warning 4 women

[newnida]

LET THIS TRUE STORY SERVE AS A WARNING

To the men : warn your loved ones!
To the women : remember this!

About a month ago there was a woman standing by the Mega Mall
entrance
passing out flyers to all the women going in. The woman had written
the
flyer herself to tell about an experience she had, so that she might
warn other women.

The previous day, this woman had finished shopping, went out to her
car
and discovered that she had a flat. She got the jack out of the
trunk and
began to change the flat.
A nice man dressed in business suit and carrying a
briefcase walked up to her and said,

"I notice you're changing a flat tire.

Would you like me to take care of it for you?"

The woman was grateful for his offer and accepted his help. They
chatted
amiably while the man changed the flat, and then put the flat tire
and
the jack in the trunk, shut it and dusted his hands off.

The woman thanked him profusely, and as she was about to get in her
car, the man told her that he left his car around on the other side
of the mall,

and asked if she would mind giving him a lift to his car.

She was a little surprised and asked him why his car was on other
side.

He explained that he had seen an old friend in the mall that he
hadn't seen for some time and they had a bite to eat and visited
for a while;

he got turned around in the mall and left through the wrong exit,
and now he was running late and his car was clear around on the
other side of the mall.

The woman hated to tell him "no" because he had just rescued her
from
having to change her flat tire all by herself, but she felt uneasy.

Then she remembered seeing the man put his briefcase in her trunk

before shutting it and before he asked her for a ride to his car.

She told him that she'd be happy to drive him to his car, but she
just
remembered one last thing she needed to buy. She said she would
only be
few minutes; he could sit down in her car and wait for her; she
would be as
quick as she could be.

She hurried into the mall, and told a security guard what had
happened;

the guard came out to her car with her, but the man had left.

They opened the trunk, took out his locked briefcase and took it
down to
the police station. The police opened it (ostensibly to look for ID
so
they could return it to the man). What they found was rope, duct
tape and
knives.

When the police checked her "flat" tire, there was nothing
wrong with it; the air had simply been let out. It was obvious what
the
man's motive was, and obvious that he had carefully thought it out
in
advance.

The woman was blessed to have escaped harm.

How much worse it would have been had she waited in the car

while the man fixed the tire, or if she had a baby strapped into a
car seat.

Or if she'd gone against her judgment and given him a lift.

I'd like you to forward this to all the women you know.

It may save a life. A candle is not dimmed by lighting another
candle. I
was going to send this to the ladies only; but guys, if you love
your
mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to pass it
on to
them, as well.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that
the
world we live in has a lot of crazies in it....better than sorry.

PLEASE BE SAFE AND NOT SORRY!

JUST A WARNING TO ALWAYS BE ALERT AND USE YOUR HEAD!!!

Pass this long to every woman you have access to. Never let your
guard
down.

SOMETIMES, THAT FEELING IN YOUR GUT IS THE VOICE OF GOD. TRUST OUR
INSTINCTS!!
One of the keys to happines is to have bad memory

[abdusamad]

This is a very good reminder for all of us, but however a muslimaah should never accept such a plea from a stranger.



and all of us have to bear this in mind even the fellas, there a few muscalar women with black belts which probably can chop us in pieces. So ye, watch out for women who ask for a lift and a briefcase.



Good Thread. :up:

[PaGaL~LaDo0]

