Sister in need- Can a sister on Ummah.com help???

[Abu Hurairah]

Well I really wasn't too sure where best to post this but came across this on a Muslim bulletin and basicly really just felt like helping but I am a bro (and fear falling into some form of fitnah by trying) and think the sister concerned requires the solace, nasihah, and comfort that only a fellow sister can provide her.

Please read details below- please do not reply here, and whatever else please, please no time wasters, bad minded people, etc. If you can assist please do so (hide your good deeds to preserve your ikhlas insha'allah).

Jezak'allah to you whether you can or can't assist.


FEMALE MUSLIM COUNSELLOR REQUIRED

I am a Muslim woman who has been through horrendous life experiences and am struggling with my own madness and pain. I am all alone in my suffering and have felt let down by the Muslim community, and cannot face life any more. This struggle prevents me from living any kind of life and therefore I plead to any female Muslim counsellor out there who is willing to offer me some of their time to help me out of this struggle. If you want to help then please contact me on ruqqai@yahoo.co.uk. May Allah (swt) reward you.

[witty]

put her in touch with the muslim youth helpline.

[Abu Hurairah]

put her in touch with the muslim youth helpline.

Sorry sister(s) I was kind of hoping (please just do it) that one of the sisters here would take a lead- either assist or show the person concerned others that can. I would have done so by now already and am not being lazy but this is an aukward scenerio and I thought and still maintain perhaps here its best if a female Muslimah takes a lead, Allahu Alam.

May Allah (swt) reward us all for all that we do and all that we intend insha'allah.

[Ayah]

I'll try to send her an email today or tomorrow insha Allah. Although I'm not considered a qualified counselor, I have a little bit of experience in counseling. Sometimes, people need to "let it all out" so as a sis, I'll offer to be a listener (or reader to be more precise). :) I'll also see if I could put her in touch with others more qualified.

~Ayah

[musalimah]

Aslam o alaikum wr wb,


they have very good muslim female counselllors on islamonline.com too. InshaAllah i''l mail her n let her now abt it InshaAllah.

JazakAllahu khairun

walaikum aslam wr wb

[Abu Hurairah]

Insha'allah Allah (swt) will give you all his just rewards- Ameen. :up:

[Serina]

Assalam Alaikum


This sister does not want to see a counsellor or talk about her problems. She wants money.

[Eman888]

Serina

did you email her? I just emailed her n saw your response...

oops...

what's wrong with her?

[Serina]

Assalam Alaikum

I don't want to backbite her or reveal her problems. I just want to highlight that she is not interested in seeing a qualified female muslim counsellor. She wants cash.

[almas_diamond]

salaam! im a new member jus registered today actually, my frend told me bout this site n thort id sign on n learn sum new things n pass on the little i no too!! came across this thread and wanted to help but as i red on sum of u tlkd about this sister wanting money so im bit cnfused? jus wondering if anyone has tlkd to this particular sister. if u cud lemme no then i cud mail her n find out her situation n try n help her wherever possible inshaAllah!

[muslim warrior0]

salaam! im a new member jus registered today actually, my frend told me bout this site n thort id sign on n learn sum new things n pass on the little i no too!! came across this thread and wanted to help but as i red on sum of u tlkd about this sister wanting money so im bit cnfused? jus wondering if anyone has tlkd to this particular sister. if u cud lemme no then i cud mail her n find out her situation n try n help her wherever possible inshaAllah!
well you could email her, chat to her, but dont hand over money in any way.
there are many scams going on currently by email.
even if u do chat to her by email dont get fooled after a while when she asks for money.

[Khadhijah]

I emailed her quite a few times and yeah like sis Serina said she wants money to help her pay off for a treatment.

She lives in UK... She said that if no one believes her then they could come and see her... She has facial disfigurement.

I dunno she seems really genuine. Allahu a3lam. But if any sisters that contacted her live in UK then could they go and see her. Insha Allah for the sake of Allah.

[Ayah]

I spoke to her as well. If you live in the UK, maybe you can help her out.. point her in the direction of islamic charities or mosques that may assist her.

[Salman Al-Farsi]

i forwarded it to my friends wife and she said the same thing.

its one of those nigerian conman things... BEWARE.

[Abu Hurairah]

i forwarded it to my friends wife and she said the same thing.

its one of those nigerian conman things... BEWARE.

If this is confirmed 100% than I do apologise as I do not know this sister at all, in fact I do not know any sisters at all- I am no Nigerian and also no conman. Also it clear you should avoid her, sending money to her is not a wise move to make at all.

I thought the sister was in genuine problem and as the info did say 'Female Counsellor Required' I had no clue it was money related, I thought only good- perhaps she needs advice, nasihah, friendship, etc. and sought as a Muslim at least to do my bit to assist her but through permissible means.

Allah (swt) will reward whom were sincere and made efforts to assist- Amee.

Allahu Alam

[Ayah]

I thought the sister was in genuine problem and as the info did say 'Female Counsellor Required' I had no clue it was money related, I thought only good- perhaps she needs advice, nasihah, friendship, etc. and sought as a Muslim at least to do my bit to assist her but through permissible means.


Nah, don't worry about it.. You had good intentions, and Allah will reward you for that insha Allah. Allahu a3lam, she may really be in need & may not have the resources or connections to seek help. If so, may Allah send her ppl who can assist her.

~Ayah

[Eman888]

I don't think she's very genuine...

she told me she needs 100 pounds for books....

(not for any treatments)...