did not had this problem in my old school. in a way im a religious leader of my school since I lead the Jummah prayers and brothers come to ask my question may Allah give me hidayah.

soo let me start from the beginning i didn’t use to be a very good Muslim but mashAllah Allah showed me the way, I am a hafiz but when i came to Canada i was just so amazed by the world so i just stopped caring about Islam they ways of the profit and my one true lover Allah. Now mashAllah i have been going on jamat for a year now, i try to go every month for 3 days. Now the thing is I use to wear topi in my old school I use to wear it all the time and one said any thing to me the teachers now why I wore it soo it was cool, but for last few months I moved to a new area and though the Muslim community is nice here I just don’t feel the love amongst the brothers.

I think I should get to the point on the very first day of school I wore a topi and there were bunch of teachers who looked at me as if I was a member of or world famous organization “Al Qaeda” well had some arguments and on second day same thing and I was sent to the office, I talked to the principal and stuff now I am not a very strong person in argument so I couldn’t defend my self very well and they stripped me of my topi, and I really cryed that day this hate for my Muslim brothers grew because I blamed them because no one ever wore a topi in that school. So for some months I didn’t wear a topi in school but first thing when I went out side of school was to put on my topi. Just last month well last few days of 2005 I was on jamat again and I found out that profit Muhammad (SAW) always use to wear a topi and though its not a fardh or wajib or a sunnah that must be don’t its still one of the most common sunnah of profit and his companions. Now I talked to the imam sahib of my masjid and told him about the problem I am having with my school and he said that “its ok take it of because you are amm I don’t know the word so im gong to say it in urdu "Majboor" soo its ok, allah will understand your struggle and he knows whats in your heart and why your dong this” now I have respect for my imam sahib but it does not feel right in my heart soo my question to you is what should I do?