aye aye AYE man datz scry i gt a e-mail lak dat but itz diff hld up



>> >>>
>> >>>After reading these 9 crucial tips, forward them to someone
>>you
>> >>>care
>> >>>about. It never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we
>>live
>> >>>in.
>> >>>
>> >>>1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on
>> >>>your body.
>> >>>If you are close enough to use it, do!
>> >>>
>> >>>
>> >>>2.Learned this from a tourist guide in New Orleans. If a
>>robber
>> >>>asks for
>> >>>your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away
>> >>>from
>> >>>you....chances are that he is more interested in your wallet
>> >>>and/or purse
>> >>>than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN
>>THE
>> >>>OTHER
>> >>>DIRECTION!
>> >>>
>> >>>
>> >>>3.If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the
>> >>>back tail
>> >>>lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like
>> >>>crazy. The
>> >>>driver won't see you, but everybody else will. This has saved
>> >>>lives.
>> >>>
>> >>>
>> >>>4.Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,
>> >>>eating,
>> >>>working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making
>>a
>> >>>list,
>> >>>etc.
>> >>>DON'T DO THIS!)The predator will be watching you, and this is
>>the
>> >>>perfect
>> >>>opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun
>>to
>> >>>your
>> >>>head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR
>>CAR,
>> >>>LOCK
>> >>>THE
>> >>>DOORS AND LEAVE.
>> >>>
>> >>>
>> >>>5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot,
>>or
>> >>>parking
>> >>>garage:
>> >>>a .)Be aware: look around you, look into your car! , at the
>> >>>passenger side floor, and in the back seat.
>> >>>b .)If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from
>>the
>> >>>passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by
>> >>>pulling them
>> >>>into their vans while the women are attempting to get into
>>their
>> >>>cars.
>> >>>c .)Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your
>>vehicle,
>> >>>and
>> >>>the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat
>> >>>nearest your
>> >>>car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get
>>a
>> >>>guard/policeman to walk you back out.
>> >>>IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better
>>paranoid
>> >>>than
>> >>>dead.)
>> >>>
>> >>>6.ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells
>>are
>> >>>horrible
>> >>>places to be alone and the perfect crime spot. This is
>>especially
>> >>>tru! e
>> >>>at NIGHT!)
>> >>>
>> >>>7.If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control,
>> >>>ALWAYS
>> >>>RUN!
>> >>>The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100
>>times;
>> >>>And
>> >>>even
>> >>>then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN,
>>Preferably !
>> >>>in a
>> >>>zig -zag pattern!
>> >>>
>> >>>
>> >>>
>> >>>
>> >>>8.As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP. It
>>may
>> >>>get you
>> >>>raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a
>> >>>good-looking, well
>> >>>educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of
>>unsuspecting
>> >>>women.
>> >>>He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked "for help"
>>into
>> >>>his
>> >>>vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his
>>next
>> >>>victim.
>> >>>
>> >>>************* Here it is *******
>> >>>9.Another Safety Point: Someone just told me that her friend
>> >>>heard a
>> >>>crying baby on her porch the night before last, and she called
>> >>>the police
>> >>>because it was late and she thought it was weird. The police
>>told
>> >>>her
>> >>>"Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door."
>> >>>
>> >>>The lady then said that it sounded like the baby had crawled
>>near
>> >>>a
>> >>>window, and she was worried that it would crawl to the street
>>and
>> >>>get run
>> >>>over. The policeman said, "We already have a unit on the way,
>> >>>whatever
>> >>>you
>> >>>do, DO NOT open the door." He told her that they think a
>>serial
>> >>>killer
>> >>>has
>> >>>a baby's cry recorded and uses it to coax women out of their
>> >>>homes
>> >>>thinking that someone dropped off a baby. He said they have
>>not
>> >>>verified
>> >>>it, but have had several calls by women saying that they hear
>> >>>baby's
>> >>>cries
>> >>>outside their doors when they're home alone at night.
>> >>>
>> >>>Please pass this on and DO NOT open the door for a crying baby
>> >>>----This
>> >>>e-mail should probably be taken seriously because the Crying
>>Baby
>> >>>theory
>> >>>was mentioned on America's Most Wanted this past Saturday when
>> >>>they
>> >>>profiled the serial killer in Louisiana.
>> >>>
>> >>>I'd like you to forward this to all the women you know. It may
>> >>>save a
>> >>>life. A candle is not dimmed by lighting another candle. I was
>> >>>going to
>> >>>send this to the ladies only, but guys, if you love your
>>mothers,
>> >>>wives,
>> >>>sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to pass it onto them,
>>as
>> >>>well.
>> >>>
>> >>>Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded
>>that
>> >>>the
>> >>>world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it's better to
>>be
>> >>>safe
>> >>>than sorry.

[Abu Haq]

Na'am our sisters really need to take care of themselves more, there are so many nutters out there just waiting to prey on females- let alone Muslim females.

Try to take care.

[Abu Haq]

24 Safety Tips for Muslim Women
By Samana Siddiqui


As Muslims and their institutions become targets of harassment in the wake of the September 11 terrorist attack, Muslim women, especially those who dress Islamically, have become major targets.

Reports of Muslim women being yelled at, threatened, having their Hijabs pulled off and having guns pointed at them have surfaced. It is necessary that the whole community rallies to defend Muslim women. But sisters also have to take personal precautions when they go outside. Like it or not, they will be targets.

Here are some safety tips for sisters:

1. Always be aware of your surroundings

This applies whether you are traveling alone or in groups. Don't just focus inwardly on your thoughts if you are alone, or your friends if you are together. Keep one eye out for your environment, looking out for suspicious characters, possible danger, etc.

Also, don't assume that because your area has been "safe" thus far, that it will continue to be so.

2. Travel in groups

"There is safety in numbers" is not just a cliché. It's true. Make a point of travelling together with other sisters, whether it's on public transportation, on campus, in cars, etc.

3. Change the route you normally travel by

If you've taken the same bus, train or highway to get to work or school, change your route. Even if it takes you a little longer, your safety is more important. By changing your route, you can avert possible attacks or
harassment from those who know your schedule, method and route of travel well. Please note though that you should avoid short cuts that take you through unfamiliar or unsafe areas.

4. Look confident

Walk with a straight posture and your arms swinging by your sides. Avoid slouching or walking like a victim. This makes you an easy target for attackers.

5. When riding by public transportation choose the right seat

If you are riding by bus or train, do not sit on the window seat as you may be "blocked in" by a potential assailant. Always select the seat next to the aisle so that you can quickly leave if necessary.

If you are taking public transportation alone after peak hours, sit as close to the driver as possible and/or choose the section of the bus/train that is most crowded. Try to get a seat near the exit as well.

6. If you are driving alone

Don't think that if you are in a car, you're safe. Windows should be up and doors locked even when driving to avoid unwanted passengers at intersections. When you are walking to your car, always have your keys
ready, so that you can quickly get into your car.

But don't just get in right away. Always check your car before entering, especially the back, for any intruders.

7. Never leave your car door unlocked

Even if it means for one minute to drop something off in the mailbox that's
a few feet away. Attackers have been known to lie in wait for such an
opportunity.

8. Be careful in parking lots

Always be alert in parking lots, especially when it's dark. Ask someone to escort you to your car. Between cars and inside cars, it's easy for someone to hide and wait until an unalert person comes along.

9. If you are travelling by taxi

Always check the identification of the driver (usually located near the visor) and ensure that it matches the driver. Once inside, don't sit behind the driver as it may be easy for the driver to lock the rear passenger door. Always choose the adjacent seat .

In addition, avoid flagging taxis. Always order taxis so the driver can be traced if something happens.

10. Don't use the walkman

If you're used to listening to your walkman while outside, drop this habit, especially in isolated areas. With your walkman on, you cannot hear the approach of a possible attacker.

11. Note "safe houses" along your route

Mentally note houses at intervals on each route you take that can be used as "safe houses" if you are attacked, such as shops or houses that you know to be occupied by a friend or acquaintance.

12. When you make a call from a phone booth

After dialling the number you wish to call always turn around so that you have your back to the phone and may see who or what is coming your way. You will then be able to tell the person to whom you are speaking that you may be in trouble and you may be able to use the weight of the phone as a weapon. The door of a telephone box could be used to wedge in the limbs of the attacker.

13. Do not open the door of your home without checking

DO NOT open the door to your home without first checking from a window, peephole or by asking and verifying who it is. Instruct children to do the same.

14. Report any suspicious activity around your home

If you see people loitering on the streets near your house, call the police on a non emergency number and report it.

15. Invest in a cell phone

This is an invaluable safety device. Keep it with you at all times and keep emergency numbers on it. Also, keep it next to your bed before you go to bed at night. Cell phones were first popularized by women as a security device, business people came later.

16. Parking tips

Avoid parking in areas that are not well lit. Where possible, park close to a school or work entrance or in a parking garage that has an attendant.

If you see a suspicious person approaching or hanging around near your parked car, turn around and go back to an area where there are other people. Try to get an escort to your car through the campus or job security or local
police.

17. Tell others about your whereabouts

Parents, spouses and friends should know where you are going and when you will be back, so that your absence will be noticed. Arrange a call in system with a friend if you live alone, whereby you call when you arrive home.

18. Trust your instincts

If you are walking somewhere and feel strange or scared, don't ignore this feeling. Take extra precautions by walking a little faster to get to a more populated or well-lit area or change the route you've been driving on.

19. If you think you are being followed, change your route and activity.

You can cross the street, change directions, or enter a populated building or store. Do whatever is necessary to avoid being alone with the person who is following you. Inform a police officer or security official about the follower.

20. Attract attention if you are in a dangerous situation.

Get others' to pay attention to what's happening to you if you are under attack or being harassed. You can alert others by honking a car horn or loudly describing what is happening.

21. NEVER admit that you are alone

If someone calls your home and asks if you are alone, NEVER admit it. Ask who the caller is. If they refuse to identify themselves, calmly hangup. Keep the radio on in the house so that callers will get the impression that others are in the home too. Instruct children to do the same when they pick up the phone.

22. Obscene phone calls

If you receive an obscene call or a crank call, do not talk to the caller. Hang up if the caller doesn't say anything, or as soon as s/he shouts obscenities. Hang up the phone calmly and do not slam it down. Note down the date and time of the calls. If they are persistent, inform local police.

23. If you are a student

Avoid studying in isolated classrooms in parts of the college campus that are not regularly patrolled by the school's security officers.

24. In large buildings take the elevator, not the stairwell

Stairwells are usually quiet and dark. Most people take the elevator. But if someone creepy gets on, don't hesitate to get off at the same time. Or, if someone is already on the elevator who you feel strange about, do not get on and wait for the next elevator.

[PaGaL~LaDo0]

6. If you are driving alone

Don't think that if you are in a car, you're safe. Windows should be up and doors locked even when driving to avoid unwanted passengers at intersections. When you are walking to your car, always have your keys
ready, so that you can quickly get into your car.

But don't just get in right away. Always check your car before entering, especially the back, for any intruders.


datz 1z vel scry man

[.: Rashid :.]

:nervous:

May Allah protect the Muslims.

-Rashid

[Abu Haq]

We are not trying to encourage scare-mongering amongst our sister but merely for them to be cautious and vigilent at all time insha'allah.

[.: Anna :.]

these things are really scary :S

best 2 keep ur husband with u at all times :embar:

[newnida]

thanks 4 the safety tips.

My hunch is ppl who do things like this r mentally sick & should be kept in an asylum.
As no normal human being could do such things 2 other human being…

&till date I’ have failed 2 understand the meaning of lust …is it feeling which abnormal males /females feel.

Ur comment

[newnida]

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[url="http://www.orkut.com/Community.aspx?cmm=1917385"]This is another scary story which i received through email .


(http://www.orkut.com/Community.aspx?cmm=1917385)Read on........
(http://www.orkut.com/Community.aspx?cmm=1917385)Mumbai police are facing a strange case of rape in which the victim has not even seen the criminal.There is a new way to rape women.
The victim left the office after work and saw a little child crying on the road. (http://www.orkut.com/Community.aspx?cmm=1917385)


Feeling pity for the child, she went and asked what happened. The child said,"I am lost.Can you take me home please?"
Then the child gave her a slip and told the girl where the address is. The girl, being an average kind person, didn't suspect anything and took the child there. And there when she arrived to the "child's home", she pressed the door bell,she received a shock as the bell was wired with high voltage, the
girl fainted.

The next day when she woke up, she found herself in an empty house up in the hills, with nothing on. She has never even get to see the face of the attacker...

Nowadays crimes are targeted on kind people. Next time if the same situation occurs, never bring the child to the intended place. If the child insist, then bring the child to the police station. Lost children are best send to police stations.

Please send this to all your female friends. Guys forward it to all the women you care about.

Take Care.

(http://www.orkut.com/Community.aspx?cmm=1917385)




(http://www.orkut.com/Community.aspx?cmm=1917385)

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[badr]

Sick ,sick people. I hope jahaanum keeps them nice and warm.

[Supernova Nebula]

i have turned blue out of fear....:(

[newnida]

i have turned blue out of fear....:(

this 1is 4 u, i simply love this story, whever i get depressed this story keeps me goin.
salam aiakum.... this is a true story which is basicly about the power of prayer .. it's quite a long story but it's worth reading it.



Muniba, a young Muslim university student, was home for the
summer.
She had gone to visit some sisters one evening & the time passed
quickly as each shared their various experiences of the past year.
She
ended up staying longer than she had planned. Evening came & Muniba
had
to walk home alone.

but she wasn't afraid because it was a small town and she lived
only a few blocks away. As she walked along under the tall elm
trees,
Muniba asked "God" to keep her safe from harm & danger. When she
reached the alley, which was a short cut to her house, she decided
to take
it.

However, halfway down the alley, she noticed a man
standing at the end, as though he was waiting for her. She
became uneasy & began to pray, asking for "God's" protection.
Instantly a
comforting feeling of quietness & security wrapped around her; she
felt as
though someone was walking with her. When she reached the end of the
alley, she walked right past the man & arrived home safely.
the following day, she read in the paper that a young girl had
been raped in the same alley, just twenty minutes after she had been there.
Feeling overwhelmed by this tragedy & the fact that it could
have been her, she began to weep. Thanking the Lord for her safety
& to
help this young woman, she decided to go to the police station. She
felt
she could recognize the man, so she told them her story. The police
asked her if she would be willing to look at a line up to see if
she could identify him.

She agreed & immediately pointed out the man she had seen in the
alley the night before. When the man was told he had been
identified, he immediately broke down & confessed.

The officer thanked Muniba for her bravery & asked if there was
anything they could do for her, she asked if they would ask the
man one question.

Muniba was curious as to why he had not attacked her. When the
policeman asked him,he answered, "Because she wasn't alone. She had
two
tall men walking on either side of her."

NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF PRAYER!
He, who loses money, loses much;
He, who loses a friend, loses much more;
He, who loses FAITH, loses ALL.

MAY THE LOVE OF GOD BE WITH YOU, MAY ALLAH FILL YOU WITH
RAHMA...

~~IsLaMiCsIsTeR ~~

[proximus]

i will make sure to gte a woman that knows how to chnage a car tire :)